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Universes

Posted Tuesday, January 21, 2025
23d
ENFJ
Sagittarius
I have a question... What do guys who have "Hey gorgeous/Hey beautiful" or something like that, as the opening of their bio, think it will accomplish? 🤔 It's like they think they're going fishing with a fishing net, when in fact they don't even seem to have a fishing rod or bait. 👀
Edit : Most peoole seem to have misread my question. I am specifically speaking of the greeting in a person's bio (on their profile) and NOT the first message, although that is off putting, indeed. #thoughts #randomthoughts #question01 #boo (edited)

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Grashopa
23d
ISTJ
Cancer
I dunno. I always try to start a first message with a kind greeting and then talk about what I liked in their profile and why I think we may be a good match then I ask them to have a look at my profile and to message me back if they would like then I hope that things are going well for them... This typically results in no response at all or sometimes a one and done reply if she is overly kind. I have to imagine that the "hey gorgeous" guys are probably fairing as good or better overall than I am. 🤷♂️. Hard to do worse than 0.
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Andy🇬🇧🦂🕷️💀
23d
ISFP
Scorpio
So glad I ain't like that
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Jiiin
23d
INTJ
Cancer
Indeed 🤧
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Mangirdas
23d
ENFJ
Libra
I think that line is part of the bait. Don't know the exact situation, but I guess the bait is just mimicking the first conversation when matched. But does it actually work? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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ElissaTrue
22d
INFJ
Aquarius
When I see this in someone's Bio I automatically think easy (looking for attention) and boring ( unimaginative) and lack of self confidence. So Yep it's a definite decline.🥱 (edited)
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𝔊𝔯𝔞𝔳𝔢ℜ𝔬𝔟
22d
ENFP
Cancer
They out themselves. It's slimy, but some people like that.

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7thResonance
18d
INTP
Lmaooooooooo. I wonder about that too. Some girls have weird or no bio too. Like what? Do you even exist?
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Andy
23d
INTJ
Aries
As someone who has been single for a very long time, I will offer the perspective that it can be difficult to want to put in a lot of effort when there is an overwhelming chance that it will not be reciprocated. Trained by dating apps, so to speak.
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Miguel
22d
INFJ
Sagittarius
2:59
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Viju
18d
ISFP
People should come up with some nice opening isn't it...it's very hard for a man to think...😂
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Dom
22d
ISTP
Sagittarius
I'm not one to do so myself and you can see that too, but to use the analogy you provided, casting a wider net improves chances, and as a personal anecdote, I've seen fish swim into landing nets too 😂😂😂 I think for most guys, our chances of matching on a dating app are so low that it really doesn't change much whether or not we do or not.
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