Astie

1mo

ISTJ
Gemini

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Only after one month

Only after one month After he tried to come back to me After the last time he talked so sweet to me He is there, standing so close to each other Hanging out at night Holding hand with another girl It's so easy for him To post it to my face Like it's not a big deal at all Meanwhile here I am Trying to convince myself Figuring out, should I give him another chance I'm so amazed at how easy for him To move on, from one to another Then he show me that I'm just an optional Am I sad? Yes, I am Do I regreting my hope? Yes, I do But I guess it's way better this way I deserve someone better, right? 😊 Someone that could treat me right Someone that will think that I'm his only one I'm pretty sure it will takes time For me to find that someone But I do believe my patience will bring me happiness Right now, I just wanna shout out in front of his face "Just go to hell, you big liar!" 👺 "You don't deserve me, not at all!" 😌

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Randy

1mo

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Do not be mad at him for changing his mind. Think about the men who've you probably made feel the same way. Would you want them to be mad at you for doing the same? I've been on both sides of these situations and the best thing to do is focus on yourself. For in time you will find someone who makes all these failed attempts fade away as you open the door into your new life.

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Astie

1mo

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Actually, it's not only about him changing his mind. It's more about his attitude. I don't know him for too long, but yet he show me how he really is. I'm grateful for it, even if in another side I'm still a bit mad. But at least, for now, I don't need to live my life with someone rude and manipulative. I cried last night, but now I feel way much better. I simply think like this, why should I be sad if I just lose someone who can't even respect my hobbies? So yeah... for now and later, I'll just focus on myself and then someday finding my Mr. Right (I mean those who can accept me as I am and always respect me without being so rude)

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Randy

1mo

INTJ
Pisces

5w4

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@Astie what did he do that was rude?

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Astie

1mo

ISTJ
Gemini

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@Randy When I said we need to talk, then he told me to tell him everything thats been bothering me, but in the middle of talks, he hang up the phone without saying anything. When I dont wanna do a thing, he forced me to do it for him. When I said I can't go to vacation with him, just both of us, without me telling my family, he told me to keep going without telling my fams. And many more. In another words, he can't even respect me well

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Randy

1mo

INTJ
Pisces

5w4

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@Astie sounds like you made a good decision.

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Astie

1mo

ISTJ
Gemini

8w7

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@Randy yeah... I rarely got close to a man, so when I feel so confuse about a man, I asked about it to my friends n fams. And they all said he isn't a good one for me. I better leave him and I shoudn't be with someone who can't even respect me the way he did.

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its_me_rozer

1mo

INFJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

why you not give him a flower and loudly says congratulations 😁😁to go away from my life

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Astie

1mo

ISTJ
Gemini

8w7

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Woahh... a nice idea! 😂 it sounds more interesting hahhaa

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its_me_rozer

1mo

INFJ
Gemini

8w7

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@Astie may be it will give you more space and some new enjoyment to your life and a big surprise gift to your ex 😁😁

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Astie

1mo

ISTJ
Gemini

8w7

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@its_me_rozer hahhaa i will just enjoy my life and forget him 🤭

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Randy

1mo

INTJ
Pisces

5w4

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I had a second thought after reviewing my comment. Makes me think what if the one i want thinks that about me. I wonder what she thinks when i have a conversations with the receptionist. How easy it is for me to talk to them and how silence i can be when we spend time together. However i wonder if she realizes and notice the signs I've subliminally shown her. My consistency in coming to see her. My silence means my comfortness around her. The smile/gleem in my eyes every time i see her. How the last night i "accidentally" dropped a fortune cookie with a special message for her. Like hansel and Gretel with the breadcrumbs finding their way home. I've learn that my actions speak louder than words so i hope she can quite her mind and focus on clues i leave behind. My passion for her is beyond physical and mental binds to these bodies of flesh. In time we will have our moment, however for now I'll show her my commitment to seeing her once a month. To give her time to understand I'm wanting to build to last.

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Astie

1mo

ISTJ
Gemini

8w7

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Actions will always speak louder than words, that's what I believe. I hope she can see your signs clearly. In my opinion, just treat a girl with respect. It's more than enough to get her feel more comfortable. At least, that's for me. I still remember when I was on phone with my ex, we were argueing, then he suddenly turn off his call while I was talking. It happen not only once, so it made me think that he was so rude 😪

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Randy

1mo

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5w4

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@Astie I think she will, but my thoughts like to run wild with probabilities. Anyways i think it would make someone mad hanging up, however I've heard from some people they do that because if the the argument doesn't come to a solution because emotions is involved. They will hangout to let things cool down. However if that was the case he could of been more vocal amd say I'm sorry but i think we need a break to calm down, think about a way to solve the problem, and let the emotions stay focused on making it work. However people also have a hard time communicating with each other. It may have been easier to hangup then to talk when you are both upset.

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Astie

1mo

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Gemini

8w7

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@Randy overthinking will still coming once in a while, but it's ok I guess. One thing you might don't know is I never talk directly when I'm still being emotional, so when I decide to talk to him, I already had my emotions under control. What made it worse is that he didn't even say sorry for his attitude. I even asked him what he wanna do if we are not in the same boat, but instead of giving me an answer, he choose to delete my number without telling me anything. He only said sorry for once, only when he tried to get back to me again, only that time.

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Randy

1mo

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Pisces

5w4

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@Astie I've done this a couple times and through my perspective. I did it because i didn't think we could work things out. It was hard for me to leave them but i knew if i stayed we would destroy each other.

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Astie

1mo

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Gemini

8w7

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@Randy yeah right... it's not easy, but actually it's better this way. After all that happen, somehow I feels like that I'm such a fool for keeping my hopes up for someone like him. But it's in the past now. At one point, I'm glad that I'm able to see his real face this fast

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