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Posted Friday, April 1, 2022
1y
INFJ
Sagittarius
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What makes you pass on someone? Even though I generally could care less about this window-shopping approach to talking to humans, even I dislike some aspects of the way people choose to present themselves. -not wearing a shirt (no, the gender does not matter) -first photo is of a sunset, a fishing trip or a rifle -gym photos (great that you like to workout but come on now, I am usually catching a spare moment here & there and having my lunch do not make me feel guilty for eating peanut butter out of the jar) -cat photos (you are trying to trick me into talking to you & that is not fair) -food pictures (why do we still take pictures of our food anyway? No one really likes to see them) And Capricorns. They always want to argue with me and tell me how illogical I am (I am kidding). (Sort of 😂)
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Reelika
1y
ISFJ
Capricorn
For me it's the lack of information on their profile. I usually use something that I have in common with the person or something I've found interesting, when reading their profile, to start a conversation. In person, going up to someone to say hi is fine, but online there is an option to give an idea of who you are. The way someone presents themself, usually tells me if I'd get along with them or not.
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Keiley "Moss" Neill
1y
ENFP
Scorpio
Immediate turn-offs: - No picture/No bio (I don't know who you are and I'm not into engaging with the wrong kind of weirdo. You could be anything or anyone) - simple answers to prompts (unless they are quirky one-liners, I don't get a feel for your personality; see above) - superficial language (I get that some of you on here are looking for hook-ups, but I'm not down and there's a reason why the first thing in my bio is that I'm taken. I want meaningful relationships) - hyperfixation on your dream partner (I'm never going to be that and the language you use might drive away anyone who might actually be perfect for. It's okay to put out what you like, but too many details can scare people off and then you seem superficial) - pictures that look like you're trying too hard to be a model (just be you. If that's you, then our personalities don't mesh. I don't mean to be harsh, but it relates to my previous two points) - bed shots (bedrooms are fine, but I don't need to see you dramatically laying on your bed like a sex god(dess)) - cliché responses to prompts (i.e. All I ask is that you be honest) - (this last one isn't negative) you just don't give me the sense that we would vibe. You could be an absolutely wonderful person, but there are things I know about myself and the company I usually (used to) keep. Keep shooting for the planets and find yourself among the right stars eventually (edited)
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Dylan
1y
ISFP
Pisces
Little effort in profiles is a big turn off for me at times. If a profile has nothing on it except a picture or two it's an instant left swipe. Otherwise people that put really cliched things on their profile. "I like going on adventures", "Don't lie or cheat one me" (which should really be a given) etc. etc. I really find creativity attractive. (edited)
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