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Geoffrey

20d

ENTJ
Taurus

1w9

1

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Being single is a blessing in disguise.

Now don't get me wrong, there are countless beautiful women out there, and I'm sure that many of them would make for some amazing partners. Sometimes I even feel tempted to get back into the game myself. But honestly, I've really learned to enjoy being single over the past couple of months. This means that I have time to work on myself, improve in various areas of my life, and continue growing as a person, all without responsibility and emotional investment that comes with being in a relationship. It's quite peaceful, and I wouldn't give that up for anything. Besides, the more you work on yourself and improve, the higher your confidence and self-esteem gets, and you'll feel like you have a sense of self-respect and self-worth. You can spend that time looking for new hobbies and even passions as well. Ironically, all of this will make you more attractive too, but you gotta do it for yourself. Most importantly of all, being single is a golden opportunity to embark on a healing journey. All of your past traumas, unhealed wounds, unpacked baggage, etc... Now is the time to dig deep, self reflect, and address these things so that they don't cause problems later. Getting into a relationship will not solve any of your problems. It will not fill that void inside of you, as only you are capable are doing that. And you must love yourself first in order to do so. That is why it's so important heal yourself as much as you can before trying to look for a relationship. Remember, you're looking for a partner, not a savior.

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Aaron

20d

ENTP
Leo

9w1

9

1

How much single time do you think you'll want to have? I agree with growing as an individual lacking the emotional investment of a relationship is a much easier way to focus inwards. I'm curious if at this point you'd prefer to stay single or do want a partner after the majority of the healing that you feel is most beneficial.

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Geoffrey

20d

ENTJ
Taurus

1w9

1

9

I'd love to find someone eventually! But there is no set amount of time, it's just a matter of whenever I can say with confidence that I'm ready.

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