Posted Wednesday, January 28, 2026
1mo
INFP
Aries
Some people get upset about me looking at their profiles and I dont respond to them reaching out.(Kinda shows I was right in doing so anyway cause I dont owe anybody a conversation) Or they just try to question me about it asking me what is it about them that made me not respond which is a trap most likely. So I have decided to make a list of reasons I don't respond to 98% of the people who hit me up. I'm bored so might as well offer some harsh clarity while I play Slay the spire ๐คท 1. You are not in the area. Tried long distance...it dont work. "Oh but you haven't tried it with me" No. I'm someone who needs affection and touch and not be depressed cause I can rarely see you. Even tried a relationship that was 4 hour driving distance from our two houses, didnt work. 2. You call me mommy, or start off with anything sexual. If you dont have any intention of showing me respect from the very beginning then bye ๐ (another thing to add is I think sex has really gone downhill. It has become a thing to satisfy fetishes over actual love and affection and I want no part of that. Sex is awesome but I want it the right way after we build a genuine connection) 3. You start off with a compliment on my appearance. I appreciate it, but I get that on the daily and it doesn't impress me. 4. You start off with "No I'm dirty dan" or something super similar and super basic SpongeBob quote. Again doesn't impress me. I know so many SpongeBob fans that I wouldnt want to date so it does not make you stand out at all. I mostly just put that in so that people know I will just randomly quote it on the daily (probably will mention that in my bio soon) 5. You are too old. Trying to keep it in the mid 20's to mid 30's. 6. Our values and habits are too different. Now that the harsh words are over here are some examples of ones I HAVE accepted. 1. Those who have wanted genuine friendship cause we have similar interests. 2. Showing me great kindness and even tho they want to be with me they reassure me that it's okay if I dont reciprocate the feeling in that way. 3. Talking to me about God in ways that speak to me. 4. Complimenting me in a way that's actually meaningful to me. 5. You are beautiful to me from the inside out. If you stand out to me with your bio and greeting, and actually take the time to get to know me, that's special to me 6. Our values align (I already explained everything I want and need in my bio) This isnt a post saying "do better guys" I just have a lot of respect for myself and what I want and most people just dont fit that criteria. That doesn't make you any less of a person tho and I'm sure you'll find someone just right for you โค๏ธ (edited)
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Breanna
1mo
ENFJ
Gemini
Say it louder for the people in the back. We ๐๐ป donโt ๐๐ป owe ๐๐ป you ๐๐ป anything! ๐๐ป We are people, we are complex and curious. We donโt owe anyone a hello or anything else. We look at your profile because it is there- just like you look at profiles and donโt connect with them. Anyone pretending they donโt find people on here that they donโt want to connect with is lying.
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AJ
1mo
INFP
2And for those of you who need to see this, you see how your own physical looks are not on this list. I mean this in the most complimentary way possible, but this is an example of being transparent about what you want. We all have different things that we're looking for, and ultimately the puzzle pieces either fit or they don't. It's truly not that serious, and the only thing owed to us in life is refunds for all the extra money we paid for groceries during COVID ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ. However, when dating, nobody is obligated to do anything unless you are in a committed, consensual relationship. We are all essentially weirdos on the internet, trying to find love in the least painful way possible, lol. The sooner we all realize that, the better I think the world will be.
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INFJ
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Charles
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INTJ
Virgo
A lot of these things, especially the age and distance preference (requirements?) need to be stated on your profile
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ISTP
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