When talking to someone new... Read their profile first! Not everyone puts forth the effort, but some people do. It shows respect and genuine interest towards that person. My rule of thumb is that if someone can't even put forth the effort to read my profile, then why would I believe they can put forth anymore effort to make a connection or maintain a connection? Someone who fails to put forth effort isn't worth my effort. It's give and take. So I'm not going to give and never receive. Mutual. 🤗 Actions speak louder than words, y'know?

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Kauffy

11mo

INTP

Virgo

What about people who read the profile, and then don't contact? I feel like we deserve a lot of credit. There are dozens of us! Dozens!

Sulli

11mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

Agreed, you deserve better girl

Phillip

11mo

ENFP

Cancer

IV been reading thousands now and making curated messages for each one I do send messages too. Noone bothers to even say not interested or hi back

TLBRF

11mo

INTJ

Pisces

Jaime

11mo

ISTJ

Gemini

I'm mean you definitely have a huge point about this for sure. Put fourth effort people 🥺🤗🙌🏼.

Riley

11mo

INTJ

Cancer

EXACTLY let them weed themselves out

Mike

11mo

INTJ

Aries

Idk it's been my experience that it doesn't matter if you read it or not, most people never respond and it's entirely random if you do get a response.. so it's about efficiency, why spend all day on the app when I can just swipe or message those who I find attractive in seconds since it's likely I won't get a response anyway

Khoal

11mo

ENTP

Taurus

Preach 🙌

JJCARPENTER44

11mo

ISFJ

Capricorn

Idk, what you are talking about. I would never talk to you.

Austin

11mo

ISTJ

Capricorn

Totally agree cause females don't take the effort in reading my profile either

Lynn

11mo

INFP

Pisces

Thats such a good message to be sending. I need all the help I can get towards finding someone who genuinely wants to reciprocate the effort I am willing to put in. So thank you very much for this.

Finn

11mo

ENFP

Virgo

Now i just wish people would actually put something in their bio

John Fernandes

11mo

ISFJ

Aquarius

👏👏👍❤️💕

Chainmale

11mo

INTP

Sagittarius

People should be happy, at least you know what you want. lol Love the bullet-points. Happy hunting.

Han

11mo

INTJ

Sagittarius

True

Shubham

11mo

ISTP

Gemini

Filter your face as much as you want but the gruelling valley to your heart can’t be missed.

Israel

11mo

ISFJ

Aquarius

Sometimes I read the same thing on multiple profiles that I believe they are blood related 🤔

Jewel

11mo

INTP

Sagittarius

Shano

11mo

ISTP

Capricorn

You are right

Truth

11mo

INTJ

Aquarius

A total intj take.

M Usman

11mo

ISTP

Pisces

Agreed, Many answers are already in the profile.

Christopher

11mo

INFP

Aquarius

Very true

Nick

11mo

ENFP

Libra

Ngl in my case they'd shoot themselves in the foot if they don't read my profile 🤧

TheHappyGuitar

11mo

ISFJ

Aries

Well said 100 squadillion Percent 👏

Truth

11mo

INTJ

Aquarius

Because you're an isfj. Of course you wouldn't

Wade

11mo

ENTP

Gemini

Agreed! It usually answers basic questions like, “what are you here for?” Smh

Sainath

11mo

INTJ

Capricorn

Why are u looking more like a doll to me

Mayank Ankleshwariya

11mo

ESFJ

Cancer

Looking for a girl ❤️

Lucas

11mo

INFP

Cancer

Wait you know how to read?

Aiden Hardy

11mo

INTP

Virgo

I'm terrible at giving icebreakers, so I usually rely on the bio of someone I want to start talking. So if someone has no bio I'm kind of left at a disadvantage I would usually swipe left of ignore them because i cant think of an icebreaker without those references. I think i also have difficulty continuing a conversation if the a spark isn't showing I'm hard at picking out emotions or Inflections in text so if the responses are vague or plain my brain goes towards them being disinterested and i become more plain in my responses to its like a downward spiral. Hope your streaming career is going well and if its a ambition to make it you main income i hope it works out and I'm sorry your county voted in the orange man hope the next 4 years are just him being an incompetent leader who is all bark no bite and not a major fascist that removes your democracy.

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Leo

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ISTP

Gemini

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INFJ

Capricorn

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ISTP

Capricorn

hello

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23h

ENFJ

Aries

📷❤️‍🔥

Definition of sweet?of course me hahaha (edited)

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11mo

ISTP

Sagittarius

Happy B-day to me!

It's my birthday today! Didn't really get up to much, but I hope everyone else is having a good night tonight at least :)

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Aria

INTP

Gemini

Do you choose to not date transgender / nonbinary people over cis people if attracted to both and not take us seriously? If so why?

To be more specific, if you're speaking to a trans woman let's say...Why do you feel as if she is inferior or not as desired as a cis woman? I'm hearing a lot of you "wait it out" with a transgender/non binary person and then monkey branch to the cis person that gives you attention. I haven't had... read more

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Taurus

Fun

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11mo

INFJ

Scorpio

New hair cut

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13h

ISTJ

Leo

The wedding

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11h

ENTP

Aquarius

🖤

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10h

ISTP

Cancer

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19h

INTJ

Virgo

For the love of

Why do people like these stop and go conversations. They are super active for a day or two then go away for a week. Like can you just say you're busy or something......

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ENFP

Taurus

Starting over again

I left this app last month to choose the Man who I thought will be the one. I met him here. Sadly, how fast our love blossomed is how fast he changed and his loved died. Now I’m back here again. Still sticking through old fashioned love and being real. I hope to take a try again for the right Man.❤️

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12h

INTP

Cancer

Boredom visited me again.

Anyone to talk with? Friends? (edited)

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ISTJ

Nice weekend single people

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ISTP

Libra

Smile

Even if today isn't great. Smile. Make tomorrow your day! As long as you keep trying, that better tomorrow will come!

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23h

ISTJ

Virgo

Only if you shower

Your morning love to me.

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10h

INFP

Scorpio

Opinions and Sleep

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ENTP

Gemini

Looking for a gf comment if your interested

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22h

ESTP

Sagittarius

Anyone ever get that feeling like your with someone but you arent?

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21h

ISFP

Pisces

🥲💛🥲

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INFP

Leo

Peace 😝✌🏻

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Virgo

Story of my life

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Pisces

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INTP

Taurus

Workout partner and love partner

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Leo

Need someone who will touch my heart.

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14h

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Gemini

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Aquarius

Hate being single

Hi im 25 looking to meet new ppl and see where it gos

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Taurus

No matter what it's for ...

There's something nice about someone going out of there way to ask how you are or to make conversation especially for a guy on an app ... Because if we don't chase with offers of swooning and pampering it all just falls flat and the woman would say we didn't gel he had no banter so when someone... read more

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