Posted Friday, February 27, 2026
13d
ISTJ
Scorpio
I’ve been feeling really gloomy lately. I know I’m a loving, supportive, funny, and genuinely good person — someone who shows up for the people I care about. But for some reason, I haven’t been feeling like myself. I caught myself looking in the mirror wondering… why do I feel like I’m not good enough? Why does it feel like people always end up leaving me? I am honest getting tired of feeling this way maybe my personality is just too much? too sweet ? Too bubbly ? I don’t know 🤷🏻♀️
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Kevin
11d
ISTP
Leo
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5I hope you don't feel like that because of someone else, or because you're basing your worth on whether someone else wants you or not. I feel the same way all the time and have to always remind myself that I'm the one who gets to be in control of how I feel. Also, if it makes you feel any better, you're beautiful and you seem exceptionally kind, so you'll absolutely find someone who is obsessed with you. (edited)
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Eros
13d
ENTJ
Taurus
67
7I feel like this some times too. Like I know im a good person, every tells me I am. But everyone always leaves me eventually. And those that stick around only show up when they have problems they want to talk to me about. I just ignore the thoughts and try to focus on the good parts of my life. Talking to someone about it helps me too sometimes.
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rolando
12d
INTP
Cancer
I think you’re always good enough but not to everyone standards I mean there is a world filled with that kind of levels and that’s okay and it looks like you’re doing your best and that is worth it maybe you need a person who accepts you and I mean all of you and which I can relate to that feeling of it
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Peter
13d
ISFJ
Taurus
23
3It’s probably because your putting so much time and energy into making sure others are okay, and no one has taken the time to consider if your doing okay, your feeling invisible, but your beautiful and smart, chatting to you would make anyone feel great, just need someone to stimulate your interest 😊
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Mihail
12d
ENFJ
Leo
87
7It's normal to feel gloomy. Everyone wants to be constantly distracted with their phones just so they don't feel sadness and to not be alone with their thoughts. So instead of breaking down and allowing your body to counter it with serotonin you keep yourself medicated with short dopamine hits from videos and posts just so you can be constantly at a level of tolerable misery. (edited)
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Christian
12d
ISFP
Gemini
If you sre having a problem with your personality and you are being yourself it is not your problem it is the problem of the people you are with because they should love you or want to be around you for who you are. All what you said about yourself is so amazing so just keep being youself and the right people will come into uour life that appreciate you for you. You are important and you matter never forget that 🙂
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Eric
13d
INTP
Gemini
21
1You sound like an amazing, good person! And unfortunantly many people take advantage and use good people. Sounds like your burnt out. Tired of giving all that energy to people who probably didnt deserve it. Hopefully you can get some rest and find someone who returns that energy and helps you to feel bubbly and happy again!
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Liam
13d
INFP
Taurus
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Joe
12d
INTP
Sagittarius
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Micheal
9d
INFP
Gemini
I know exactly what you mean same issue here. Feels like I'm always the second best choice and I'm always being used while they look for someone better. The feeling every morning like your watching life pass you by. You want a family and a quite life but everything feels so disconnected. And alot of people feel like they can't trust the other side so interest in dating is dropping but there's a part of you that keeps pushing because maybe just maybe you might get lucky and have your happily ever after? Yea I get it... If your willing too talk and hang out I promise you two things. I'll always reply back (even if it takes me a bit work and all that) and I will never ask for anything. ( Mostly because I don't think I'm worth anything for me to ask anything) Effort was never my weakness but charm? Different story lol..
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Daniel
13d
ISTJ
Pisces
54
4You're letting these bad thoughts get to you. Simply just ignore those thoughts. That's what I do to make myself not feel gloomy.
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