I've been more social in real life lately

Started hanging out with coworkers since they invited me and said I need to stop being a hermit. Since then I've seen lots of 💊💊🍻🍻 use, them partying to no sleep while I go home at a decent hour, to watch them be late for work. And watched as 1 of my coworkers helped her 20 year old daughter get hooked up with a guy for (her words) 'strictly casual, I don't want a relationship or babies' while also complaining about how her other daughter wants nothing to do with her. She's a multiple divorcee btw, no surprise there, and she's highly disappointed in me because I've resisted her attempts at having a casual situationship with her, or her daughter. I like people, and I believe you all should live your life the way you want to, but if it involves chaos and poor choices, let me get back to my hobbies without judging me and I won't judge in return. I just want to maintain my peace and quiet and keep smashing my goals in life. (edited)