So... There's thisbeautiful person that i know for quite a while. at some point i feel in love but at this point i don't know when anymore.
The problem is she's 9 years younger than me. When i first met her she was clearly to young for me (in both a legal and ethical sense) now she's 22 and I'm 31. But i haven't told her how i feel. (At least not in a straight forward way)
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♥️ Silly_girl 😘
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Why u not try it...we don't know she had a feeling on u too...she only wait for u to say it or confess it... Will age doesn't matter if comes to love aslong u both have mutual feelings no problem with that..☺️
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Johannes
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@♥️ Silly_girl 😘 because i already get a lot of hugs and interest about my well-being and I'm weighing the risks of losing that
Today, Mostly if I fall or like someone I would say to her, but
there are times hesitations too for example when there is steepdifference in status. When she is a moon and I am a wolf, I can only gaze at the moonright.
Personally I wait. Just want to make sure it's not infatuation, also you could potentially put a lot of pressure on the other person as well, which is unfair to them. Probably not best to rush in blind
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Posted Saturday, April 8, 2023
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If you fall for someone do you wait to say so until it feels socially appropriate, or do you just spills your gut?
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I spill it and it has been mutual every time. No reason to hold back once it starts coming out of my mouth
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Thanks.. agreed 👍
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Not wasting anytime go gonna say like i always do 😇
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☺️👏👏
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Depends …. On the person
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Thanks sis ☺️🙏
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7mo
First of all, I love you, second, will you mary me?
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😳🤔😁
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Its only going to go bad if you don't wait for it to be appropriate. No need to gamble platonic potential and ruin things if the chemistry isn't there.
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Agreed
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So... There's this beautiful person that i know for quite a while. at some point i feel in love but at this point i don't know when anymore. The problem is she's 9 years younger than me. When i first met her she was clearly to young for me (in both a legal and ethical sense) now she's 22 and I'm 31. But i haven't told her how i feel. (At least not in a straight forward way)
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7mo
9w1
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Why u not try it...we don't know she had a feeling on u too...she only wait for u to say it or confess it... Will age doesn't matter if comes to love as long u both have mutual feelings no problem with that..☺️
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7mo
@♥️ Silly_girl 😘 because i already get a lot of hugs and interest about my well-being and I'm weighing the risks of losing that
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@Johannes oh I see.. will let your self as a priority first before others.. enjoy it while you're free..
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I spill my guts I don't want to have any regrets
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7mo
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Good 😊👍
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I only tell if i know/think it's mutual
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True
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Today, Mostly if I fall or like someone I would say to her, but there are times hesitations too for example when there is steep difference in status. When she is a moon and I am a wolf, I can only gaze at the moon right.
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7mo
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Oh nice one..👍
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7mo
I think I'm awkward to this day so I wait until I feel it's socially appropriate
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I personally think it's better to wait before saying so..i'm an old soul so i guess that's more romantic and has deeper sense.
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Listen to my intuitions
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Personally I wait. Just want to make sure it's not infatuation, also you could potentially put a lot of pressure on the other person as well, which is unfair to them. Probably not best to rush in blind
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