I don't usually make the "first move". Aka, reply when I accept their request. I'm usually not really good at starting conversations. It's basically, due to socializing. Online is hard but in person is harder. Would you reply or make the first move to say "hi"?

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Rei

INFP

Taurus

Why not? It's just a hi. Unless you are not into that person, just leave them. But how will you socialize if you will not try? It's fun to be out of your box sometimes, because the greater view is outside.

Dovud

INTJ

Virgo

Yeah of course I can make first move, it is not that hard. "Hello, how are you doing?" It is simple

Brandon

INTJ

Sagittarius

Depends, as a guy I get bored carrying conversations and making the effort all the time.

Isaiah

INTJ

Scorpio

Sure, why not? Some people are shy. Others are a bit sheepish. Sometimes, it's gonna start slow and build. Others, it burns out. Give people a chance.

Tama

INFP

Gemini

It's the strangest thing for me that when someone accepted my request or likes me back but they don't say hi. Makes me feel like do you really wanna talk to me or what? I'm not good at starting conversations either, but whenever I accept requests or likes someone back, I make sure to even just say "hi, how's it going" to let them know I'm interested in conversation with them.

Randy

INTJ

Pisces

I'm the same way so don't think i would unless i was in the right setting.

Adam

INFJ

Absolutely, i would try and make an effort and if your bio or you tell me your shy I'd be patient I know this can be hard

Kyle

INFJ

Gemini

I would make the first move to say hi or hello. Although my shyness might kick in, I would try to say hello and see how you’re doing.

Jaco

ISFP

Taurus

I usually make the first move but its not always met with a response

Jordan

ISTJ

Sagittarius

I always reply. But not so much making the first move anymore. Gets old being the only one who tries to start a conversation. Many people also say dont just say hi, it's boring but it's awkward trying to think of something good to start off with that doesn't sound cheesy

Brain Cells Matter

INTP

Libra

You are an INTP so it's normal you are on the quiet introverted side. You would get along well with an EN something since they are chatter boxes 😂 Fire cosplay btw

Jonathan

INFP

Capricorn

I always make the first move but nobody answers or text back any way. but this isn't a question for me I just wanted to put this out there

SurrealMartin

INTJ

Leo

I tend to always make the first move if I'm the one matching or shooting a text. I tend not to make the first move if they're the last one who matched. That's on them, then. Otherwise I read this as lack of interest. I also don't reply to "hi" messages. They bore me. (edited)

♥️ Silly_girl 😘

ISFP

Libra

As a woman I don't want to make a first move..🙈😁✌️✌️

Tabby

INFP

Virgo

I'm usually scared to make the first move especially when the person is attractive. But you'll occasionally see me awkwardly flirt

Mark

INFJ

Gemini

Being an introvert makes it very hard for me to start conversations but that is why I am actually on the site. Trying to make some new friends and get over that if I am able. So far it has been working.

Roy

ESTJ

Pisces

I often do. I usually look at their profile and try to figure out common thinga or things I like and start talking about that. But if I can't find something like that I may just wait for them. I don't think I have sent a just "Hi" or "Hey" message on here. Not to say that you shouldn't but I am a a bit more extroverted than others so I try to do my bit for all the introverts out there who have used all their courage in sending their request!

Bilal

INFP

Capricorn

I try to start the conversation first but I'm an introvert so don't know what exactly to talk about and most of the time i don't get a reply 😅

Eddie Rufiani

ENTJ

Libra

Saying "hello" or "hi" isn't really the hard part I believe. It's keeping the conversation going and worrying that you will be embarrassed by someone for speaking to them. But most people are more then willing to talk, you just have to speak up and be brave. Me personally I'm never afraid to speak up and say hi but that's just me.

Nick

INFJ

I've replied to quite a few "hi" messages that were sent to me when I saw we had a fair deal in common. It's always gonna be a gamble if I send a message or one is sent to me, what's important is taking the risk, otherwise doing nothing will yield nothing.

Bruno

INFP

Aquarius

I usually do the first move, simply because when I why don't nothing happens :/ But there's that rare species of women that message first, I favor them immensely

Nacguy

ISFJ

Capricorn

It’s refreshing when they make the first move. But also rare lol.

Gabriel Donaldson

INTJ

Pisces

I try to even tho I'm socially awkward and always nervous lmao I've learned if you don't put yourself out there you don't get seen ya know

Tomas

ENFP

Scorpio

mostly, always! because why not! it can be fun 😁

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