Ct Smacey

1mo

ISTP
Sagittarius

7w8

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I can't have a normal convo with men

Maybe it's just me. I'm putting on restraints better now. Most men that i accepted in most "dating app" only seems to lean toward sexual oriented conversation in the past and even now. I don't accept chats or friends on this app coz i want to avoid such conversations. Men scares me. So let's just exchange through post. 😊

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So sorry you are left feeling this way. Unfortunately there are a lot of men especially online who are only more interested in the sexual experience and not really wanting to make a friend. However there truly are some good men out there, but sadly a lady must deal with so many of the bad ones to get to the good ones. So don't give in and don't give up. Don't be afraid my friend. Fear will just make more of them seek you out. As they feel they can intimidate you into sexual conversations or whatever. When you talk to someone just be blunt and tell them from the start you are not interested sexual conversation. The guys that are truly interested in you as s person will understand and most will comply. And the ones that only want the sexual conversation will most likely get upset and go away. If they don't go away, then just smile and block them. They contacted you, so you should be the one in control the direction the conversation goes. Good luck to you. Be brave, be strong, be positive. I'm cheering for you.👏 Keep smiling.🙂👍

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Randy

1mo

INTJ
Pisces

5w4

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That's because men was taught at a young age to think like that...Some of us are trying to do better.

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Avainia

1mo

ISFJ
Gemini

9w1

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Yeah same I can't tell you how many I blocked they kept sending inappropriate pictures and texting me things that made me uncomfortable but there are some who are friendly only few I talked with.

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Hascha

1mo

INTP
Sagittarius

I get that a lot too. It's creepy as hell. But some are very nice person. I learn a lot from them. I like that kind of friendship, not the FWB.

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