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Universes
Posted Tuesday, July 16, 2024
5mo
ENFJ
Aquarius
I wish men knew how much power lies in being transparent about the way they feel -- rather than avoiding and making problems 10x worse. Open a conversation and you'll find how things are always able to be resolved 🌻🤍 (edited)
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Jaime
5mo
ISTJ
Gemini
I've always been transparent most of my life with everyone I've met. I definitely don't mind it at all but I'm starting to slowly realize it just might be pointless. Finding that beautiful soul that I want to spend the rest of my life with, is not showing up at all. Lucky I'm still patient about it but there are days that say otherwise. 😅👍🏼👌🏼🙌🏼
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Luke
5mo
INTJ
Taurus
Openness and transparency are key to effective communication in relationships. However, understanding and sharing emotions can take time, especially in complex situations. Many men learn early on that sharing their innermost thoughts and feelings with the wrong person can lead to negative consequences. This is true for men with severe childhood trauma, such as betrayal by a parent, and those with lesser later trauma, like betrayal by a partner. Often, men may suppress their emotions subconsciously due to past experiences where their vulnerabilities were exploited. This suppression can lead to confusion for both partners, as the man might not even be aware he's doing it. Building trust is crucial; expecting someone to open up immediately isn't realistic on either side. By nurturing, understanding, and growing together, a true connection can be formed where everything is shared. It's important for partners to never share, disregard, devalue, or use each other's insecurities against them. Doing so can ensure the other person is never truly open again. It's also important to communicate the desire for openness and communication early on. Remember, it is perfectly fine to ask directly for a potential partner to share their thoughts; however, they need to feel safe to do so first. Yet we should also recognise that many people mature and grow at different rates, and that is fine. If someone is not meeting our needs then it simply means they are not right for us, that they have not made it to the same place in their own journey where we might be at the time and thus we must be willing to let go when a relationship is shown to have no means of progressing or moving forward no matte rhow hard we work on it, sometimes it just isn't meant for us.
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Vartan
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INTJ
Capricorn
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Mohsin
4mo
INFJ
Cancer
There should be someone to whom I can start conversation with 🥺
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Brage
4mo
INTP
Leo
They are my feelings. I get to keep them.
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