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Universes

Posted Friday, May 2, 2025
13d
ISFJ
Aries
Girls perspective: Why don’t decent guys message us? 😭
Like most guys, I’ve messaged first on 90% of my matches. For a while I even went down the rabbit hole of trying to come up with witty clever things to open with. You know where that got me? Talking to a wall. I’ve sunk hours of my life into pressing a button on “omg tacos sports and drinks” divas for every 3–4 down to earth outdoorsy chicks, one of whom may or may not match me back. For every cool-seeming match I make, only 1% will ever message me back, and most of those immediately lose interest when I try to have a normal conversation with them like people instead of somehow pulling some magic sexy-words out of my ass. I’m sorry if that comes off as entitled. But one reason guys don’t message first and try to have decent conversation may be that those guys are just completely burnt out and jaded, after realizing that for probably 80% of guys, sites like these are a total waste of time - guys use these kinda apps in much greater numbers than women, so unless a guy’s profile is extraordinary, the odds are stacked against - personally, I given up, its like buying lottery tickets but instead of paying with money you pay in the form of an awkward thumb workout that pushes you closer and closer to carpal tunnel syndrome. Or maybe they’re just shy. I don’t know, try asking them. It might lead to an interesting conversation… Anywho I live on a tiny island surrounded by slightly bigger rocks in the Irish Sea, so what do I know? Just a thought. 💭
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It's primarily because modern times have taught women to buy the kind of men who will only rent them. Also femmism has scared average men into avoiding women for fear of legal action. So you have the top 3% of men getting with 80% of the women but leaving those same women damaged.
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Aww I'm sorry 😞
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