Posted Tuesday, December 23, 2025
1mo
INTJ
7Ive actually come to realize how hard it can be for men to approach a woman. Especially when he has good intentions. Like for me, sometimes I want to compliment a woman..but she just looks so angry and unapproachable. I mean I understand the "street face" thing but when I finally do approach and give my compliment the smile they give is beautiful and the aura is lifted. Ive even complimented guys here and there because honestly, guys need that little confidence boost too. Compliment his shirt. His shoes. His hair. Say something nice. It doesnt always have to lead to anything. Sometimes when a guy approaches you, its not that he has ulterior motives. He just wants to say something nice. But being ignored can really be a blow to their self esteem Especially if they had to do alot of mental preparation. Ladies, Sometimes a smile and a polite thank you can really make someones day and give them the boost needed. You don't always have to be so dismissive. ✌🏼✨️
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Gordon
1mo
ENTJ
Leo
I also find there's a lot of misunderstanding for kindness being mistaken as, "Oh, they clearly want one thing." That also needs to change. There is nothing wrong with being a genuine human being. 🙂 I've told that to so many of my coworkers when they see me engaging in conversation with another woman. They'll say, "Oh, you were into her!" And I'd tell them, "Nope, we were just being kind and talking about stuff." 😆
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Nam
1mo
ENFJ
Virgo
3Hmmm I also think it's approach sometimes. Give positive fun loving vibes to just about anybody with a rbf will crack a smile. I also see it as if I'm giving a compliment then I really don't care how they react cause I just don't control that. I know I came with good intentions, but I do appreciate you putting it out there to be more warm, in general. Sadly so much negative interactions make it rough for peeps!
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Joe
1mo
ISTJ
Thank you.
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Paul
1mo
ISFP
Virgo
3So. Much. This.
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Vinny
1mo
INTJ
Leo
Sadly it feels like your better off "not" commitmenting men. Any man with a brain will come to the realization that woman especially in the online space has unlimited attention from man. So for a woman to direct attention to a man in that pool or even outside it. Will cause confusion and misunderstanding unless that man is in a situation where they don't have plans to court you or your friendship dynamic with that guy is already solidly understood.
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