So, I met a guy who had the tag #Transally and thought it was safe to processed (I am a trans woman.) We talked and got along well, even went off app. But I had to check he knew and he did not. He then ghosted me. So can you be a transally who would not date a trans person? Edit: The fact he was a "transally" that just up and ghosted instead of saying "Oh, sorry but I am interested in cis girls only" is what really bugs me. (edited)

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rhys

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can you be a gay ally if you would not date a gay person? can you be a feminist if you would not date a woman?

Jodie

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Hugs and I'm sorry that happened to you. I think it's odd too that someone would agree trans women are women yet only date cis.

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I have not had this problem and I am sorry you did honey. I didn't know what to do, so I put it on my profile. I wish people would just be honest.

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Being a transally doesn't mean their forced to be attracted to a person your personality could clash or intimacy and love languages might not match

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At least he should accept trans people.. but maybe it was some other missbeahvior -or just curious and then got afraid when he noticed emotions are involved.. anyway sad thing to happen..

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Well he made a mistake it seems.

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