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Posted Tuesday, April 18, 2023
1y
ENFJ
Libra
How Soon Do You Trust Someone New?
Do you start people off with trust automatically and take it away once they violate? Do you expect people to earn trust? Or do you gradually build trust?
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Remy
1y
INTJ
Pisces
Time is a Great Teacher. And I personally? Am done giving trust to people from the get go. You see, when I left the Marine Corps, I let my guard down too much. And I started trusting people who were by all intents and purposes...just very disappointing individuals. Selfish. The only thing they cared about was them. It didn't matter who they trampled on. I am ashamed to say this. But It got to a point that I forgot...In the Marines? Nothing is given to you. Absolutely nothing. If you want anything? You gotta earn it. You need to sweat for it. You need to feel pain for it. You need to bleed for it. You need to want it so much, that you will put the effort into making it happen. It's the most noble and wholesome way. But nothing lasts forever for the weak minded. If one is committed, one can build upon and continue working on it.
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Corvid Crane
1y
INTP
Capricorn
Trust isnât a finish line.. You trust everyone, then it builds one thing at a time. Everyday we go outside, we trust people arenât going to murder us, or we trust that people will stop at a red light. We invite someone into our lives and we start giving them a little more each day, unless they lose it. I guess I see trust like a credit score; Be good to me and it goes up, but hurt me and you probably wonât qualify for residence in my heart.
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Joseph
1y
ESTJ
Cancer
In general, for survival, folks in your region should express a minimum level of trust with survival in mind, yet that level can be raised, and even destroyed. If you start at a level of 0 you won't leave your house but how you gonna eat if you can't trust a single person to do any of the work for you. Always guard yourself, as at the end of the day you always have yourself, but you have to work with people so they'll work with you.
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Devin
1y
INTP
Libra
Always build trust. When given to you, you should give in return.
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