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How Soon Do You Trust Someone New?

Do you start people off with trust automatically and take it away once they violate? Do you expect people to earn trust? Or do you gradually build trust?

How Soon Do You Trust Someone New?

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Remy

Remy

1y

INTJ

Pisces

9
1

Time is a Great Teacher. And I personally? Am done giving trust to people from the get go. You see, when I left the Marine Corps, I let my guard down too much. And I started trusting people who were by all intents and purposes...just very disappointing individuals. Selfish. The only thing they cared about was them. It didn't matter who they trampled on. I am ashamed to say this. But It got to a point that I forgot...In the Marines? Nothing is given to you. Absolutely nothing. If you want anything? You gotta earn it. You need to sweat for it. You need to feel pain for it. You need to bleed for it. You need to want it so much, that you will put the effort into making it happen. It's the most noble and wholesome way. But nothing lasts forever for the weak minded. If one is committed, one can build upon and continue working on it.

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Bruno

Bruno

1y

INTJ

Virgo

1
2

I'd say gradually build it. The world is not made for trusting people and I'd say very few can truly get the trusting aproved sticker

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Nolan

Nolan

1y

INFP

Aries

8
7

Trust is something that has to be built overtime, since you don't know who the other truly is. I recently dealt with trusting someone too quickly, and it's not a good feeling to have that trust thrown right back at you when you realize who they are

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Elle

Elle

1y

INTJ

Taurus

8
7

I don't think I ever trust anyone. Period. But that doesn't keep me from being me...nor from enjoying the moments I get.

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Alex

Alex

1y

ISTJ

Aquarius

4
5

1) With the way people are now I am very slow to trust any one. 2) I give people just enough room to show me who they are. 3) Trust is always earned.

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Corvid Crane

Corvid Crane

1y

INTP

Capricorn

Trust isn’t a finish line.. You trust everyone, then it builds one thing at a time. Everyday we go outside, we trust people aren’t going to murder us, or we trust that people will stop at a red light. We invite someone into our lives and we start giving them a little more each day, unless they lose it. I guess I see trust like a credit score; Be good to me and it goes up, but hurt me and you probably won’t qualify for residence in my heart.

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GĂĄbor Henrik GĂ€rtner

GĂĄbor Henrik GĂ€rtner

1y

INTP

Aquarius

8
7

Everybody deserv a base trust(she/he be not lie and try to hurt me) . Without it, how can anybody build any social connenction?

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Vitor✌

Vitor✌

1y

INTJ

Aquarius

6
7

Gradually in general. But it depends, also exceptions

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Joseph

Joseph

1y

ESTJ

Cancer

In general, for survival, folks in your region should express a minimum level of trust with survival in mind, yet that level can be raised, and even destroyed. If you start at a level of 0 you won't leave your house but how you gonna eat if you can't trust a single person to do any of the work for you. Always guard yourself, as at the end of the day you always have yourself, but you have to work with people so they'll work with you.

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Devin

Devin

1y

INTP

Libra

6
7

Always build trust. When given to you, you should give in return.

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Kenny

Kenny

1y

INTP

Leo

I like to begin any interaction with a slight positive. Then allow a person to build or crumble from that point. Of course this is much easier in person. Online there is a vail for the dishonest to hide behind. Much more difficult to tell when someone is being genuine.

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Billy

Billy

1y

INTP

Capricorn

Give or take a year. I don't easily trust. People say that will be my downfall but I have friends that have had my back for years, I see no need in trusting others so soon. 😊

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Valerio

Valerio

1y

INTP

Scorpio

It depends on the relationship that we are able to build.

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