🛑 I’m referring to the trend of posts suggesting that you should like whoever likes you, as if you should settle for anyone who shows interest. In my opinion it is far better to be selective and intentional than to settle for the sake of not wanting to be alone. 🛑 Attraction and surface level connection may create initial excitement, but without deeper alignment, the relationship is likely to struggle or completely dissolve when faced with real challenges. If you’re interested, I share a deeper dive below. ⏬ Liking someone just because they like you can be a dangerous trap, leading to shallow or unfulfilling relationships. When we crave love, attention, or validation, it’s easy to mistake someone’s interest for true connection. This often results in relationships where one or both people are more attached to the feeling of being wanted than to the actual person in front of them. Apps like this often create an environment where manipulation (illusion) and unhealthy dynamics thrive. When we base our relationships on external validation rather than genuine alignment, we risk settling for dynamics that don’t actually serve us in the long run. Which is why it's imperative to practice discernment. Without mutual value, compatibility, and a true understanding of each other’s needs, the foundation of the relationship remains weak. Be safe out there ♥︎ #spiritual #lifeadvice #relationshipadvice #romance #dating #selflove #deepconversation #selfawareness #shortterm #life #relationships #love #philosophy #boo (edited)

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I'm not saying to like someone who just shows interest in you. I'm just saying that so many people are going to be single and alone, for a very long time. Possibly the rest of their life. Why? Because so many people have created it a list of demands that they expect their significant other to meet. They've created this fantasy in their heads of what their ideal spouse/partner should be, and what traits they should have. They want perfection, and they're not going to get it. And now, you must check every one of the boxes they've created for you, before they can even determine if you're worth talking to. So like I said, many people are going to be single for a very long time, and possibly live the rest of their life alone, bypassing someone who could genuinely Make them happy, and give them genuine love, all because that person may not fit into every single box they want them to. And I don't feel sorry for people who have such shallow and superficial expectations of others. What's the old saying: One in the hand, is worth more than two in the bush." Meaning, you could have a sure thing, but you would throw that away on a gamble to chase after something more. And you will end up with nothing. (edited)

Xander

1mo

ISFJ

"Like" just makes the next profile load up. It the bare minimum of bare minimum interest (if that) at all. A "Like" isnt a contract nor obligation for/from anyone. Turn off your notifications for "Likes" and live a happier life. If you get upset about unrecipricated "Likes", you're setting yourself up for disappointments. Delete app instead. (edited)

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The fact that you match with someone is nothing more then showing interest to get to know the other person. Relationship is only one of options to go. And there are so many relationship types...

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Young lady, you just blew my mind. This is like combing a sandy beach and finding a diamond!

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If this ain't the truth!

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I won't respond

If stating an opinion offends ppl I will not respond back to it cuz as I say, "if the shoe fits wear it." But we won't argue bout ya flaws bein pointed out and u validating them... No one knows ya life but u, so if u speak up that means ur speaking out. (edited)

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Cancer

Do people post here only to get likes or are there some who would actually like to have a conversation without any special expectations? 😅

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We gotta fix this loop! Does anyone want to share any suggestions/advice if this is something you’ve experienced?

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If I was a worm?🪱

So you might know that moment when women ask you crazy things like “would you love me if I was a worm?” Or any other wild scenarios (guilty of that myself) what would be your response to a question like that? Make it good I wanna laugh ⭐️ I always used to ask “would you still love me if I changed... (edited) read more

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What do you think about the universe?

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Yes you can. 🙌🫠

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Cancer

what is your biggest turn off for girls?

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me and who?💗

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Walk with few clicks.. 🥰

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Treat yourself well, while not harming others. Treat others well, while not harming yourself.

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Focus on yourself

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