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1mo

Being reserved …

I have a question for people like me that are shy, reserved, observant etc;. Do you ever notice that there are certain people that seem to become angry or just agitated at you just being yourself??? They get irritated or annoyed that you’re shy and quiet and maybe not as outgoing as they are? ***Extroverts or people that get irritated by people like me, why is that???

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Could be a variety of things. 1. Frustrated that you don't seem to communicate back. Mostly one sided conversations 2. Annoyed by the lack of control or response.. These are the people with the big egos. Tends to make them immature. Poking at you but not getting anything back.. Makes them feel threatened and aggressive. 3. Just not understanding the personality type and thinking that you're being rude or bitchy to them. I'm somewhat in the same boat so it tends to be one of these most of the time. These will keep happening regardless so...My advice... Just be selective about who you associate with and you'll have normal interactions and conversations. People like us usually just need some time to adjust and learn about the person before opening up. Not all people are willing to wait it out. (edited)

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I have a theory that they are people who feel judged easily. As if someone who stays quiet is clearly watching to judge poorly. There are people who think that just because you don't want to participate in an activity, it means there is disdain for the group. Sometimes it's hahahahah But most of the time it isn't. And that doesn't get into their heads: "how can that person not want to enjoy my noble company?"

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