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2y
INTJ
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When we are well with our own company it is difficult to feel alone. Solitude is different from loneliness. But the human being at some point needs to be with someone, but it is possible to do well anyway. Do something you like, visit family members, practice outdoor activities, try to connect with yourself, so your relationships with other people will be much better.
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2y
ENFP
Virgo
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I think for a lot of us, loneliness is more about disconnection than being alone. I can be alone, but to feel disconnected/lacking in being understood, is the actual feeling of loneliness for me. I try to build on the connections with people that remind me that there are people I can communicate with that get it. I introspect and reflect more about what I want to attract and how I can surround myself with community to build the connections I desire( àtúnṣe )
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2y
ENFP
Àgbò
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2y
INTJ
Ẹ̀bí Ìbejì
I pray🙏
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2y
INTP
Àgbò
67
Ability to have a conversation with yourself... Do it right and it's like a crowded in there...
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0
2y
INFJ
Eja
67
Feeling alone and loneliness do come from a sense of lacking in a person. But it seems people don't always realize where that lacking is coming from and the fact it is not always want of a companion. People do feel alone after loss and major life changes like illness. It's not necessarily a connection to just anyone, that people seek. For example: children who lose their families. They can be happy alone, and positive, But there is an internal loneliness of not having that (family) connection in the world. Or even the existential connection to the universe. There is a reason so many people have a connection to spirituality (aside using it for gain). When I want to connect, I enjoy: hiking, swimming, playing an instrument, working out, art/design, and hanging out with my dog
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2y
INTJ
Ìbínlá
I'm alone .. today I got cancelled on 5 mins before we were supposed to meet .. all that loneliness hit at once and I cried .. then stopped.. then cried again . No one should be loney .. we don't cope not really it hurts to no we have this big world of people and the only thing that stops us feeling lonely is music.its not fair .( àtúnṣe )
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1
2y
ENFP
Capricorn
67
I don't think there is anything that can wipe away one's loneliness (not that the OP suggested it), but, to dull the ache, I practice meditation, listen to audiobooks, have video calls with my friends and loved ones, and occasionally I'll go for a little extra delicious beer or a fine cocktail. Sometimes a well crafted drink can loosen some of the things up inside your heart that have felt stuck, or it can alter your mind and help you see some joys you forgot to count.
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2y
ESFP
Kansa
Keeping busy at the gym💪
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1
2y
ESTJ
Àgbò
Through music 🎶
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0
2y
INFJ
23
I just don't think about all that. I'm keeping myself constantly busy :)
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0
2y
ESTJ
Virgo
54
I cope with it by journaling and self seeking within myself of what could be changed within to want a positive change I'm my current status. Expressing and releasing what is no longer needed to make room for better and positive people, situations or what ever it may be you are now seeking in your next move in life.
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0
2y
ENFJ
Ẹ̀bí Ìbejì
Honestly, sometimes it's better to be alone. But that's my opinion. But the way I cope with the feeling is listening to music at night and spending time with friends and family in the day. The less your stuck in your head the better. I know, easier said than done. But it's still possible. 😁
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2y
ISFJ
Kìnìún
23
idont want to rely with other people. when i feel lonely, i work out, go out and make myself busy. im on process of making myself comfortable with me being alone and do things that makes me happy.
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