Do you think people who live simply are wiser, or just less driven?

Shin kuna tunanin mutane da ke rayuwa cikin sauki sun fi hikima, ko kuma kawai ba su da kwarin gwiwa?

rock

Disturbed last night at Hard 🎸 Casino🤘🏻

An tayar da hankali daren jiya a Hard 🎸 Casino🤘🏻

I got an awesome new dress 🩵🩵🩵

Na sami sabuwar rigar ban mamaki 🩵🩵🩵

cats

Moment of paws two. They shared that space beautifully today. I’m so proud.

Lokacin kafafu biyu. Sun raba wannan sararin cikin kyau a yau. Ina matukar alfahari.

I’ve been on a journey of self discovery for the last couple years. Finally, I’ve landed in peace 🥰✨

New place. A new sense of peace

Na kasance a cikin tafiya na gano kaina tsawon shekaru biyu da suka wuce. A ƙarshe, na sami kwanciyar hankali 🥰✨

Sabon wuri. Sabon jin kwanciyar hankali

🎀🎀

Literallyyyyy. I've lost track of how often I've been in this scenario with past partners of mine LMAO.

EDITED TO ADD:
Because of both comments AND messages from cis straight men exclusively, saying stuff like "well be more bold" and "maybe you should communicate" I'm leaving a DISCLAIMER.

BRO, literally duh. From one single meme + short text accompanying said meme, saying those comments or messages means you are assuming:

• That nothing ever happened in the times I've been in this situation. You're assuming that I never said anything, that nothing happened, and I solely depended on my partner to make a move. Not once did I say that, nor should I need to. I didn't say what may have happened or what did happen after this single moment in time. You're just assuming.

• That I am intenseley shy and/or anxious and am unable to communicate my needs. Not that I don't battle anxiety at all, but these scenarios were exclusively in my relationships, and I don't date people I don't feel some level of comfort with. But either way, I'm very firm with boundaries and communication, regardless of partner or not. You're assuming I'm not because of one moment in time.

• That the partner(s) in question are all inherently men. Hate to break it to you, but I'm pansexual. Some were women. Some were agender. Some bigender. Some gender fluid. Other non-binary partners. And each one had varying levels of libido, as well. You're just assuming theyre like you.

• That I am somehow asking for your advice and/or value your input. I don't. I'm not asking for advice by posting a meme for giggles. Memes are always meant to be funny and/or relatable. If you don't find it funny or relate, scroll. I didn't ask. I don't care. Your two cents are not of value to me.

Yes, posting online opens up comments for people to say things. But people should stop using screens as an excuse for being rude, making assumptions, and just acting bolder than they otherwise would ever act. If I didn't ask for advice, then I probably don't want and don't need advice.

So for the love of gawddd... Stop commenting and messaging unsolicited advice based on your assumptions you made despite having no actual context to the situation(s) and/or about my past partner(s) and/or about me. It's genuinely annoying.

Me as a gf

Gaskiya. Na rasa adadin lokutan da na kasance a wannan yanayin tare da tsofaffin abokan hulɗata LMAO.

EDITED TO ADD:
Saboda dukkanin sharhi DA saƙonni daga maza cis masu kai tsaye kawai, suna cewa abubuwa kamar "to, ka fi zama mai ƙarfi" da "watakila ya kamata ka yi magana" ina barin WANNAN BAYANI.

BRO, gaskiya duh. Daga wani meme guda + gajeren rubutu da ke tare da wannan meme, cewa waɗannan sharhi ko saƙonni suna nufin kana ɗauka:

• Cewa babu wani abu da ya faru a lokutan da na kasance a wannan yanayin. Kana ɗauka cewa ban taɓa faɗi komai ba, cewa babu wani abu da ya faru, kuma na dogara kawai ga abokin hulɗata don yin wani abu. Ba na taɓa cewa hakan ba, ko kuma ya kamata in yi. Ban faɗi abin da zai iya faruwa ko abin da ya faru bayan wannan lokaci guda ba. Kana kawai ɗauka.

• Cewa ni mai jin kunya ne sosai da/ko damuwa kuma ba zan iya bayyana bukatuna ba. Ba cewa ba na fama da damuwa kwata-kwata ba, amma waɗannan yanayin suna cikin dangantakuna kawai, kuma ba na fita da mutane da ba na ji daɗin zama tare da su. Amma duk da haka, ina da ƙarfi sosai game da iyakoki da sadarwa, ba tare da la'akari da abokin hulɗa ko a'a. Kana ɗauka ba ni ba ne saboda wani lokaci guda.

• Cewa abokin hulɗa(ku) da ake magana akai duk maza ne. Ina son in gaya maka, amma ni pansexual ne. Wasu mata ne. Wasu ba su da jinsi. Wasu bigender. Wasu gender fluid. Wasu abokan hulɗa marasa jinsi. Kuma kowanne yana da matakan libido daban-daban, ma. Kana kawai ɗauka suna kama da kai.

• Cewa ina neman shawarar ka da/ko ina daraja ra'ayinka. Ba na yi. Ba na neman shawara ta hanyar wallafa meme don dariya. Memes koyaushe ana nufin su zama masu ban dariya da/ko masu alaƙa. Idan ba ka ga yana da ban dariya ko alaƙa ba, yi gungura. Ban tambaya ba. Ba na damu. Kudin ka biyu ba su da amfani a gare ni.

Eh, wallafa a kan layi yana buɗe sharhi ga mutane su faɗi abubuwa. Amma mutane ya kamata su daina amfani da allon a matsayin uzuri don zama masu rashin kunya, yin tunani, da kuma kawai yin ƙarfi fiye da yadda za su yi a zahiri. Idan ban tambayi shawara ba, to tabbas ba na so kuma ba na buƙatar shawara.

Don son Allah... Daina sharhi da aika saƙonni na shawara ba tare da an nemi ba bisa ga tunanin da ka yi duk da rashin samun ainihin mahallin yanayin(ku) da/ko game da tsofaffin abokan hulɗata da/ko game da ni. Gaskiya yana da ban haushi.

Ni a matsayin budurwa

metal

Stellar Rhythm 🤭

Ritmin Taurari 🤭

gaming

I am moving from a life of gaming laptops to my first gaming PC. I know nothing about pcs or what all the spec numbers and letters stand for. My main goal is to be able to run BG3 at at least 40fps. I recognize this is a low bar, but my eyes cannot see a difference even at 60. My laptop currently does 20- any higher and it powers itself off. This is a photo of the specs of the PC I would like to buy. Will it work? Thanks in advance for any help!

Very naive question, but please help 🙏

Ina motsawa daga rayuwar kwamfutocin wasanni zuwa kwamfutar wasanni ta farko. Ban san komai game da kwamfutoci ko abin da duk lambobin da haruffa ke nufi ba. Babban burina shine in iya gudanar da BG3 a kalla 40fps. Na fahimci wannan ƙaramin mataki ne, amma idanuna ba za su iya ganin bambanci ba ko da a 60. Kwamfutata tana yi yanzu 20 - idan ta fi haka, tana kashe kanta. Wannan hoton ne na bayanan kwamfutar da nake son saya. Shin zai yi aiki? Na gode a gaba don kowanne taimako!

Tambaya mai sauki, amma don Allah ku taimaka 🙏

Coming 💅🏻✨

Zuwa 💅🏻✨

New here

menene ra'ayin kowa akan wannan manhaja??

Sabon nan

I just watched a video about a girl who ended her 8-year relationship with her man cause long distance. It’s so sad. Every time they met up once every two months, she was over the moon and thought he was her whole world. But a relationship shouldn’t just be about maintaining things once every two months, right? Her partner couldn't fill the void. She loved him, but she loved herself more. She did everything on her own until she finally realized she could do it all without him. 
I totally get how she feels, and her feelings are 100% valid. Long distance relationships are tough. But does that mean they never work? No, some definitely do. Personally, I can handle an LDR. But for me, you have to find someone who loves the same way you do. It’s about how we show up for each other and make sure the other person never feels alone. If we’re miles apart, doing everything by ourselves, and struggling just to communicate... like, what’s the point of dating? 😂 And it’s also me, I refuse to be in a relationship just to feel lonely all the time.

We all agree that cheating or physical abuse are major red flags, but we often forget that relationships are supposed to fulfill our emotional needs too. Ignoring your partner's feelings is just as much of a 🚩

Na kalli wani bidiyo game da wata yarinya da ta yanke dangantakarta ta shekaru 8 da namijin ta saboda nisan tazara. Abin takaici ne. Kowane lokaci da suka hadu sau daya a kowane watanni biyu, tana cikin farin ciki sosai kuma ta yi tunanin shi ne duk duniya ta. Amma dangantaka ba ya kamata ta kasance kawai game da kula da abubuwa sau daya a kowane watanni biyu, ko? Abokin tarayyarta ba zai iya cike gurbin ba. Ta son shi, amma ta fi son kanta. Ta yi komai da kanta har sai ta fahimci cewa za ta iya yin komai ba tare da shi ba. 
Na fahimci yadda take ji, kuma jin dadin ta yana da inganci 100%. Dangantakar nisan tazara tana da wahala. Amma shin hakan na nufin ba sa aiki? A'a, wasu suna aiki sosai. A ganina, zan iya jure dangantakar nisan tazara. Amma a gare ni, dole ne ka sami wanda ke son ka kamar yadda kake so. Yana da alaka da yadda muke kasancewa tare da juna da tabbatar da cewa ba wanda ke jin kadaici. Idan muna nisan mil, muna yin komai da kanmu, kuma muna fama da sadarwa... kamar, menene ma'anar yin soyayya? 😂 Kuma ni ma, na ki zama cikin dangantaka kawai don jin kadaici a kowane lokaci.

Dukkanmu mun yarda cewa zamba ko cin zarafi suna da manyan alamomi, amma sau da yawa muna manta cewa dangantaka tana da nufin cika bukatunmu na zuciya ma. Watsi da jin dadin abokin tarayya naka yana daidai da 🚩

Look at my pair of loafers

Duba wannan takalmin nawa

My cat is doing random faces

Kyarena na yin fuskoki na bazuwar

Being without makeup once in a while is you totally fine, being in the bed until late is also totally fine, have a nice day out there! Greetings from Sweden🇸🇪

Good day 🩷

Zama ba tare da kayan kwalliya ba lokaci-lokaci yana da kyau kwarai, zama a gado har zuwa dare ma yana da kyau kwarai, ku yi kyakkyawan rana a waje! Gaisuwa daga Sweden🇸🇪

Barka da rana 🩷

cosplay

I love cosplaying jesters and clowns 😩

Pierrot

Ina son yin cosplaying na masu dariya da 'yan dariya 😩

photography

Flower from this morning. 🌸

Fure daga yau da safe. 🌸

Hey! 🙃Looking for NTE and path of exile 2 players… palworld too? Picture of one of my fat cats for attention. 😅

Recruiting players

Hey! 🙃 Ina neman 'yan wasa na NTE da path of exile 2… palworld ma? Hoto na daya daga cikin manyan kuliyata don jawo hankali. 😅

Neman 'yan wasa

Cute or nah

Kyakkyawa ko a'a

music

Someone was very interested when he went to meet me suddenly I got head ache and so much If someone want to go date with you then you know then he made plans and you got headache and said you have headache and also you tried to tell them that they think you fake ir still flak nice and then said you are fake you sent vedio and then again they agree to meet but didn’t show up and then after so long yu keep messaging and then they say you are clingy and then put up everything on you what you do

Dating goals

Wani ya nuna sha'awa sosai lokacin da ya je ganina, na yi rashin jin dadi kuma na ji ciwon kai sosai. Idan wani yana son ya tafi da kai, to ka san cewa ya shirya, amma ka ji ciwon kai ka ce kana da ciwon kai, kuma ka yi ƙoƙarin gaya musu cewa suna tunanin ka na jabu ko kuma har yanzu suna jin dadin ka, sannan suka ce kai jabu ne. Ka aiko da bidiyo, sannan kuma sun yarda su hadu amma ba su bayyana ba, sannan bayan dogon lokaci ka ci gaba da aika saƙonni, sannan suka ce kai mai jurewa ne, sannan suka ɗora komai a kanka, abin da ka yi.

Manufar soyayya

travel

Happiness looks cute on me 🌹✨

Farinciki yana da kyau a kaina 🌹✨

Date, chat, make friends by personality. Join communities and meet like-minded souls by 16 type, zodiac, and enneagram.

Meet New People by Any Interest

Shin kuna tunanin mutane da ke rayuwa cikin sauki sun fi hikima, ko kuma kawai ba su da kwarin gwiwa?

An tayar da hankali daren jiya a Hard 🎸 Casino🤘🏻(an gyara)

Na sami sabuwar rigar ban mamaki 🩵🩵🩵

Lokacin kafafu biyu. Sun raba wannan sararin cikin kyau a yau. Ina matukar alfahari.

Sabon wuri. Sabon jin kwanciyar hankali

🎀🎀