Kevin B. Harris

Postato lunedì 29 luglio 2024

1mm

INTP

Cancro

9

1

Grief

It doesn't have to be frustrating, ya' know? There was a certain that walked into the public space that I was playing at. I gracefully approached them and we and introduce ourselves. It was slightly emotional. The two of us went about our own ways. We made the same interactions on our own terms at a really quick pace. We looked across at each other with a wide-eyed facial expression. Then I approach, "I think we're mirroring" The new relationship went on for about a year before the ENTJ got mad at me for dismissing her advancements & blocking cues. I did it because I was just leaving an abusive relationship that lasted eight years. At the time, I did not have the self-confidence to start a new one. I legitimately believed that she could do better. "I can't stand a narcissist that knows he's a narcissist" -ENTJ I run 300 miles away. I have been grieving it for 4 years. ------ The majority of that interaction was completely healthy and the overall experience of this was really fun. I see that we (INTPs & ENTJs) mirroring pairs in socionics and remember just how electric that interaction was. I think that I am going to experience more interactions like this and believe that I have to cut other types off from dating. It looked like a social algorithms and the situation is bound to repeat itself with someone that is a lot alike. Apparently that is an obsession. I don't want to cheat on someone else, don’t want to create another difficult situation, and feel like I know what is next from the data assimilated. Was it supposed to create boundaries or should we be plotting the next Jerry Springer? (modificato)