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This famous paradox reflects the deep trouble with human desire, famously written by playwright Oscar Wilde in his play Lady Windermere's Fan that i got to reading. So allow me to explicate the two notions...

The First Tragedy: Not Getting It
• Broken Hopes: Failing to reach a goal leaves a deep ache.
• Constant Want: You spend your days wishing for what you missed.
• Lost Dreams: Your mind stays fixed on a future that never happens.

The Second Tragedy: Getting It
• Swift Disappointment: Reaching the goal often shows it was not as good as you hoped.
• New Burdens: Having the prize brings hard work, stress, or regret to keep it.
• Empty Victory: The thrill fades fast, leaving you just as empty as before

So my advice... you'd better THINK LONG AND HARD About It.

Remember.. "there are 2 great tragedies in life.. Is NOT getting what you want.. The Other IS GETTING What you want.."

Izi zodabwitsa zimasonyeza vutoli lalikulu ndi chikhumbo cha anthu, zomwe zidalembedwa bwino ndi wolemba masewera Oscar Wilde mu masewera ake a Lady Windermere's Fan yomwe ndinayamba kuwerenga. Chifukwa chake ndichitire chifundo kuti nditsatire mfundo ziwiri...

Zovuta Zoyamba: KUSAWINA
• Zolaka Zosweka: Kutaya chikhumbo kumasiya chisoni chachikulu.
• Kufuna Kwamuyaya: Mumapita masiku anu mukukhumudwa ndi zomwe munasowa.
• Maloto Osowa: Maganizo anu amakhala pa tsogolo lomwe silikuchitika.

Zovuta Zachiwiri: KUSAWINA
• Kukhumudwa Kwachangu: Kufika pa cholinga nthawi zambiri kumasonyeza kuti sichinali bwino monga mukuganizira.
• Zovuta Zatsopano: Kupeza mphotho kumabwera ndi ntchito yovuta, nkhawa, kapena chisoni kuti muziikonda.
• Kupambana Kosowa: Chikondi chimachoka mwachangu, chikusiyirani monga momwe munali kale.

Chifukwa chake malangizo anga... mukuyenera KUFUNSIRA KUTI MUKUMVETSE KUTI.

Kumbukirani.. "pali 2 zovuta zazikulu mu moyo.. Ndizochita KUSAWINA zomwe mukufuna.. Zina NDI KUSAWINA zomwe mukufuna.."

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Just saying 💯💯💯💯💯💯

Kungoti 💯💯💯💯💯💯

Bros and siss, tell me something  you've learned the hard way in your 20's.

Abale ndi alongo, ndipatseni chinthu chomwe mwaphunzira mwakukonda mu 20 zanu.

😆When women have so many options then want to settle down... it may be too late 🤷🏻‍♂️

😆Pamene akazi ali ndi zosankha zambiri kenako akufuna kukhalapo... zingakhale kuti zakhala zotsika kwambiri 🤷🏻‍♂️

Let them go !

Awapuse!

Reason Why I Am A Loner...
Fake People's Energy Rubs Off Onto You. Toxicity Rubs Off Onto You.  Than You'll Start To Emanate Their Same Actions/Energy. It's Like A Demon Transfering From One Vessel To The Next. It Can Literally Destroy Your Life & Lose Everything. 🎯💯

Chifukwa Chiyani Ndine Wosauka...
Mphamvu za anthu opanga chinyengo zimakupangitsani. Zinthu zoipa zimakupangitsani. Kenako mudzayamba kutulutsa zochita/mphamvu zawo. Ndikofanana ndi chiyanjano chomwe chimachokera mu chombo chimodzi kupita ku chombo china. Zingathe kuchititsa kuti moyo wanu ukhale wovuta & mutaye zonse. 🎯💯

So, this popular philosophy basically says: it's usually better to take action, even if it doesn't work out, than to do nothing at all. 

The idea is that when you actually do something — even if you fail or make mistakes — you gain real experience, valuable lessons, and a sense of closure. You learn from it and eventually move on. On the other hand, when you choose *not* to act, you often end up carrying around those lingering 'what if' questions for years. The regret from missed opportunities tends to stick with people much longer and can feel a lot heavier.

Here are the main points people usually bring up:

- **Action gives you feedback.** 
Mistakes from trying something teach you things you could never learn by just sitting on the sidelines. Most people would rather say, 'At least I tried,' than wonder forever what might have happened.

- **Regret from inaction usually lasts longer.** 
The pain of a bad decision (action regret) is often sharp but temporary — you process it, learn from it, and move forward. But the regret of *not* doing something can linger for a very long time.

- **The power of the unknown.** 
When you don’t take action, the outcome remains a complete mystery. That 'what if' can haunt people way more than the memory of something that went wrong.

- **Regret isn’t always bad.** 
It can actually be useful. It helps clarify what really matters to us and can guide us toward better decisions in the future.

Of course, there are some exceptions. A few people point out that if your actions seriously hurt someone else, that kind of regret can be much deeper and longer-lasting than simply missing out on an opportunity.

Overall, this philosophy encourages us to lean toward action and take calculated risks rather than playing it safe and later regretting the chances we didn’t take.

If you have your thoughts. Share them below and remember to maintain a sense of poise and rationality.

Better to regret what you do than regret what you don't.

Choncho, filosofi iyi yotchuka imati: nthawi zambiri ndi bwino kuchita, ngakhale ngati sizikugwira ntchito, kuposa kuchita chilichonse. 

Lingaliro ndi lakuti pamene mukuchita chinthu — ngakhale ngati mukupanga zolakwika kapena kukhudzidwa — mumapeza chidziwitso chachikulu, maphunziro ofunika, ndi kumva kuti mwamaliza. Mumaphunzira kuchokera pa izo ndipo pamapeto pake mumayenda patsogolo. Kumbali ina, pamene mukusankha *osachita*, nthawi zambiri mumakhala ndi mafunso a 'chifukwa chiyani' omwe akuchitika kwa zaka. Kukhumudwa kuchokera ku mwayi wopitilira kumakhala ndi nthawi yaitali kwambiri ndi kumva kuwonjezeka.

Ndi izi, apa ndi mfundo zazikulu zomwe anthu nthawi zambiri amawulula:

- **Kuchita kumakupatsani mafunso.** 
Zolakwika kuchokera pakuyesera chinthu zimakuphunzitsani zinthu zomwe simungathe kuphunzira ndi kupuma pa mipando. Anthu ambiri angafune kunena, 'Koma ndidachita,' kuposa kuganiza nthawi zonse zomwe zingachitike.

- **Kukhumudwa kuchokera ku osachita nthawi zambiri kumakhala kwanthawi yayitali.** 
Paini ya chisankho chovuta (kukhumudwa kuchita) nthawi zambiri ndi yowawa koma yachikhalidwe — mumachitira izo, mumaphunzira kuchokera pa izo, ndipo mumayenda patsogolo. Koma kukhumudwa kwa *osachita* chinthu kungakhale kwanthawi yayitali kwambiri.

- **Mphamvu ya zomwe sizikudziwika.** 
Pamene simukuchita, zotsatira zimakhala chinsinsi chachikulu. 'Chifukwa chiyani' chingakhalebe chovuta kwa anthu kuposa kukumbukira chinthu chomwe chidakhalapo.

- **Kukhumudwa sikuli bwino nthawi zonse.** 
Zingakhale zothandiza. Zimathandiza kuwonetsa zomwe zili zofunika kwa ife ndipo zingatithandize kupita ku zisankho zabwino mtsogolo.

Chifukwa chake, pali zina zomwe sizikugwira ntchito. Anthu angapo amawonetsa kuti ngati kuchita kwanu kumakhumudwitsa munthu wina, mtundu wa kukhumudwa kumakhala kokulu kwambiri komanso kwanthawi yayitali kuposa kungokhala osachita mwayi.

M'malo mwake, filosofi iyi imatithandiza kuti tikhale ndi kuchita komanso kutenga ngozi zolembedwa m'malo mokhala otetezeka ndikukhumudwa pambuyo pa mwayi omwe sitinachite. 

Ngati muli ndi malingaliro anu. Gawani pansi ndipo lembani kuti mukhale ndi mtima wabwino komanso nzeru.

Kuchita bwino kukhumudwa ndi zomwe mukuchita kuposa kukhumudwa ndi zomwe simukuchita.

One day

Tsiku limodzi

💯

Wants you lose him you lose everything and your true self took me less then 24 hours for me experience a lot of things through out my life and very thankful for GOD and Holy Spirit for guidance through all struggles and wins for glory goes to king 👑 of kings truely no one U.N.D.E.R S.T.A.N.D. Me but you LORD I won’t let the devil satan steal nothing else from me I will never give up on u love you too much i built a love for you that I can’t get rid of and I’m honestly being truthful 🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏

Don’t let your selfish pride get in the way GOD great blessings for you don’t ever take grace or forgiveness for granted because…..

Mukafuna kumusiya, mukataya zonse, ndipo chikhulupiriro chanu chจริง chinkanditenga nthawi yochepa kuposa maola 24 kuti ndikhale ndi zinthu zambiri mu moyo wanga, ndipo ndine wothokoza kwa Mulungu ndi Moya Woyera chifukwa cha chitsogozo pa zovuta zonse ndi kupambana, chifukwa ulemu umapita kwa mfumu 👑 ya mafumu, mwachidziwikire palibe amene U.N.D.E.R S.T.A.N.D. ine koma iwe, Yehova. Sindidzapereka mwayi kwa satana kuti atenge chilichonse kuchokera kwa ine, sindidzachoka pa iwe, ndikukukonda kwambiri, ndinanga chikondi chanu chomwe nditakwanitsa kuchotsa, ndipo ndine weniweni. 🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏

Usachite kuti chikhumbo chanu choyipa chikhale chovuta pa mphatso zazikulu za Mulungu kwa inu, musachite kudziwa chifundo kapena kukhululukira.

Silence speaks louder than any words will...

Chinsinsi chimafotokoza kwambiri kuposa mawu aliwonse...

When  love is real, you won't think about anything else but how to make it work ❤️

Mukakhala ndi chikondi chachokwadi, simudzaganiza za china chilichonse kupatula momwe mungachitire kuti chikhale chabwino ❤️

The thoughts 🙏🙏🙏

Maganizo 🙏🙏🙏

Just sharing hehe

Kungogawana hehe

Facts

Zochitika

Chitsanzo

We prolly be thankful to them cuz they made us how we are now... Just the pain we need to endure when we are still lost and felt stupid at that time, but in the end we become more stronger and the fighter we are before got back on our feet and fight any battle again💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
So i would say thank you ex and i don't have to put up your  craft anymore.

Tiyeni tikhale ndi chiyamiko kwa iwo chifukwa anatikonza momwe tili pano... Ndi chisoni chomwe tiyenera kupirira pamene tili osadziwa ndipo tinamva ngati opusa nthawi imeneyo, koma pamapeto pake timakhala amphamvu kwambiri ndipo wopambana amene tinali kale akubwerera pamapazi athu ndikulimbana ndi nkhondo iliyonse kwachiwiri💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Choncho ndingati zikomo ex ndipo sindiyenera kuika ntchito yanu patsogolo.

Facts!

Zochitika!

Ghosting is real man... yo

Kukhala ndi chithunzi cha munthu wina ndi choonadi... yo

Ssshhhh...A meaningful silence is always better then meaningless words...✨🎭 



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Ssshhhh...A meaningful silence is always better then meaningless words...✨🎭

Ssshhhh...Chisomo chofunikira nthawi zonse ndi chabwino kuposa mawu osalankhula...✨🎭

🙏🙏🙏

2022 was a hard year. I fought many silent battles. Wiped my own tears and survive. I pray 2023 will be easier.

2022 inali chaka chovuta. Ndinafuna nkhondo zambiri zosalankhula. Ndinafufuta misozi yanga ndikupitilizabe. Ndikupemphera kuti 2023 ikhale yosavuta.

What's ur favorite lesson?
Me: math and English

N'chiyani chophweka chako?
I: masamu ndi Chingerezi

Life lessons

Maphunziro a moyo

You are loved, You are blessed

Muli okondedwa, Muli ndi mwayi

Accompany

Kukhala Pamodzi

Sometimes you have to get it wrong a few times before getting it right

Nthawi zina muyenera kuchita zolakwika pang'ono musanayambe kuchita bwino

In life you will meet two types of people
The ones...WHO BUILD YOU UP
and the ones...WHO TEAR YOU DOWN
but in the end you THANK them both

M'moyo mudzakhala ndi mitundu iwiri ya anthu
Anthu...AMAKUPANGITSANI KUKULA
ndi anthu...AMAKUPHULIKITSANI
koma pamapeto pake mudzawathokoza onse awiri

True

Chokwadi

I really get it now💡

Life won't ever getting easier, it's we should be stronger 🙌

Ndikuwona bwino tsopano💡

Moyo sikhala wosavuta, tiyenera kukhala olimba 🙌

Good morning!!

Moni bwino!!

~Sometimes a person is like a place, never to return
-The times when we had a bad and painful expirence that we've learned our lesson that we'll never do it again. It's the same with having a painful expirence with a person whether your ex or a friend that person will be like a place that you don't want to visit again.....

••••

~Nthawi zina munthu amakhala ngati malo, osati kubwerera
-Nthawi zomwe tinakhala ndi chidziwitso chovuta komanso chovuta chomwe takuphunzira chitsanzo chathu kuti sitidzachita choncho kwinaku. Ndi chimodzimodzi ndi kukhala ndi chidziwitso chovuta ndi munthu, kaya ndi wochotsa kapena mnzako, munthu ameneyo adzakhala ngati malo omwe simukufuna kubwerera.....

Before you date her.

You have to understand that she is damaged. 

There are days where she is triggered easily, and struggles with particular things.

There will be times where she won’t talk to anyone, and shut most people out. 

She isn't going to be able to trust you for certain amount of time, because everyone has left her, cheated on her or chose someone else over her, so she will need more reassurance than the average person. 

She will need you to keep choosing her on a daily basis. 

She will need you to stop what you're doing and reply to her in depthly when she texts you asking ”do u still want me?” 

She's "alot" and she knows this, but there was a time in her life where happiness flourished like never before and the glass was filled to the brim with love and positivity until someone came along and mistreated her. 

It's not going to be easy, but once you show her.... that your intentions your genuine and you will stay by her side through everything in life, then you will experience one of most purest forms of love in existence. 

~ Cody Bret

This....

Chifukwa chiyani muyenera kumuyenda.

Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ali ndi vuto. 

Pali masiku amene amakhala ndi nkhawa mosavuta, ndipo amavutika ndi zinthu zina.

Pali nthawi yomwe sadzayankhula ndi aliyense, ndipo amatsutsa anthu ambiri. 

Sizidzakhala zosavuta kuti akukhulupireni kwa nthawi yochuluka, chifukwa aliyense wamusiya, wamunyenga kapena kusankha wina m'malo mwake, choncho akufuna chitsimikizo chachikulu kuposa munthu wamba. 

Akufuna kuti mupitilize kumusankha tsiku lililonse. 

Akufuna kuti muchepetse zomwe mukuchita ndikuyankha mwachidule pamene akukutumizirani uthenga akufunsa "ukufuna ine?" 

Ali "wambiri" ndipo akudziwa izi, koma panali nthawi mu moyo wake pomwe chimwemwe chinali chachikulu ngati sitingachitirepo ndipo galasi inali yadzaza ndi chikondi ndi chiyembekezo mpaka munthu wina adabwera ndikumuchitira chinyengo. 

Sizidzakhala zosavuta, koma mukamuwonetsa.... kuti zolinga zanu ndizowona ndipo mudzakhala naye pa mbali yake pa zonse mu moyo, ndiye mudzakhala ndi mwayi wochita chimodzi mwa mitundu yachikondi yachikondi kwambiri yomwe ili. 

~ Cody Bret

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