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Just testing the waters, any older ladies around?

New here

Kaliya tijaabinaya biyaha, haween waaweyn oo ag jooga?

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Hi everyone, new to this community, hardly new to loving age gap relationships. As a Dutchman who lived several years in Poland and currently lives in France, I constantly challenge myself to learn new things and explore new places and people. And somehow I find that same energy with younger people. What is it you are looking for in an age gap relationship?

Perspectives

Salaan dhamaan, waxaan cusubahay bulshadan, laakiin ma ahan cusub jacaylka xiriirada farqiga da'da. Anigoo ah Dutch ah oo ku noolaa Poland dhowr sano, isla markaana hadda ku nool Faransiiska, waxaan si joogto ah nafta u qasbayaa inaan barto waxyaabo cusub oo aan sahmiyo meelaha iyo dadka cusub. Si aan u garanayo, waxaan helaa tamartaas isla markaana dadka da'da yar. Maxaad ka raadinaysaa xiriir farqi da'da leh?

Aragtida

Donna 30-55 anni. Nessuna cerca un ragazzo più giovane?

Cerco

Haween 30-55 sano. Ma jiraan kuwa raadinaya wiil ka yar?

Raadi

Young boy can date older women no problem 
But when older men date younger girl then i have problem in the society  why so why is unfair 🤔
I am not religious person so religious stay away from this post.
This is for humanity people.

Wiil yar ayaa taariikhda dumarka waaweyn dhibaato la'aan 
Laakiin marka ragga waaweyn ay taariikhda gabdhaha yar yar, markaas waxaan dhibaato ka qabaa bulshada, maxaa yeelay, maxaa caddaalad darro ah 🤔
Anigu ma ihi qof diimeed, sidaas darteed dadka diinta haysta ka fogaada qoraalkan.
Tani waa dadka bini'aadamka.

I like my dudes…. A little tired 💀10+years older

Waan ka xumahay, taasi waa doorashadayda 😉

Waxaan jeclahay raggeyga…. Wax yar daalan 💀10+sano ka weyn

Admit you’re old if you remember what this is

Qir inaad da' weyn tahay haddii aad xasuusato waxa tani tahay

If your profile says you're a certain age and you tell me something different chances are I may block you. If I meet you on here I'm going with specifically the info that's on your profile. For example if your profile says your 22 and u message me saying your 28, I'll become suspicious about who you are and I'll assume your a liar and posing as someone you're not to get attention.

Be authentic

Haddii profile-kaaga uu leeyahay inaad tahay da' gaar ah oo aad ii sheegto wax ka duwan, fursadaha ayaa ah inaan ku xannibo. Haddii aan ku kulmo halkan waxaan raacayaa macluumaadka gaarka ah ee ku jira profile-kaaga. Tusaale ahaan, haddii profile-kaaga uu leeyahay inaad tahay 22, adiguna ii soo dirto farriin leh inaad tahay 28, waxaan ka shaki doonaa qofka aad tahay waxaanan u qaadan doonaa inaad tahay beenaale oo isku dayaya inaad noqoto qof aanad ahayn si aad u hesho dareen.

Noqo mid dhab ah

You guys are so young.

Idinku waxaad tihiin kuwo aad u da'yar.

Can a 30 year old date a 48 year old if it's possible. Let me know in the comments.

Question

Ma 30 jir ayaa 48 jir la taariikhaysan karaa haddii ay suurtagal tahay. Ii soo sheeg faallooyinka.

Su'aal

What age is to old/young for you to date according to how oldyou are right now?

Waa imisa da' ah oo aad u weyn/yar tahay si aad u taqaanid marka loo eego da'daada hadda?

My father in heaven is 43 and my mother is 23 when they get married ☺️😅 
End up we are 9 siblings😅🤪

For me it's matter somehow it depends if your matured enough .😅

Aabbahay jannada waa 43 jir, hooyadayna waa 23 jir markii ay guursadeen ☺️😅 
Ugu dambeyntii waxaan nahay 9 walaalo😅🤪

Aniga waxay iigu jiraan arrin qaab ahaan waxay ku xiran tahay haddii aad ku filan tahay.

I feel to young to start being a cougar and I feel like people that young (18-27) should live their lives and I'm too old for just fun.(27-45) seems cool but not really interested. (45+) still approaching off young or old enough to be my father seeing if I want to grow older with them. I still review pages to see if compatible or they actually had something to say but most times I feel the same after interacting with them

What is your age gap do or don't and why

Waxaan dareemayaa inaan aad u yarahay si aan u bilaabo inaan noqdo cougar, waxaanan dareemayaa in dadka da'da yar (18-27) ay tahay inay noloshooda ku noolaadaan, aniguna waxaan ahay mid aad u weyn oo kaliya madadaalo. (27-45) waxay u muuqataa mid qabow laakiin ma xiiseynayo. (45+) weli waxay u muuqataa mid ka fog da'da yar ama mid ku filan inuu aabahayga noqdo isagoo arkaaya haddii aan dooneynin inaan la koro. Weli waxaan dib u eegayaa bogagga si aan u arko haddii ay is waafaqayaan ama haddii ay dhab ahaan wax leeyihiin oo ay sheegaan, laakiin inta badan waxaan dareemayaa isla wax ka dib marka aan la falgalo.

Waa maxay farqiga da'daada ee aad sameyso ama aadan sameynin iyo sababta

What is the youngest and oldest age you will consider dating? Why?

Youngest/Oldest

Waa maxay da'da ugu yar iyo ugu weyn ee aad tixgelin doonto inaad taariikh u yeelato? Maxay tahay sababta?

Da'da Ugu Yaryar/Ugu Weyn

Question for the ladies:

I found that how I get attracted to a woman is by the connection and the bond that is built.

With that, I found with time that age is ≠ compatibility. 
For myself, I found that the personality, mind, and heart, is what truly has the affect and what I feel attraction for.

Society in general seems to label and categorize people, by factors like: 
race, age, financial situation.

I find that I am not like the typical.

So, this is a question for the ladies.
Would age gap be a decision factor?

Would you not have a feeling to invest, or feeling of no interest to invest time and interest to get to know a man because he is older?

Could you be comfortable, feel comfortable with, being with a man with age gap of 5 or more years?

Would you dismiss to talk to a man, because of the age gap?
Or would you dismiss the society typical expectations, to find the man with the heart that your heart needs?



With that. I will ask a different question:

Financially and financial situation and capability:

To make this simple, I will be direct with my question:

Would you NOT be interested to get to know a specific man, because of his financial situation? A financial situation that is very difficult in his life?

Would you ONLY consider men  based on a higher financial capability?

I never expected to live to this age.
My age, is a number. Pure and simple. 

My age isn't a factor of personality, how I feel and how I "view" myself.
I, AM NOT my age, but the age IS one factor of who I am. 
What I mean is, that I am not a number.

AGE Gap And what you think

Su'aal haweenka:

Waxaan ogaaday in sida aan u soo jiidanayo haweeney ay tahay xiriirka iyo xidhiidhka la dhiso.

Iyadoo taas la tixgelinayo, waxaan waqti la socday in da'du aysan ahayn ≠ waafaqsanaanta.
Aniga, waxaan ogaaday in shakhsiyadda, maskaxda, iyo qalbiga, ay yihiin waxa runtii saameeya iyo waxa aan dareemayo soo jiidasho.

Bulshada guud ahaan waxay u muuqataa inay dadka ku calaamadiso oo ay u kala soocdo, iyadoo lagu saleynayo arrimo sida:
qowmiyadda, da'da, xaaladda dhaqaale.

Waxaan ogaaday inaanan ahayn sida caadiga ah.

Sidaas darteed, tani waa su'aal haweenka.
Ma noqon doontaa farqiga da'da go'aan?

Ma dareemi doontaa inaad maalgashato, ama dareen aan xiiso lahayn oo aad waqti iyo xiiso ku bixiso si aad u barato nin sababtoo ah waa weyn yahay?

Ma noqon kartaa raaxo, dareen raaxo leh, inaad la joogto nin leh farqi da' ah oo ah 5 sano ama ka badan?

Ma diidi doontaa inaad la hadasho nin, sababtoo ah farqiga da'da?
Ama ma diidi doontaa filashooyinka caadiga ah ee bulshada, si aad u hesho ninka leh qalbiga uu qalbigaagu u baahan yahay?



Iyadoo taas la tixgelinayo. Waxaan weydiin doonaa su'aal kale:

Xaaladda dhaqaale iyo awoodda dhaqaale:

Si aan tan u fududeeyo, waxaan si toos ah u weydiin doonaa su'aashayda:

Ma DOONI doontaa inaad xiiseyso inaad barato nin gaar ah, sababtoo ah xaaladdiisa dhaqaale? Xaalad dhaqaale oo aad u adag noloshiisa?

Ma kaliya tixgelin doontaa ragga iyadoo lagu saleynayo awood dhaqaale oo sare?

Ma filayn inaan noolaado ilaa da'dan.
Da'daydu, waa tiro. Nadiif ah oo fudud.

Da'daydu ma aha arrin shakhsiyadeed, sida aan dareemayo iyo sida aan "u arko" naftayda.
Anigu, MA AHAN da'dayda, laakiin da'du waa hal arrin oo ka mid ah qofka aan ahay.
Waxaan ula jeedaa, inaanan ahayn tiro.

Farqiga Da'da iyo waxa aad ka fikirto

I know age is just a number to a degree, and I’m totally flattered by all the compliments from these 18-24 year olds, but when I politely said 

‘Thank you for the compliments, but I’m looking for someone a bit closer to my own age sorry sweetheart. Best of luck to you though’ 

I had a message pop up to say ‘this sounds disrespectful are you sure you want to send that?’

Umm… how is that disrespectful? And how else should I put it? 🤷‍♀️😅 thoughts?

Is this disrespectful?

Waxaan ogahay in da'du ay tahay kaliya tiro ilaa xad, waxaanan si buuxda u faraxsanahay dhammaan amaanada ka imaanaya dadka 18-24 jirka ah, laakiin markii aan si edeb leh u sheegay 

‘Waad ku mahadsan tahay amaanada, laakiin waxaan raadinayaa qof ka dhow da'dayda, raali ahow macaan. Nasiib wacan adiga’ 

waxaan helay fariin soo baxday oo leh ‘tani waxay u muuqataa ixtiraam darro, ma hubtaa inaad rabto inaad tan dirto?’

Umm… sidee bay taasi u tahay ixtiraam darro? Sidee kale ayaan u dhigi karaa? 🤷‍♀️😅 fikradaha?

Ma tani waa ixtiraam darro?

Any immortals here because I'm sure as hell not

Immortal

Ma jiraan wax aan dhiman halkan maxaa yeelay waxaan hubaa inaanan ahayn.

Khalqad aan dhiman

I'm 30 looking 35-40. 😂😂

Waxaan ahay 30 jir laakiin u eg 35-40. 😂😂

I personally think a girl should be over the age of 25 before she even bothers thinking about older guys. I have three younger sisters. The chances of changing my view on this are very slim do your best.

How big of an gap is acceptable?

Anigu si shaqsi ah waxaan u maleynayaa in gabadhdu ay ka weyn tahay 25 sano ka hor intaanay xitaa ka fikirin ragga waaweyn. Waxaan haystaa seddex walaalood oo yar. Fursadaha aan ku beddelo aragtidayda arrintan aad bay u yar yihiin, samee dadaalkaaga.

Immisa farqi ah ayaa la aqbali karaa?

Is age gap relationships still a taboo where you live?

Taboo

Ma weli xiriirka farqiga da'da ah waa taboob halka aad ku nooshahay?

Elderly

Ma u muuqdaa inaan ka wanaagsanahay da' weyn? lol

Odayaasha

I wanna make a movie where a guy ages when he time travels in the past but gets younger when he travels in the future.

Time travel movie idea

Waxaan rabaa inaan sameeyo filim halkaas oo nin da' weyn yahay marka uu safar waqtiga ku tago mustaqbalka laakiin uu yaraanayo marka uu safar ku tago mustaqbalka.

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Aragtida

Raadi

Waxaan jeclahay raggeyga…. Wax yar daalan 💀10+sano ka weyn

Qir inaad da' weyn tahay haddii aad xasuusato waxa tani tahay

Farqiga da'da..