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After five years of working in that pit, the toxicity of assuming I had friendships, how did I?

My last straw that broke me mentality was when I realized my friend Shelly for years, turned out to be the one causing all my drama at work.

Way before I ended up pregnant with the same person that my old boss literally placed on a pillow, Catherine. Now, Catherine and I did end up pregnant at the same time and I was excited to share the experience.

Until I realized Catherine was throwing me under the bus with our mutual friend Kris. Kris was young, and I thought she was kind. She showed me her true colors when I rounded the corner to find her, Catherine, Shelly and our boss Shasta talking about me. I still cant get that smirk out of my head, it was cat like...and I was their mouse. 

Shasta, she broke my heart the moment she pulled me into the office before her promotion. She started demanding I owned up talking to HR about our old boss, Clint. I kept denying it only to find out thst Shelly used me as a escape goat. 

Shasta now the manager, and Shelly the assistant. Didn't know I would be treated with lack of care. They were never my friends neither, along with Lela, and Abe. 

Abe really shocked me, I honestly thought he would have cared. He didn't, he actually joined in with them and even as a school counselor for a elementary school. I felt safe around him, and I would tell him things only to discover he told Shasta and Shelly everything. I should've known he wasn't nice wheb he stole cash rewards from our customers and handed them out to Lela and Kris. 

Who would believe me? Even if I went to HR, no one from that store would have stood up for me. Even when I thought Lela was my friend. When he would comfort me when Shasta or Catherine was mean to me. She would text Shelly while at work when Shelly was off about updates about me. I guess being paid under the table to watch Shelly's son got you in the pharmacy.

The same position I was working towards but Shasta told me I was too far along in my pregnancy to take the courses. The same pregnancy that was constantly compared to Catherine when she is 10 years younger than me. 

I struggled to get pregnant and these people that I thought cared about me nearly caused me to lose him when I was sent to the ER for being dehydrated for run ing back and forth in the summer front counter and photo. Only to know that Kris and Abe was just sitting in the stockroom talking.

Matt was my only true friend, he was ran out by Shasta due to being trans. Abe would even, as someone from the  rainbow club, join in.  Not surprised, I always felt that he wasnt one of the good soul; even though his a Sunday school teacher as well on top of being a school counselor. No, Matt was and still is good. I remember when HR was called, Shasta called my cellphone demanding I tell her who called HR. I was so scared, Matt never held it against me for not speaking my truth. I was going through the worse PPD, and Matt held me as I cried. 


How did I survive? 

I held onto that hug from Matt, even when he had to leave. Matt was my only true friend from that store. I may have had to be in the pit for years , but Matt showed me even when you are down, you don't stop.

I did, I held on tight for not only myself but for my son. My son needed me to work because we lost our benefits despite my husband losing his job. The weight came off not because of my workout plan I told my ex coworkers, but I starved.

Our foodstamps have been taken along with my son's wic and insurance. I made aure my husband and son ate while I struggled to pay my own bills. Work was cutting back on my hours due to my spinal injury from giving birth. 

(Don't get me started on the bullying and harassment Shasta and that whole team put me through over my stool. Which, it was rainbowed colored)

The way those women gossip behind my back, but I kept going. Despite the looks, the whispers, and the fake smiles. Even when I was pulled in the office with my two very "best friends" from the start  Shasta and Shelly and threw a "Mental Health" packet and in a professional way 

'We are going to fire you'

News flash, thank you Matt for helping me get enrolled into the free therapy 🥰😘

They were shocked to find out that I was already 6 weeks into my therapy. Soon, Shelly world came all crasijg down, the lies she built on me tumbled, out the door she went leaving me with Shasta and  Catherine .

Yet, I already had my foot out the door and into another job before the holidays. Your scape goat and working mule is OUT OF HERE

Spite. 

It was Spite

How did I survive?

Ka dib shan sano oo aan ka shaqeynayay godkaas, sunta ka timid in aan u maleynayay in aan saaxiibo leeyahay, sidee baan u noolaaday?

Xadhigii ugu dambeeyay ee igu burburiyay maskaxdayda wuxuu ahaa markii aan ogaaday saaxiibkay Shelly oo aan la joogay sanado, inay ahayd qofka sababay dhammaan dhibaatooyinkayga shaqada.

Way ka horreysay markii aan uurka ku dhashay qofkaas isla markaana maamulahaygii hore uu si dhab ah u dhigay madaxa sariirta, Catherine. Hadda, Catherine iyo aniga waxaan ku dhashay isla waqtigaas waxaana aad u faraxsanaa inaan la wadaago khibradda.

Illaa aan ogaaday in Catherine ay iga dhigtay mid ka mid ah gaadiidka saaxiibkeen Kris. Kris waxay ahayd dhalinyaro, waxaanan u maleynayay inay naxariis leedahay. Waxay muujisay midabkeeda dhabta ah markii aan geeska u jeestay si aan u arko iyada, Catherine, Shelly iyo maamulahayaga Shasta oo ka hadlaya aniga. Weli ma aanan ka saari karin dhoolla-caddeyntaasi maskaxdayda, waxay ahayd mid bisad ah... aniguna waxaan ahaa jiirka.

Shasta, waxay qalbiga iga jabisay markii ay igu soo jiidatay xafiiska ka hor koritaanka. Waxay bilaabeen inay iga dalbadaan inaan la hadlo HR ku saabsan maamulahaygii hore, Clint. Waxaan sii wadi jiray inaan diido kaliya si aan u ogaado in Shelly ay iga dhigtay xayawaan ka baxsada.

Shasta hadda waa maamulaha, iyo Shelly waa kaaliyaha. Ma aanan ogeyn in aan lagu dhaqmi doono si aan u daryeel. Waxay waligood ihiin saaxiibadeyda ma ahayn, oo ay la socdeen Lela, iyo Abe.

Abe runtii wuxuu i yaabiyay, si daacad ah waxaan u maleynayay inuu daryeeli lahaa. Ma uusan daryeelin, wuxuu si dhab ah ugu biiray iyaga xitaa isagoo ah la-taliye dugsiga hoose. Waxaan dareemayay ammaan agtiisa, waxaanan u sheegi jiray waxyaabo kaliya si aan u ogaado inuu u sheegay Shasta iyo Shelly wax walba. Waa inaan ogaa inuusan fiicnayn markii uu xaday abaalmarinno lacag ah oo ka timid macaamiisheena oo uu siiyay Lela iyo Kris.

Yaa i rumeyn lahaa? Xitaa haddii aan HR tago, qofna ma u taagi lahaa dukaankaas. Xitaa markii aan u maleynayay in Lela ay saaxiibadayda tahay. Markii uu i raalli gelin jiray markii Shasta ama Catherine ay i xumeeyeen. Waxay fariin u dirtay Shelly iyadoo shaqada ku jirta markii Shelly ay ka maqneyd warbixin ku saabsan aniga. Waxaan u maleynayaa in la i siiyay lacag hoos ka ah miiska si aan u daawado wiilka Shelly.

Jagadaas ayaan ku shaqeynayay laakiin Shasta waxay ii sheegtay inaan aad u fogahay uurkeyga si aan u qaato koorsooyinka. Uurkaas oo si joogto ah loogu barbardhigay Catherine markii ay 10 sano ka yar tahay aniga.

Waxaan la dhibtooday inaan uur qaado iyo dadkaas aan u maleynayay inay i daryeelaan ayaa igu qasbay inay aanan lumin isaga markii la ii diray ER sababtoo ah aanan biyo ku filan helin anigoo ordaya hore iyo gadaal xagaaga. Kaliya si aan u ogaado in Kris iyo Abe ay kaliya fadhiyeen qolka kaydinta oo ka hadlaya.

Matt wuxuu ahaa saaxiibkayga kaliya ee dhabta ah, waxaa ka saaray Shasta sababtoo ah inuu yahay trans. Abe xitaa, isagoo ka mid ah kooxda rainbow, wuxuu ku biiray. Ma yaab, mar walba waxaan dareemayay inuusan ahayn mid ka mid ah nafta wanaagsan; inkastoo uu sidoo kale yahay macallin dugsiga Axadda oo ah la-taliye dugsiga. Maya, Matt wuxuu ahaa oo weli waa wanaagsan. Waxaan xasuustaa markii HR la wacay, Shasta waxay wacday taleefankayga iyadoo dalbanaysa inaan u sheego yaa wacay HR. Aad ayaan u cabsi qabay, Matt waligiis ma uusan i xukumin inaanan she

Sidee baan u noolaaday?

💪 I need these

💪 Waxaan u baahanahay kuwaas

I was wounded in the line of duty! I demand hazard pay!

Waxaan ku dhaawacmay waajibaadkayga! Waxaan dalbanayaa lacag khatar ah!

YEET

The same talented employees. Two different employers. One builds loyalty. The other builds resignation. The difference isn't talent...it's leadership.

Shaqaalaha hal talent leh. Laba shaqo oo kala duwan. Midna wuxuu dhisaa daacadnimo. Midka kalena wuxuu dhisaa is casilaad. Farqiga maaha talent... waa hogaaminta.

My officemates praying that work be suspended tomorrow…

Ya’ll graduated from college 10-15 years ago. What do you mean work suspension?

Get over it

Saaxiibadayda xafiiska ayaa ducaynaya in shaqada la hakiyo berri…

Idinku waxaad ka qalin-jabisay jaamacadda 10-15 sano ka hor. Maxaad ka waddaa hakinta shaqada?

Ka gudub

Work mood

Hawsha niyadda

Are you ready? Yes i am ready for work😌😆🤗✨🌻

Ma diyaar baad tahay? Haa, waxaan diyaar u ahay shaqada😌😆🤗✨🌻

Another day of clocking in at work.. 😌

Work.. work.. work.. 😌

Shaqo.. shaqo.. shaqo.. 😌

Get ready but not ready yet 🤣✨🌻🤗🙏💖😘😍yes belly of chubby on me😮‍💨😆🤷

Isku diyaarso laakiin weli diyaar ma ahan 🤣✨🌻🤗🙏💖😘😍haa caloosha buuran ee igu taal😮‍💨😆🤷

After working

Ka dib shaqada

I want to go home but i'm still at work lol🤣😭😮‍💨 long weekend at work right? Yessss it is💯🫩✨😏😪

Waxaan rabaa inaan guriga tago laakiin weli waxaan ka shaqeeyaa lol🤣😭😮‍💨 usbuuc dheer oo shaqo ah sax? Haa waa💯🫩✨😏😪

Workout work work work

Jimicsi shaqo shaqo shaqo

Haha my hair not ready to work 🤣😘

Haha timahaygu ma diyaar u ahayn shaqo 🤣😘

Hi!! Friday!! Weekend today lol🙂‍↕️🤣😆🌻💖✨

Haye!! Jimce!! Maalinta fasaxa maanta lol🙂‍↕️🤣😆🌻💖✨

Work 🤪

Shaqo 🤪

Let's start the day 😁

Aan maalinta bilowno 😁

over time

Maareynta emayllada xitaa maalmaha fasaxa 😬

waqti ka dib

Ah, this is a boring day. I have to be fully active from morning to night. This is overtime, bro. Please take me on a flight haha

Ah, tani waa maalin caajis ah. Waa inaan si buuxda u firfircoonahay subaxdii ilaa habeenkii. Tani waa saacadaha dheeraadka ah, saaxiib. Fadlan i qaad duulimaad haha

For me I might be an owner, but I have to work alongside my workers too. 7 days a week. 0 day off⌚ 👍🫡

What is your day off look like? 🤔

Aniga waxaan noqon karaa milkiile, laakiin waa inaan sidoo kale la shaqeeyaa shaqaalahayga. 7 maalmood usbuucii. 0 maalin fasax ah⌚ 👍🫡

Sidee bay maalintaada fasaxa u egtahay? 🤔

I always wanted to work as a barista at sone point so I'm happy with this job for now

TLABAJAL

Mar walba waxaan jeclaa inaan ka shaqeeyo barista mar, sidaas darteed waxaan ku faraxsanahay shaqadan hadda

Fast food, not many options in the middle of super express hours… fresh butter bread is cool 😆

Cunto degdeg ah, fursado badan ma jiraan bartamaha saacadaha super express… rootiga subagga cusub waa qabow 😆

I really tried to be early for work🤞...

Runtii waxaan isku dayay inaan shaqada hore u yimaado🤞...

Just trying to make it through another work day. You've got this!!

Here's to everyone...

Kaliya waxaan isku dayayaa inaan ka gudbo maalin kale oo shaqo. Waad haysataa tan!!

Halkan waxaa u ah qof walba...

Everyone always ask me what are you going to do when your kids are all grown up ( I'll be 42 )

Friend one - travel
Friend two - finally relax 
Family - go on holidays 
Family - move away 
Blah blah blah blah 

My ADHD/Autistic A$$ - I'm going to be a pirate!!

Yo-ho

Dhammaan dadka mar walba way i weydiiyaan maxaad samayn doontaa marka carruurtaadu dhammaantood way koraan ( Waxaan noqon doonaa 42 )

Saaxiib mid - safar
Saaxiib labaad - ugu dambeyntii naso 
Qoyska - fasax tag 
Qoyska - guur 
Blah blah blah blah 

Aniga oo leh ADHD/Autistic A$$ - waxaan noqon doonaa burcad!!

With glasses or without, the focus stays the same: work hard, stay confident, and keep moving forward. ✨💼

Morning work routine ☕👓

Iyada oo muraayadaha ama aan lahayn, diiraddu waxay ahaaneysaa mid isku mid ah: si adag u shaqee, kalsooni ku hay, oo sii wad horumarka. ✨💼

Hawsha subaxnimo ☕👓

What do you do for a living?

Maxaad u shaqeysaa?

Try the outfit for Friday …

Isku day dharka Jimcaha …

There are days when rest isn’t an option, but quitting never is. One day, all of this hard work will be worth it.

Tired

Waxaa jira maalmood aan nasasho la'aan ahayn, laakiin joojinta waligeed ma aha. Maalin maalmaha ka mid ah, dhammaan shaqadan adag waxay noqon doontaa mid qiimo leh.

Daallan

Sometimes at work when I am at place where they have pet I can't help myself. This cutie pie was with me the whole time when I was cleaning and did the the windows ( 34 windows on the inside and 34 windows for the outside = 68 windows) took me around 5hr50min to do it all 👌

How was your day?

Life of a housecleaner

Mararka qaarkood shaqada marka aan joogo meel ay xayawaan leeyihiin ma caawin karo naftayda. Qofkan yar wuxuu igu jiray waqtiga oo dhan markii aan nadiifinayay oo aan daaqadaha (34 daaqadood gudaha ah iyo 34 daaqadood dibadda ah = 68 daaqadood) sameeyay, waxay igu qaadatay qiyaastii 5saac 50daqiiqo inaan dhammeeyo 👌

Sidee buu maalintaadu u ahayd?

Nolosha nadiifiyaha guryaha

I'm waiting for you guys!!! We have training course!! Don't forget!!!🫩✨🤣🥱🙏💖🌻

Waxaan idin sugayaa!!! Waxaan haynaa koorso tababar!! Ha ilaawin!!!🫩✨🤣🥱🙏💖🌻

🙃

Monday start for me 💖🌻🤗🍀😪😅🤣

Isniin bilow aniga 💖🌻🤗🍀😪😅🤣

And as of tomorrow night after my 8 to 5 doing customer service from 6 to 9 I'll be back at my last job doing telemarketing 🙃 when will I ever make time for a life 😅 make it or break it, am I it? I don't remember being tagged and I don't wanna play this game again 😮‍💨 c'est la vie

Here we go again

Iyo tan iyo caawa habeenka ka dib markii aan ka shaqeeyay adeegga macaamiisha 8 ilaa 5 laga bilaabo 6 ilaa 9 waxaan ku noqon doonaa shaqadaydii ugu dambeysay ee telemarketing 🙃 goormaan waqti u heli doonaa nolol 😅 samee ama burbur, ma anigaa? Ma xasuusto in la i calaamadeeyay mana rabo inaan ciyaartan mar kale ciyaaro 😮‍💨 c'est la vie

Halkan mar kale ayaan joognaa

Spent the whole day cleaning one of my favorite workplaces, plus every window today. My body is officially done 😅 But only a few more days until vacation starts on Friday 🥳🪟✨

My work today 🥳✨️🙏

Waxaan maalin dhan ku qaatay nadiifinta mid ka mid ah meelaha aan jeclahay in aan ka shaqeeyo, iyo sidoo kale daaqadaha oo dhan maanta. Jidhkaygu si rasmi ah ayuu u dhammaaday 😅 Laakiin kaliya dhowr maalmood ayaa ka harsan ilaa fasaxa uu bilaabmayo Jimcaha 🥳🪟✨

Shaqadayda maanta 🥳✨️🙏

Supervisors are scattered and sleeping...

Kormeerayaasha ayaa daadsan oo hurda...

Night shifts....feels like lucid dreaming ... sometimes you are not sure if you are still awake or if you finally fell asleep...dying here 😴

🫩

Shaqooyinka habeenkii....waxay u egtahay riyo cad ... mararka qaarkood ma hubtid haddii aad weli toos tahay ama haddii aad ugu dambeyntii seexatay...dhimanaya halkan 😴

Thankfully only the 3rd floor this time… unlike that one time on the 11th floor with one foot on the railing. 😅

More Window cleaning

Ilaah mahadiis kaliya dabaqa 3aad mar this… si ka duwan mar kii 11aad oo hal cag ku taagan raailka. 😅

Nadiifinta daaqadaha

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Sidee baan u noolaaday?

💪 Waxaan u baahanahay kuwaas

Waxaan ku dhaawacmay waajibaadkayga! Waxaan dalbanayaa lacag khatar ah!

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YEET

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Ma tani weli tahay meta?

"Waxaan shaqeeyaa habeenkii oo dhan laakiin waxaan dareemayaa kalma"