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Psychology

Psychoanalysis

psychoanalysis

is highly recommended if you want to learn more about attachment styles

This book

sangat dianjurkeun upami anjeun hoyong diajar langkung seueur ngeunaan gaya keterikatan

Buku ieu

Exert from a conversation

I wrote a more deliberate version in the comments if you prefer to read

Thoughts on gullibility and manipulation

Kaluaran tina paguneman

Abdi nyerat versi anu langkung saksama dina koméntar upami anjeun langkung resep maca

Pikiran ngeunaan kapercayaan sareng manipulasi

Libro esencial que viene a saldar parte de la deuda que tenemos con las mujeres en el psicoanálisis

Buku penting anu datang pikeun mayar sabagian utang anu urang gaduh ka awéwé dina psikoanalisis

No último dia 6 de Maio,nascia uma das personalidades mais brilhantes,originais e geniais da história da humanidade e da psicologia, Sigmund Freud,o homem que desvelou o lado obscuro da mente...... #Psicanálise #Freud #Id #Ego #SuperEgo

O pai da ciência que desvendou o lado oculto da psique

Dina dinten terakhir 6 Méi, lahir salah sahiji pribadi anu paling cemerlang, orisinal, sareng jenius dina sajarah umat manusa sareng psikologi, Sigmund Freud, lalaki anu ngungkab sisi poék tina pikiran...... #Psikanalisis #Freud #Id #Ego #SuperEgo

Bapa élmu anu ngungkab sisi anu disumputkeun tina psike

Grandes psicanalistas brasileiros: Christian Dunker

Psikolog Brasil anu gedé: Christian Dunker

If you can't change a situation, change your perception of it. Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.

Lamun anjeun teu tiasa ngarobih hiji kaayaan, robih persepsi anjeun ngeunaan éta. Émut, kalolobaan stres anjeun asalna ti cara anjeun ngaréspon, sanés ti cara hirupna.

when patients go well, their analysts feels happy. :)

when patients go well…

nalika pasien saé, analisna ngarasa bagja. :)

nalika pasien saé…

infp

Because you in your waking consciousness completely refuse to accept these parts of yourself, they exist in your perception as parts existing only in others. This is why many people have nightmares about ghosts staring at them or chasing them: these are also parts of our selves that we do not want to accept, that are seeking to be seen, understood and accepted by us, and because of our total refusal to accept them, we perceive their presence in our dreams as horror. This is the same reason why many people are afraid of the dark: they always feel that there is something in the dark, staring at them: these so-called "ghosts in the dark" are nothing else but a part of your self that you don't want to accept.

So it is obvious now that you are afraid of them not because they are truly something "scary", but simply because you aren't willing to recognize and accept these parts of yourself, so you "otherize" them completely and subconsciously perceive their constant search for your acceptance as horror.

This is also the root cause of your criticism and condemnation or loathing against any other people: you are actually loathing parts of your self that you don't accept at all, and because you are so completely unwilling to accept or acknowledge that they are in fact part of your self, you subconsciously "otherize" them completely. So in your world, these parts of your self appear as  others that are annoying or scary in your waking life, and as "ghosts" in your dreams. Each of us has been so unwilling to accept many parts of ourselves, and this behavior is completely repressed below the conscious mind, buried in the subconscious, that the collective consciousness of the whole world has co-created all kinds of "ghost" cultures, sayings, stories, fears and everything about ghosts, all over the world.

So what can you do?
One of the things I've learned and found to be very effective is to make a list of the parts of yourself that you do accept. You'd realize that most of these are things that you like about you and others (e.g., kindness, sincerity, politeness, respect for people, respect for rules, intelligence, etc.)  List them all.

Then, the most important step: list the opposites of all those parts. Whether you're willing to accept this or not right now, these opposites are the very parts of yourself that exist in you that you've been in total denial about and unwilling to recognize. They are the "ghosts" you fear in dark places or at night in your bedroom, and "other people" in your life or on the internet that you criticize, condemn and judge. You'll find that the points in your list are the exact very points you loathe in other people. You must remember: everything positive you see in yourself has a negative counterpart that exists equally in you. 

Finally, intend in your mind or say it out loud:
"I fully accept all parts of myself, whatever they may be: when I'm kind and when I am malicious; when I am intelligent and when I am clumsy and blind; when I am polite and when I am vulgar; when I have a unique taste and when I have a lousy taste; when I love some animals and when I dislike them; when I want to help others and when I want to priorize myself; when I obey public order and morals and  when I want to spit and litter and jump in line and fight others and murder; when I want to accept myself and when I can't accept myself; when I am profound and when I am superficial; when I am fit and when I am fat..." etc.

Acceptance of all that is possible and impossible in your entirety, which is, one hundred percent unconditional acceptance of yourself. This is the prerequisite for love, or actually - love itself. You have taken an extremely important step by simply being willing to do this. You have to do it. You have no choice. You desire to do it. You've been wanting to do it like crazy, otherwise you wouldn't be afraid of the dark, you wouldn't have nightmares, or you wouldn't keep encountering annoying people and things that you loathe, and you wouldn't feel lonely and feel life is a struggle or see a world in wars. Our selves are always seeking, moment by moment, to be fully seen, understood, fully accepted by us, or - to be loved unconditionally. World peace lies in finally realizing that as humans, everything we have been fighting, hating, criticizing, condemning and wishing to annihilate in others are actually parts of our own selves that we don't want to recognize. You must start with yourself. Unconditional love comes from you.

(You can use the solution based on the same logic for dealing with your nightmares mentioned above: after you wake up, talk to the "ghosts" in your nightmare, and ask what they are and what they are for. Then you need to answer these questions youself. Answer the questions by intuitively writing out the answers, or imagine that you are the ghosts, and answer the questions as them. Imagine that you are now the ghost, facing yourself who's waiting for the answers, what would you want to say? What urgent demands and deep desires you have? You can practice this method also when you are afraid of the dark and "stuff" in the dark, talk to this "stuff" , and imagine that you are this "stuff", and then speak as them. Finally, when you understand what they are and what they want, you have to intend with all your heart: "I accept these parts of myself completely, and I embrace them with open arms and compassion." When you are willing to do so, you have already taken an extremely important step).

It is very shallow and even cruel to see anyone, especially oneself, in a dualistic way (e.g. good and bad, kind and evil, intelligent and stupid, etc.): for example, if you think someone is "kind", when they have to do something that isn't "kind" for reasons that you will never be able to understand because you haven't lived their life, you will instantly loathe them. This is because you have such a shallow, dualistic view of your extremely complex self and the selves of others. How can one ever expect to explain or describe complex and multi-dimensioned selves from the view of 2D? Maybe right here right now you have a sudden urge to condemn others or yourself for shallowness, or maybe now you feel superior to some people? Don't forget that the root cause of any of your non-acceptance, condemnation, or criticizing of anything in other people all lies in your unconscious unwillingness to accept yourself as such, so you subconsciously otherize them, and it's something you do all the time. Maybe you just did it again now. Similarly, when you are afraid of criticisms, judgements and attacks from others, aren't they actually the critisms and judgements that you have been making against yourself all along? Especially when you see yourself in the above-mentioned dualistic view, you are rejecting some parts of yourself all the time: if you think you are "kind", you are rejecting the parts of yourself that you believe are not "kind"; if you think you are "generous", you are rejecting the parts of yourself that you consider to be "mean"; if you think you are "intelligent", you are rejecting the parts of yourself that you think are "stupid", and so on and so forth. All of these "rejections" of yourself are accordingly reflected in your aversion to other people in your life.

When you fully accept all that you are, you will no longer loathe any other person. When you understand yourself completely, you will understand everyone. When you love yourself unconditionally, you will love the world unconditionally. World peace doesn't rely on any organization, campaigns, or politicians. Fully and completely, it relies on you. 







#psychology #science #philosophy #worldpeace 
#spirituality #music #writing #infj #idealism #psychoanalysis #enfj #enfp #love

Any parts that you see in others that you criticize and loathe are parts that exist in yourself that you refuse to accept.

Kusabab anjeun dina kasadaran anjeun anu hudang sacara lengkep nolak pikeun nampa bagian ieu tina diri anjeun, aranjeunna aya dina persepsi anjeun salaku bagian anu ngan ukur aya di batur. Ieu sababna seueur jalma ngalaman mimpi buruk ngeunaan hantu anu ngawaskeun atanapi ngudag aranjeunna: ieu ogé bagian tina diri urang anu henteu hoyong urang nampa, anu milarian pikeun katingali, dipahami sareng ditampi ku urang, sareng kusabab nolak total urang pikeun nampa aranjeunna, urang nganggap ayana aranjeunna dina impian urang salaku horor. Ieu ogé alesan anu sami naha seueur jalma sieun kana poék: aranjeunna salawasna ngarasa yén aya hal anu aya di poék, ngawaskeun aranjeunna: anu disebut "hantu di poék" sanés sanés tapi bagian tina diri anjeun anu anjeun henteu hoyong nampa.

Janten ayeuna jelas yén anjeun sieun ka aranjeunna sanés sabab aranjeunna leres-leres "menakutkan", tapi saukur sabab anjeun henteu daék pikeun ngenal sareng nampa bagian ieu tina diri anjeun, janten anjeun "ngalainkeun" aranjeunna sacara lengkep sareng sacara bawah sadar nganggap pencarian konstan aranjeunna pikeun nampa anjeun salaku horor.

Ieu ogé sabab akar kritik sareng hukuman atanapi benci anjeun ka jalma sanés: anjeun sabenerna benci bagian tina diri anjeun anu anjeun henteu nampa pisan, sareng kusabab anjeun pisan henteu daék pikeun nampa atanapi ngaku yén aranjeunna sabenerna bagian tina diri anjeun, anjeun sacara bawah sadar "ngalainkeun" aranjeunna sacara lengkep. Janten di dunya anjeun, bagian ieu tina diri anjeun muncul salaku batur anu ngaganggu atanapi menakutkan dina kahirupan anjeun anu hudang, sareng salaku "hantu" dina impian anjeun. Unggal urang parantos pisan henteu daék pikeun nampa seueur bagian tina diri urang, sareng perilaku ieu sacara lengkep ditekan di handapeun pikiran sadar, dikubur di bawah sadar, yén kasadaran kolektif sakuliah dunya parantos nyiptakeun sagala jinis budaya "hantu", ungkapan, carita, ketakutan sareng sagala hal ngeunaan hantu, di sakuliah dunya.

Janten naon anu tiasa anjeun laksanakeun?
Salah sahiji hal anu kuring pelajari sareng mendakan pisan efektif nyaéta nyieun daptar bagian diri anjeun anu anjeun nampa. Anjeun bakal sadar yén kalolobaan ieu nyaéta hal-hal anu anjeun resep ngeunaan anjeun sareng batur (contona, kahadéan, ketulusan, sopan santun, hormat ka jalma, hormat ka aturan, intelijen, jsb.) Daptar sadayana.

Terus, léngkah anu paling penting: daptar lawan tina sadaya bagian éta. Naha anjeun daék nampa ieu atanapi henteu ayeuna, lawan ieu nyaéta bagian diri anjeun anu aya di anjeun anu anjeun parantos total nolak sareng henteu daék pikeun ngenal. Aranjeunna nyaéta "hantu" anu anjeun sieun di tempat poék atanapi di wengi di kamar anjeun, sareng "batur" dina kahirupan anjeun atanapi di internét anu anjeun kritik, hukum sareng nilai. Anjeun bakal mendakan yén titik-titik dina daptar anjeun nyaéta titik anu persis anjeun benci di batur. Anjeun kedah émut: sagala hal positif anu anjeun tingali dina diri anjeun ngagaduhan pasangan négatif anu aya sarua di anjeun.

Akhirna, niatkeun dina pikiran anjeun atanapi nyarioskeunana sacara keras:
"Kuring nampi sadaya bagian diri kuring, naon waé éta: nalika kuring kahadean sareng nalika kuring jahat; nalika kuring pinter sareng nalika kuring kagok sareng buta; nalika kuring sopan sareng nalika kuring kasar; nalika kuring gaduh rasa anu unik sareng nalika kuring gaduh rasa anu goréng; nalika kuring resep sababaraha sato sareng nalika kuring henteu resep; nalika kuring hoyong ngabantosan batur sareng nalika kuring hoyong ngutamakeun diri sorangan; nalika kuring taat kana tata tertib umum sareng moral sareng nalika kuring hoyong ngaluarkeun sareng nyampah sareng ngalanggar antrian sareng berkelahi sareng batur sareng maéhan; nalika kuring hoyong nampa diri kuring sareng nalika kuring henteu tiasa nampa diri kuring; nalika kuring jero sareng nalika kuring dangkal; nalika kuring séhat sareng nalika kuring gendut..." jsb.

Nampa sadayana anu mungkin sareng mustahil dina dirina, anu mangrupikeun, nampa diri anjeun sacara tanpa syarat saratus persen. Ieu mangrupikeun syarat pikeun cinta, atanapi sabenerna - cinta éta sorangan. Anjeun parantos nyandak léngkah anu pisan penting ku saukur daék ngalakukeun ieu. Anjeun kedah ngalakukeunana. Anjeun henteu gaduh pilihan.

Sakabéh bagian anu anjeun tingali di batur anu anjeun kritik sareng benci nyaéta bagian anu aya dina diri anjeun anu anjeun nolak pikeun nampa.

#movies #films #art #intj #psychoanalysis #psychology #mbti

Fight Club and its moral lesson about the society we live in:

Fight Club sareng palajaran moralna ngeunaan masarakat anu urang cicing di jero:

R.M Drake always says it so well

R.M Drake sok nyebutkeunana kalayan saé pisan

I think all fields of psychology should be considered when analysing any concept from a psychological prospective, as they can all contribute with truthful information from different angles. I don’t understand where the desire to claim monopoly over psychology as a science by trying to exclude or discredit other fields comes from 🤔😳🥺

Why do some fields of psychology ignore psychoanalysis?

Kuring pikir sadaya widang psikologi kedah dianggap nalika nganalisis naon waé konsép tina sudut pandang psikologis, sabab aranjeunna sadayana tiasa nyumbangkeun informasi anu leres ti sudut pandang anu béda. Kuring henteu ngartos ti mana kahayang pikeun ngaku monopoli kana psikologi salaku élmu ku nyobian ngaluarkeun atanapi ngadiskreditkeun widang séjén asalna 🤔😳🥺

Naha sababaraha widang psikologi ngaleungitkeun psikoanalisis?

Freudians 🍻 🥲🍃

How many of u ..like this !!!

Sabaraha seueur di antara anjeun ..suka ieu !!!

#psychology

#psikologi

It's an usual situation that men start thinking In working 25/8 :) for free...

Why do people think we are working on dates?

Ieu mangrupikeun kaayaan anu biasa yén lalaki mimiti mikir ngeunaan damel 25/8 :) gratis...

Naha jalma-jalma mikir yén urang nuju damel dina tanggal?

Donald Winnicott

"Your anger is part of you that knows your mistreatment and abuse are unacceptable. Your anger knows you deserve to be treated well and with kindness. Your anger is a part of you that loves you, " and this hits different. I totally agree because our anger is a response to something that we don't want, and we know that we don't deserve it. It's toxic sometimes if we perceives but if we try to understand it, anger is self-love. You are disagreeing on something that you knew you don't deserve.

I never understood my anger until i saw this quote:

"Amarah anjeun mangrupikeun bagian tina anjeun anu terang yén perlakuan sareng panyalahgunaan anjeun henteu tiasa ditarima. Amarah anjeun terang yén anjeun pantes diperlakukan kalayan saé sareng kalayan kahadean. Amarah anjeun mangrupikeun bagian tina anjeun anu mikanyaah ka anjeun," sareng ieu nyentuh béda. Kuring sasuai pisan sabab amarah urang mangrupikeun réspon kana hal anu urang henteu hoyong, sareng urang terang yén urang henteu pantes kana éta. Éta kadang toksik upami urang nganggap, tapi upami urang nyobian ngartos, amarah mangrupikeun cinta ka diri. Anjeun henteu satuju kana hal anu anjeun terang yén anjeun henteu pantes.

Kuring teu kungsi ngartos amarah kuring dugi ka kuring ningali kutipan ieu:

Its co-relation of mental processes and behaviour associated

Its studying the inside you to cultivate the best from within you

Many definitions come up when we describe something or some branch of science but exactly what.according to you matches best of the options below

What do you think is psychology?

Studi ngeunaan pikiran sareng tingkah laku

Hubungan antara prosés mental sareng tingkah laku anu pakait

Ieu diajar ngeunaan jero diri anjeun pikeun ngembangkeun anu pangsaéna ti jero diri anjeun

Loba definisi anu muncul nalika urang ngajelaskeun hiji hal atanapi cabang élmu, tapi naon anu saleresna, numutkeun anjeun, paling cocog sareng pilihan di handap ieu

Naon anu anjeun pikirkeun ngeunaan psikologi?

Anyone who says otherwise is coping (fake) and dont know what it actually is (fake)

Psychology is fake

Saha waé anu nyebut sabalikna téh keur ngadukung (palsu) jeung teu nyaho naon sabenerna (palsu)

Psikologi téh palsu

What color would you wear on a first date?

Naon warna anu anjeun pake dina kencan kahiji?

"You say you love rain, but you open your umbrella.

You say you love the sun, but you find a shadow spot.

You say you love wind, but close your windows.

This is why I am afraid when you say you love me."

"Anjeun nyebut anjeun bogoh ka hujan, tapi anjeun muka payung anjeun.

Anjeun nyebut anjeun bogoh ka panonpoé, tapi anjeun milih tempat teduh.

Anjeun nyebut anjeun bogoh ka angin, tapi nutup jandela anjeun.

Ieu sababna kuring sieun nalika anjeun nyebut anjeun bogoh ka kuring."

Tell me your last wacky dream.

Caritakeun ka kuring ngeunaan impian aneh anjeun anu terakhir.

A Boo community for meeting other Psychoanalysis enthusiasts.

Psychoanalysis Community

Buku ieu

Pikiran ngeunaan kapercayaan sareng manipulasi

Buku penting anu datang pikeun mayar sabagian utang anu urang gaduh ka awéwé dina psikoanalisis

Bapa élmu anu ngungkab sisi anu disumputkeun tina psike

Psikolog Brasil anu gedé: Christian Dunker

Lamun anjeun teu tiasa ngarobih hiji kaayaan, robih persepsi anjeun ngeunaan éta. Émut, kalolobaan stres anjeun asalna ti cara anjeun ngaréspon, sanés ti cara hirupna.

Kusabab Freud nyolong istilah psikoanalisis..

Tigger téh sareng ayeuna mangrupikeun karesep kuring

"Konstelasi": séri sci-fi ngeunaan gaslighting sareng hubungan indung-anak

Abdi sedih ku jumlah pseudoscience anu nyebar di psikologi dina aplikasi ieu

Perpustakaan Abdi

Sigmund Freud