Minimal 👏effort 👏 doesn't 👏 deserve 👏 praise. It's not hard to communicate and reciprocate, it's not hard to be active. This goes for men and women, if someone your talking to gives you breadcrumbs, aka barely texts back doesn't call doesn't plan things, but when they do you get excited and say "well I love em because at least they're doing this small bit of effort." Being busy is fine, and you should always be understanding of people's busy lives and be patient. No, you deserve someone that's head ove wheels calling and planning things and taking you places. Everyone here deserves to be treated like a kimg/queen. Period end of story. Much love yall

Maoni

Jumuiya ya Romance

Jumuiya ya romance, gumzo na majadiliano.

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NAFSI 3.9M

bora zaidi

wapya

Rachel 🦋

miezi1

ENFJ

Kondoo

I hate that you're right 😫😂 They texted back? Good. That's normal. They planned a date? They should. That's normal. I always want to believe that low effort is acceptable, I excuse it and am too nice. 😫😂

Jibu

Albafica

miezi1

INTJ

Ng'ombe

Agreed Although everyone has different love languages. I've got some social anxiety, so I get overwhelmed when the date is /always/ going out.

Jibu

Martez

miezi1

ISTP

Ndoo

Unfortunately the 'average' amount of effort isn't so average anymore since it's uncommon and seems too much to ask for from most.

Jibu

Ana

miezi1

INFP

Mapacha

I accepted not talking to me for over 24 hours/days 😂🤡 That's why I'm not looking for that rn, I have to stop accepting breadcrumbs and understand that I deserve the whole feast.

Jibu

Rick

miezi1

INFJ

Mashuke

Exactly!!!!... Unfortunately nowadays if you give too much, you just get played... Really sad how love/courtship has "evolved"... That kind of behavior is too frustrating...

Jibu

Vivi

miezi1

INFJ

Ndoo

💯💯💯💯💯!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jibu

Kristopher

Mwandishi

miezi1

INFJ

Nge

Apparently I can't spell, I'm sorry guys

Jibu

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Machapisho Yanayohusiana

#romance

Sagada

miezi1

ISFJ

Samaki

Long time gone.

And letting go is the only option.

#romance

Joyce

miezi1

INFP

Ndoo

Effort in a relationship

Jumuiya ya Romance

I hate that you're right 😫😂 They texted back? Good. That's normal. They planned a date? They should. That's normal. I always want to believe that low effort is acceptable, I excuse it and am too nice. 😫😂

Agreed Although everyone has different love languages. I've got some social anxiety, so I get overwhelmed when the date is /always/ going out.

Unfortunately the 'average' amount of effort isn't so average anymore since it's uncommon and seems too much to ask for from most.

I accepted not talking to me for over 24 hours/days 😂🤡 That's why I'm not looking for that rn, I have to stop accepting breadcrumbs and understand that I deserve the whole feast.

Exactly!!!!... Unfortunately nowadays if you give too much, you just get played... Really sad how love/courtship has "evolved"... That kind of behavior is too frustrating...

💯💯💯💯💯!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Apparently I can't spell, I'm sorry guys

Machapisho Yanayohusiana

Long time gone.

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