9w1 Boundaries Karakters

#boundaries

Allison

28d

INFP

Maagd

Boundaries!!

Okay hi! 1. I'm only looking for friends on here. 2. Don't ask me about my sisters and suggest we should go to dinner together that's a BIG NO. 3. Have respect and you'll get respect back. I could go on but I don't have the right words to actually put it into words to explain myself.

#boundaries

Wulan

2m

INFJ

Maagd

2

1

The Truth About Men DeVon Franklin

Respect is critical to ensure the health of any relationship. Boundaries help keep threats to the relationship at bay and provide protection to those within

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Jerah 🌻

4m

INFJ

Steenbok

8

7

She said what I meant to,

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Nick

4m

ENFP

Maagd

7

6

Truth!

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Jerah 🌻

5m

INFJ

Steenbok

8

7

💯✅

#detachment #save #redflag

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Bee

5m

INFP

Steenbok

7

8

Touch me not.

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Marchy March

4m

ENTP

Ram

8

7

Your perception of me is not what I portrayed.

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Raymond

8m

INFP

6

7

Good word

A dash of heathy pessimism. Bear in mind, also: It’s okay to have situational friendships that are just for certain things. Those can sometimes be true friendships, albeit scaled down ones.

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Jerah 🌻

10m

INFJ

Steenbok

8

7

It takes 7 years,

and it's never been easy for an empath & HSP, . . But when I take the courage to prioritize my value first, And learn to say 'no' with someone I use to say 'yes' . . This thing I need to hear... The value of his word gives me insight 🥰 The freedom to be yourself is everything, dear enfj.infj... (gewysig) kom meer te wete

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Tamara

1j

INFP

Leeu

3

4

Do you act entitled to someone's time? 🤔

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Danah

1j

INFP

Tweeling

9

1

Healthy boundaries-

Are more like fences, not walls. They keep the good in, and the bad out. Protect your space and your energy!

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BlackSeaMegladon

1j

INTP

Vis

Ppl who feel like

They'll still have access to speak to me after they let an hour go by without responding to me 😭

#boundaries

Malcolm Hayes

1j

ENFJ

Bul

8

7

Before a relationship

This is a question for both men and woman. What are boundaries you would set before getting into a new or old relationship?

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Raymond

1j

INFP

6

7

Out w/ th'bad, in w/ th'good.

Remove the excess clutter. Simplify your life to get ahead. Living in a zoo ruins your focus. Your conscious mind may disagree-- but your subconscious... (gewysig)

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Raymond

1j

INFP

6

7

Men, make people--especially women--qualify for your attention.

90% are just gonna do the bare minimum. . . . Value your money, energy, attention, & time.

#boundaries

Kai

1j

INFP

Vis

my boundaries

a friend suggested i make my boundaries clear on this app and i thought that was a great idea so i did ♥️

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Sasha

1j

ESFJ

2

3

Curfew

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SleeplessSongbird

1j

INTJ

Ram

8

7

What are some boundaries you set for yourself?

Hey everybody-- 👋😁 I was wondering about this tonight as I have been dealing with an engaged coworker who takes their flirting too far with most of the female staff at my work place. I recognize this sort of circumstance can go one of several ways, and I have been handling it professionally by... (gewysig) kom meer te wete

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Raymond

1j

INFP

6

7

Don't put yourself up for sale to the first person who comes along.

#boundaries

BlackSeaMegladon

1j

INTP

Vis

Ppl who feel like

They'll still have access to speak to me after they let an hour go by without responding to me 😭

#9w1

Kyle Visel-Kelly

26d

INTJ

Bul

9

1

What exactly is 9w1?

I got the tag 9w1 and I just don't really understand what is the difference between them. Like what is the basic characteristics of each?

#9w1

Rose

6m

INFP

Boogskutter

Has anyone listened to the sleeping at last song for 9s?

The whole album is pretty cool and talks about different experiences of each enneagram!

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Karl

7m

INFJ

Skerpioen

9

1

New here....lost in the obyss of the unknown Boo galaxy.... rescue me.

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Logan Williams

9m

INTP

Maagd

9

1

A Healthy Lifestyle Requires Effort to Achieve

And as someone who has been spending most of their life looking for the path of least resistance, it's actually incredibly hard for me to put forth that effort and stop playing video games so I can lose weight, progress in my career, and look for love. Having a lack of ambition is a terrible... kom meer te wete

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Catina

9m

INFJ

Tweeling

9

1

🍕 😴

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Vivian

10m

INFJ

Ram

9

1

🤍

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Jamie

9m

ESFJ

Boogskutter

9

1

Looking for 9s... And dating and women lol

Looking to connect to women in the London/Berkshire area. Chat and see if we click. Or just chat about enneagram 9... Share what you've learned about yourself, how you came to understand yourself as doing this number and what you do to go beyond or use this personality type to your advantage.

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Bex

2j

INTP

Steenbok

9

1

Hmm... What to do...

So do I get my ass off the couch and use this day off work to clean and get my home in less of a mess? Or do I stay put mindlessly scrolling my phone, listening to music for a few more hours..? 🤔

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Raymond

1j

INFP

6

7

Me sometimes

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Raymond

1j

INFP

6

7

9s have to learn to repel sometimes

The undilluted 9 is a bit like vanilla ice cream, in that few people dislike it & it can easily, inoffensively blend into most other flavors. If we don't occasionally lean into our boundary-setting 8 wing, it can become overwhelming how much like shamans we innately are. And yet when healthy, 9s... (gewysig) kom meer te wete

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Hunter

2j

INFJ

9

1

No offense

I expected more posts in this section.

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Kerlyn

1j

ENFJ

Ram

失恋的第二天 18.05.2023

昨晚爆睡了一个晚上，我才开始意识要把自己慢慢变好， 只有自己变好，才会遇到更好的， 跑跑步，健健身，读读书，修身修性， 做一个自己都会爱上自己的女人，加油，陈彩玲

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Kerlyn

1j

ENFJ

Ram

失恋第一天 17.05.2023

昨晚彻夜难眠，那种狠狠被甩的滋味很难受，很难过的是，自己认真过的几段感情，都没有一段有好的结局，我也意识到是我有问题，是我太着急了，还是我的恋爱方式已经过时了， 但是终于明白，不是每件事情，只要努力就有结果... 不过，我还是会继续选择我的善良来真心诚意的对待我的有缘人，陈彩玲，加油 (gewysig)

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Raymond

1j

INFP

6

7

D'y'ever just feel like you're a balloon that's about t'pop?

And y'don't know why, or what it's gonna lead to? You might've already lost yourself, & yet you're trying desperately to hold on to a bunch of internal garbage that's not really you--yet you don't yet realize that. Might be wise to just let all that go, & start over. People might appreciate &... kom meer te wete

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Fernando

1j

INFP

Maagd

9

1

Enneagram 9 Vibes 😌

Do you guys have more images that relate to Enneagram 9? Feel free to send them in the comments!

#9w1

Kurson

1j

INFJ

Ram

1

9

Using Enneagram effectively

In your experience, how does one use the enneagram of someone/themselves most effectively? In what ways/instances is it least effective?