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After five years of working in that pit, the toxicity of assuming I had friendships, how did I?

My last straw that broke me mentality was when I realized my friend Shelly for years, turned out to be the one causing all my drama at work.

Way before I ended up pregnant with the same person that my old boss literally placed on a pillow, Catherine. Now, Catherine and I did end up pregnant at the same time and I was excited to share the experience.

Until I realized Catherine was throwing me under the bus with our mutual friend Kris. Kris was young, and I thought she was kind. She showed me her true colors when I rounded the corner to find her, Catherine, Shelly and our boss Shasta talking about me. I still cant get that smirk out of my head, it was cat like...and I was their mouse. 

Shasta, she broke my heart the moment she pulled me into the office before her promotion. She started demanding I owned up talking to HR about our old boss, Clint. I kept denying it only to find out thst Shelly used me as a escape goat. 

Shasta now the manager, and Shelly the assistant. Didn't know I would be treated with lack of care. They were never my friends neither, along with Lela, and Abe. 

Abe really shocked me, I honestly thought he would have cared. He didn't, he actually joined in with them and even as a school counselor for a elementary school. I felt safe around him, and I would tell him things only to discover he told Shasta and Shelly everything. I should've known he wasn't nice wheb he stole cash rewards from our customers and handed them out to Lela and Kris. 

Who would believe me? Even if I went to HR, no one from that store would have stood up for me. Even when I thought Lela was my friend. When he would comfort me when Shasta or Catherine was mean to me. She would text Shelly while at work when Shelly was off about updates about me. I guess being paid under the table to watch Shelly's son got you in the pharmacy.

The same position I was working towards but Shasta told me I was too far along in my pregnancy to take the courses. The same pregnancy that was constantly compared to Catherine when she is 10 years younger than me. 

I struggled to get pregnant and these people that I thought cared about me nearly caused me to lose him when I was sent to the ER for being dehydrated for run ing back and forth in the summer front counter and photo. Only to know that Kris and Abe was just sitting in the stockroom talking.

Matt was my only true friend, he was ran out by Shasta due to being trans. Abe would even, as someone from the  rainbow club, join in.  Not surprised, I always felt that he wasnt one of the good soul; even though his a Sunday school teacher as well on top of being a school counselor. No, Matt was and still is good. I remember when HR was called, Shasta called my cellphone demanding I tell her who called HR. I was so scared, Matt never held it against me for not speaking my truth. I was going through the worse PPD, and Matt held me as I cried. 


How did I survive? 

I held onto that hug from Matt, even when he had to leave. Matt was my only true friend from that store. I may have had to be in the pit for years , but Matt showed me even when you are down, you don't stop.

I did, I held on tight for not only myself but for my son. My son needed me to work because we lost our benefits despite my husband losing his job. The weight came off not because of my workout plan I told my ex coworkers, but I starved.

Our foodstamps have been taken along with my son's wic and insurance. I made aure my husband and son ate while I struggled to pay my own bills. Work was cutting back on my hours due to my spinal injury from giving birth. 

(Don't get me started on the bullying and harassment Shasta and that whole team put me through over my stool. Which, it was rainbowed colored)

The way those women gossip behind my back, but I kept going. Despite the looks, the whispers, and the fake smiles. Even when I was pulled in the office with my two very "best friends" from the start  Shasta and Shelly and threw a "Mental Health" packet and in a professional way 

'We are going to fire you'

News flash, thank you Matt for helping me get enrolled into the free therapy 🥰😘

They were shocked to find out that I was already 6 weeks into my therapy. Soon, Shelly world came all crasijg down, the lies she built on me tumbled, out the door she went leaving me with Shasta and  Catherine .

Yet, I already had my foot out the door and into another job before the holidays. Your scape goat and working mule is OUT OF HERE

Spite. 

It was Spite

How did I survive?

Després de cinc anys treballant en aquell forat, la toxicitat d'assumir que tenia amistats, com ho vaig fer?

La meva última gota que va trencar la meva mentalitat va ser quan em vaig adonar que la meva amiga Shelly durant anys, resultava ser qui causava tot el meu drama a la feina.

Molt abans que acabés embarassada de la mateixa persona que el meu antic cap literalment va col·locar sobre un coixí, Catherine. Ara, Catherine i jo vam acabar embarassades al mateix temps i estava emocionada de compartir l'experiència.

Fins que em vaig adonar que Catherine em feia la traïció amb la nostra amiga mútua Kris. Kris era jove, i pensava que era amable. Em va mostrar els seus veritables colors quan vaig girar la cantonada i la vaig trobar a ella, Catherine, Shelly i el nostre cap Shasta parlant de mi. Encara no puc treure'm aquell somriure de la ment, era com un gat... i jo era el seu ratolí.

Shasta, em va trencar el cor en el moment que em va fer entrar a l'oficina abans de la seva promoció. Va començar a exigir que reconegués que havia parlat amb RRHH sobre el nostre antic cap, Clint. Vaig seguir negant-ho només per descobrir que Shelly m'havia utilitzat com a xai negre.

Shasta ara és la gerent, i Shelly l'assistent. No sabia que em tractarien amb falta de cura. Mai van ser les meves amigues tampoc, juntament amb Lela i Abe.

Abe em va sorprendre realment, honestament pensava que li importaria. No ho va fer, de fet, es va unir a ells i fins i tot com a conseller escolar d'una escola primària. Em sentia segura al seu voltant, i li explicava coses només per descobrir que ho deia tot a Shasta i Shelly. Hauria d'haver sabut que no era amable quan va robar recompenses en efectiu dels nostres clients i les va repartir a Lela i Kris.

Qui em creuria? Fins i tot si anés a RRHH, ningú d'aquella botiga s'hauria aixecat per mi. Fins i tot quan pensava que Lela era la meva amiga. Quan em consolava quan Shasta o Catherine eren cruels amb mi. Ella enviava missatges a Shelly mentre estava a la feina quan Shelly estava de baixa sobre actualitzacions sobre mi. Suposo que ser pagada en negre per cuidar del fill de Shelly et feia entrar a la farmàcia.

La mateixa posició a la qual estava treballant, però Shasta em va dir que estava massa avançada en l'embaràs per fer els cursos. El mateix embaràs que es comparava constantment amb Catherine quan ella és 10 anys més jove que jo.

Vaig lluitar per quedar-me embarassada i aquestes persones que pensava que s'importaven per mi gairebé em van fer perdre'l quan em van enviar a urgències per deshidratació per córrer amunt i avall a l'estiu entre el taulell i la foto. Només per saber que Kris i Abe estaven asseguts a l'estoc parlant.

Matt era el meu únic veritable amic, va ser expulsat per Shasta per ser trans. Abe fins i tot, com a membre del club de l'arc de Sant Martí, s'hi va unir. No em sorprèn, sempre vaig sentir que no era una de les bones ànimes; tot i que és professor d'escola dominical a més de ser conseller escolar. No, Matt era i encara és bo. Recordo quan van trucar a RRHH, Shasta va trucar al meu telèfon exigint que li digués qui havia trucat a RRHH. Estava tan espantada, Matt mai em va fer sentir malament per no dir la meva veritat. Estava passant pel pitjor PPD, i Matt em va abraçar mentre plorava.

Com vaig sobreviure?

Em vaig agafar a aquella abraçada de Matt, fins i tot quan va haver de marxar. Matt era el meu únic veritable amic d'aquella botiga. Potser vaig haver de ser al forat durant anys, però Matt em va mostrar que fins i tot quan estàs a baix, no et detens.

Ho vaig fer, em vaig agafar fort no només per mi sinó per al meu fill. El meu fill em necessitava per treballar perquè vam perdre els nostres beneficis malgrat que el meu marit va perdre

Com vaig sobreviure?

💪 I need these

💪 Necessito aquests

I was wounded in the line of duty! I demand hazard pay!

Vaig ser ferit en l'exercici del deure! Exigeixo un pagament de perill!

My officemates praying that work be suspended tomorrow…

Ya’ll graduated from college 10-15 years ago. What do you mean work suspension?

Get over it

Els meus companys d'oficina preguen perquè demà s'aturi la feina...

Vau acabar la universitat fa 10-15 anys. Què voleu dir amb suspensió de feina?

Supera-ho

YEET

The same talented employees. Two different employers. One builds loyalty. The other builds resignation. The difference isn't talent...it's leadership.

Els mateixos empleats talentosos. Dos empresaris diferents. Un construeix lleialtat. L'altre construeix resignació. La diferència no és el talent... és el lideratge.

Work mood

Ànima laboral

Are you ready? Yes i am ready for work😌😆🤗✨🌻

Estàs preparat? Sí, estic preparat per treballar😌😆🤗✨🌻

Another day of clocking in at work.. 😌

Work.. work.. work.. 😌

Un altre dia de marcar entrada a la feina.. 😌

Treball.. treball.. treball.. 😌

Work 🤪

Treball 🤪

Get ready but not ready yet 🤣✨🌻🤗🙏💖😘😍yes belly of chubby on me😮‍💨😆🤷

Prepáreu-vos però encara no esteu llestos 🤣✨🌻🤗🙏💖😘😍sí, panxa de gras sobre mi😮‍💨😆🤷

After working

Després de treballar

I want to go home but i'm still at work lol🤣😭😮‍💨 long weekend at work right? Yessss it is💯🫩✨😏😪

Vull anar a casa però encara sóc a la feina lol🤣😭😮‍💨 cap de setmana llarg a la feina, oi? Sííí, ho és💯🫩✨😏😪

Workout work work work

Entrenament treball treball treball

Haha my hair not ready to work 🤣😘

Haha el meu cabell no està llest per treballar 🤣😘

Hi!! Friday!! Weekend today lol🙂‍↕️🤣😆🌻💖✨

Hola!! Divendres!! Cap de setmana avui lol🙂‍↕️🤣😆🌻💖✨

Let's start the day 😁

Comencem el dia 😁

over time

Gestionant correus electrònics fins i tot el cap de setmana 😬

amb el temps

Ah, this is a boring day. I have to be fully active from morning to night. This is overtime, bro. Please take me on a flight haha

Ah, aquest és un dia avorrit. He d'estar totalment actiu des del matí fins a la nit. Això és hores extres, germà. Si us plau, porta'm en un vol haha

For me I might be an owner, but I have to work alongside my workers too. 7 days a week. 0 day off⌚ 👍🫡

What is your day off look like? 🤔

Per a mi, puc ser un propietari, però també he de treballar al costat dels meus treballadors. 7 dies a la setmana. 0 dia lliure⌚ 👍🫡

Com és el teu dia lliure? 🤔

I always wanted to work as a barista at sone point so I'm happy with this job for now

TLABAJAL

Sempre he volgut treballar com a barista en algun moment, així que estic content amb aquest treball per ara.

Fast food, not many options in the middle of super express hours… fresh butter bread is cool 😆

Menjar ràpid, no hi ha moltes opcions enmig d'hores super express... el pa de mantega fresc és genial 😆

I really tried to be early for work🤞...

Forces malèvoles treballant en contra meu

Realment he intentat arribar aviat a la feina🤞...

Just trying to make it through another work day. You've got this!!

Here's to everyone...

Només intentant passar un altre dia de feina. Tu pots amb això!!

Brindem per tothom...

Everyone always ask me what are you going to do when your kids are all grown up ( I'll be 42 )

Friend one - travel
Friend two - finally relax 
Family - go on holidays 
Family - move away 
Blah blah blah blah 

My ADHD/Autistic A$$ - I'm going to be a pirate!!

Yo-ho

Tothom sempre em pregunta què faré quan els meus fills siguin grans (tindré 42 anys)

Amic un - viatjar
Amic dos - finalment relaxar-se
Família - anar de vacances
Família - marxar
Blah blah blah blah

El meu cul amb TDAH/autista - vaig a ser un pirata!!

Jo-ho

With glasses or without, the focus stays the same: work hard, stay confident, and keep moving forward. ✨💼

Morning work routine ☕👓

Amb ulleres o sense, el focus es manté igual: treballar dur, mantenir-se segur i seguir endavant. ✨💼

Rutina de treball matinal ☕👓

What do you do for a living?

A què et dediques professionalment?

Try the outfit for Friday …

Prova l'outfit per divendres …

There are days when rest isn’t an option, but quitting never is. One day, all of this hard work will be worth it.

Tired

Hi ha dies en què descansar no és una opció, però rendir-se mai ho és. Un dia, tot aquest esforç valdrà la pena.

Cansat

Sometimes at work when I am at place where they have pet I can't help myself. This cutie pie was with me the whole time when I was cleaning and did the the windows ( 34 windows on the inside and 34 windows for the outside = 68 windows) took me around 5hr50min to do it all 👌

How was your day?

Life of a housecleaner

De vegades, a la feina, quan sóc en un lloc on tenen mascotes, no puc evitar-ho. Aquesta monada va estar amb mi tot el temps mentre netejava i feia les finestres (34 finestres per dins i 34 finestres per fora = 68 finestres) em va portar uns 5h50min fer-ho tot 👌

Com va ser el teu dia?

Vida d'una netejadora

I'm waiting for you guys!!! We have training course!! Don't forget!!!🫩✨🤣🥱🙏💖🌻

Estic esperant-vos!!! Tenim curs de formació!! No ho oblideu!!!🫩✨🤣🥱🙏💖🌻

🙃

If this isn't my office, then what could this be?

Si aquesta no és la meva oficina, llavors què podria ser?

Monday start for me 💖🌻🤗🍀😪😅🤣

Inici de setmana per a mi 💖🌻🤗🍀😪😅🤣

And as of tomorrow night after my 8 to 5 doing customer service from 6 to 9 I'll be back at my last job doing telemarketing 🙃 when will I ever make time for a life 😅 make it or break it, am I it? I don't remember being tagged and I don't wanna play this game again 😮‍💨 c'est la vie

Here we go again

I a partir de demà a la nit després de la meva feina de 8 a 5 fent atenció al client de 6 a 9 tornaré al meu últim treball fent telemàrqueting 🙃 quan trobaré temps per a una vida 😅 fer-ho o trencar-ho, sóc jo? No recordo haver estat etiquetat i no vull jugar a aquest joc de nou 😮‍💨 c'est la vie

Aquí tornem a començar

Spent the whole day cleaning one of my favorite workplaces, plus every window today. My body is officially done 😅 But only a few more days until vacation starts on Friday 🥳🪟✨

My work today 🥳✨️🙏

He passat tot el dia netejant un dels meus llocs de treball preferits, a més de cada finestra avui. El meu cos està oficialment esgotat 😅 Però només queden uns pocs dies fins que comenci les vacances divendres 🥳🪟✨

El meu treball d'avui 🥳✨️🙏

Supervisors are scattered and sleeping...

Els supervisors estan escampats i dormint...

Night shifts....feels like lucid dreaming ... sometimes you are not sure if you are still awake or if you finally fell asleep...dying here 😴

🫩

Torns de nit....sembla un somni llucíd... de vegades no estàs segur si encara estàs despert o si finalment t'has adormit...morint aquí 😴

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Teletreball

Com vaig sobreviure?

💪 Necessito aquests

Vaig ser ferit en l'exercici del deure! Exigeixo un pagament de perill!

3pm

Supera-ho

👊

Hustlers

Anne & Dan

La meva mare asiàtica: He anat a fer acupuntura avui. Jo: encara hi vas? funciona realment? Mare: xxt! quan et vas fer un tatuatge, em vaig queixar? A tu t'agrada l'agulla, a mi també m'agrada l'agulla. Igual, doncs! 💀💀

Synthwave + Guitar

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