What is it an INTP can give you?

Question

I keep hearing the stereotype about ENFJ being the best match for an INTP as partners or friends.

I absolutely understand how someone with therapist vibes, the ability to lift someone up and show what they are worth can be valuable to an INTP. That's what we need as we often struggle with self-doubt and wasted potential.

However, a relationship goes both ways and I wonder what I, as an INTP, can give to an ENFJ. Is it merely the fact that helping people makes you happy, and I'm someone you can help?

A · Accepted Answer

we can give them the 3 month experience of figuring us out before they get bored, lol

Moana · Answer

Deep down, the ENFJ's need to help others is a silent cry for help for the ENFJ themselves. It's some kind of "coping mechanism", it's how we console or compensate ourselves for the same help/love we so desperately need/want.

What is it an INTP can give you?

Komunita – Enfj

we can give them the 3 month experience of figuring us out before they get bored, lol

Deep down, the ENFJ's need to help others is a silent cry for help for the ENFJ themselves. It's some kind of "coping mechanism", it's how we console or compensate ourselves for the same help/love we so desperately need/want.