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Հրապարակվել է 2024 թ. մայիսի 27, երկուշաբթի
29 օր
INTJ
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Can anybody answer this why it is so hard nowadays to find genuine love? Old school love.
#love #romance #relationship #relationshipadvice #commitment
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28 օր
INTP
Ցուլ
Too many things. Hookup culture. Dating apps. Putting weird bias based worth on people they barely know. Expecting instant results. Getting disillusioned with the reality of dealing with a real person with their own lived experiences. General selfishness and self interest. Just to name a few. Not saying that it was better back then. Pretty sure they had their own challenges.
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29 օր
INTP
Երկվորյակ
Because you keep holding on to old outdated conceptions of love that evolved to fit a lifestyle that is no longer pertinent to the current state of affairs. And for some reason y'all buy into this romanticized version that early Hollywood movies publicised for the past century... (խմբագրված է)
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29 օր
INTP
To find genuine love, we need to show our vulnerability to the other. But we live in a culture of fear, more than ever, and fear makes it difficult to show vulnerability. People are afraid to show their vulnerability because it has been weaponized against them. Men who show vulnerability have their "real men status" questioned. Women who show vulnerability are taken advantage of. Success is viewed as "who's the biggest and baddest and richest". In that view, only a handful can be successful and the rest are left to be trampled on. While in the end, most of us just want someone kind to grow old with and maybe give/recieve a sweet little spanking once in a while.
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29 օր
INFJ
Ցուլ
Because in the name of modernisation, people changed the whole concept of love. They call people cringe if they care for them. They call it drama if someone tries to show their genuine affection in anyway. So even good people have no option but to reluctantly follow current standards.. Smh... 👀 (խմբագրված է)
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29 օր
ISTJ
Աղեղնավոր
It's not a " Nowadays " thing. Lol it's a human issue. For example. I have no clue what you mean by old school love. Love is love. No matter what school. Lol! But seriously, keep it simple. Go to social events. Make friends and maybe things will grow from there with enough effort between the two. Humans are not simple creatures{most of the time}. Love isn't so simple either as I know you know. Nor is finding Genuine people that actually know how to communicate for starters. Oi. Lol
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29 օր
ESFJ
Ցուլ
Genuine love requires vulnerability and openness, which many people find difficult due to past experiences or societal pressures to appear strong and independent.
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29 օր
INTJ
Կույս
What is 'old school love'? Is it truly historical, or just a modern imagining of how things were? Also how old are you talking? 1990s, 1940s, 1066? (խմբագրված է)
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29 օր
ISTP
Ջրհոս
First you must ask yourself "why am I single". Then you'll find your answer.
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28 օր
INFJ
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Պատասխանել
28 օր
INFJ
Կարիճ
Because of social medias and dating apps I guess. It's giving people access to connect even those from different side of the world. Too much options, too much temptations 🤷. The only strong women and men with values, dignity, integrity, and fidelity can survive 😅. (խմբագրված է)
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29 օր
ISFP
Ցուլ
Change in social norms and priorities. Things we thought was okay behavior before isn't, and things we didn't care before now being valued and superficial
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29 օր
INTP
Խոյ
If you're finding it hard, then think about me once. Our generation is 10× complicated and way too modernized which I can't able to get into. Mostly good girls of my age gets attractrs to Red Flags who don't even respect them or 50% of me, it's just so! Disappointing 😔
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29 օր
INFJ
Կարիճ
Well, you kinda answered your own question. Old school is phasing out in favor of the "new school" People don't need each other like we use to. You can go through life completely single and independent these days. You use to have to work for meaningful relationships and work even harder to keep them. People chose not to do that anymore
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28 օր
ESTJ
Կարիճ
We start to judge before getting to know someone that's why.
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28 օր
ISFP
Խոյ
Because you didn't find the right person yet
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28 օր
ISFJ
Ձկներ
So when I lose something or someone of course I might spiral
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28 օր
ESTJ
Խեցգետին
Technology is the main culprit. It has made people closer but made hearts distant. It has taken away the joy of wooing and being wooed. Now love is like looking at a restaurant menu and trying to order off it considering the large variety of options...tech has made people impatient...
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28 օր
ENTJ
Աղեղնավոր
It isnt difficult to find. You just dont want the men who offer it.
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21 օր
INTJ
Ձկներ
People seem to want a plug and play option in my opinion. When the reality that kind of love is something you build together, grow together, and maintain together.
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ISFJ
Առյուծ
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29 օր
INFJ
Ջրհոս
This app is wild
Most of my DMs are coming from people in India... where are the locals
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29 օր
INTP
Երկվորյակ
Dating and dogs
I’m just curious, are there any people in the dating world that do not really care much about dogs? Everyone I seem to possibly have things in common with or people who reach out to me… always have a dog or want to get one 😂.. … anyone here dislike or don’t really care about them? 🤔 (խմբագրված է)
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