What’s something you’ve learned from your past relationships?

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anyar

29d

INFP

Wédus

I've learned that communication is key. If you can openly talk about how you feel, things can go so much smoother.

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29d

ENFJ

Sagitarius

Don't stay where you don't feel comfortable. If you have tried to talk it through, explain how you feel, tried your best to make it work, and the person doesn't reciprocate your effort and energy, stop wasting your time. Edit : I'm really sad to read all the "don't trust" comments from people who seem to want relationships...but obviously not ready for one. What others did to you is their problem, not yours. Take your time, find yourself, and if/when you want feel free to allow in someone you believe you can trust. Many people can be trusted but we have to know what we want first and I cannot stress this enough (!!) take your time! We all need time alone.(besut)

112

29d

INTJ

Akuarius

Never fully trust

29d

ESFP

Cancer

I’ve realized that no amount of care or loyalty can fix someone who isn’t willing to appreciate it. You can give your heart fully, but some people will still hurt you, walk away, or act like it never mattered. It’s a hard truth, but it taught me to protect myself.

29d

INFJ

Akuarius

I’m not hard to love and I’m not asking for too much, I just asked the wrong person. And I’m not lowering my standards for anybody.

29d

INFJ

Kembar

A lot. I've learned what I can handle and what I can't. To stand up for myself and speak my mind. That just because you want something to work, doesn't mean it will. Though I've heard it since I was young I also got the experience to support "you can lead a horse to water, you cannot make it drink." I've learned a lot since I got divorced in 2022, and I continue to learn from myself so that I make better decisions.

29d

ESTP

Kembar

Just because it's not forever doesn't mean it's not worth it

29d

ENTP

Cancer

Don't date people you meet that have not gone through therapy.

29d

ENFP

Cancer

They can hurt me, but they can't take away my hopes of getting Henry 😭

29d

INTJ

Kaprikorn

You deserve more and less. You're not gods gift buy you also don't belong in the gutter

29d

INFJ

Skorpio

Learn how to have a fight.

29d

INFP

Sagitarius

Communication is more important than you think it is

29d

INFJ

Akuarius

My past relationship taught me that I don’t tolerate the wandering eye behavior. Constantly liking other women’s pictures or following a bunch of girls. It might look harmless but to me that’s micro-cheating.

29d

INFP

Skorpio

I've learnt not to love so easily

29d

INFJ

Wédus

✨ I’ve learned that genuine connection isn’t about intensity — it’s about consistency and ✨ “I’ve learned to love fully, let go softly, and trust that the right people stay.

29d

INFP

Cancer

What I've learned so far from my past relationship and people I tried to date after: 1. Being good and forgiving has a way of making people take you for granted. 2. Stop listening to words and strictly pay attention to their actions. 3. You can't love someone into emotional availability. People will meet you at their level of readiness, capacity and interest.

29d

INFJ

Kaprikorn

I’ve learned to not let someone walk all over me or disrespect me. I used to forgive so many things when I shouldn’t have. I know my worth and I’m a valuable person and if someone can’t treat me as such then they don’t deserve me or my heart.

29d

ESFJ

Sagitarius

Knowing your worth and self respect! Enough is enough! No one can protect yourself but you alone... Cheers! 🥰🌻💝✨️🌈

29d

ENFP

Leo

Do not tolerate what you wouldn't tolerate without love

29d

INFP

Cancer

Guys that don't let you put God first arnt worth your time

29d

INFJ

Akuarius

Regulate yourself. Don't smother you are not their mother. Don't act like a slave they are not your master.

29d

ESFJ

Kaprikorn

Actions speak louder than words

29d

ENFJ

Akuarius

Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and cut someone out once they are being abusive to you.

29d

INTJ

Cancer

Don't trust so easily. Take your time.

29d

INTP

Akuarius

N

29d

ISTJ

Sagitarius

Don't be fully dependent

29d

INTP

Virgo

Make sure you know what to prioritize and what to ignore

29d

ENFP

Virgo

You are not an extention of anyone but yourself.

29d

ISFP

Sagitarius

That I have terrible taste in relationships? Seriously though I learned that sometimes people are just not meant to be together and that it's no one's fault, some personalities are just not right for each other and you end up learning that the hard way a lot of the time

29d

ENFP

Sagitarius

Har kisi par bharosa nahi karna chahiye Bina vajah barbad ho jaate he

29d

INFP

Akuarius

Someone is who they are at the beginning. - Don't expect, they will match your illusion - You will not be enough for someone who aren't what you need and that you are not what they need - and it's okay.(besut)

29d

ISFJ

Virgo

I learned to choose peace over drama, and myself over anyone who confuses me. I learned that the right person won’t make me question my worth I learned that if someone shows you who they are… believe them the first time. 😉😜

29d

ENFP

Cancer

i need to start being more weird from day 1, guys date me for superfical reasons and then once they realise im a weirdo they loose intrest and leave

29d

ENFJ

Pises

That not everyone has the same heart and good intentions like you

29d

ISFP

Akuarius

Identifying red flags

29d

INTP

Virgo

Love yourself...you are your first priority don't be so dependent on the people....nd one more thing don't fall in love🥱

29d

ENFJ

Pises

Stop continually giving when there’s been no reciprocation

29d

ISFJ

Skorpio

I realized that it’s important to be yourself. Pretending to be someone else never leads to anything good.

29d

INTP

Cancer

That even people closest to you can lie 😅

29d

INTJ

Virgo

Communicate and take it easy

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I've learned that communication is key. If you can openly talk about how you feel, things can go so much smoother.

Never fully trust

I’ve realized that no amount of care or loyalty can fix someone who isn’t willing to appreciate it. You can give your heart fully, but some people will still hurt you, walk away, or act like it never mattered. It’s a hard truth, but it taught me to protect myself.

I’m not hard to love and I’m not asking for too much, I just asked the wrong person. And I’m not lowering my standards for anybody.

Just because it's not forever doesn't mean it's not worth it

Don't date people you meet that have not gone through therapy.

They can hurt me, but they can't take away my hopes of getting Henry 😭

You deserve more and less. You're not gods gift buy you also don't belong in the gutter

Learn how to have a fight.

Communication is more important than you think it is

My past relationship taught me that I don’t tolerate the wandering eye behavior. Constantly liking other women’s pictures or following a bunch of girls. It might look harmless but to me that’s micro-cheating.

I've learnt not to love so easily

✨ I’ve learned that genuine connection isn’t about intensity — it’s about consistency and ✨ “I’ve learned to love fully, let go softly, and trust that the right people stay.

I’ve learned to not let someone walk all over me or disrespect me. I used to forgive so many things when I shouldn’t have. I know my worth and I’m a valuable person and if someone can’t treat me as such then they don’t deserve me or my heart.

Knowing your worth and self respect! Enough is enough! No one can protect yourself but you alone... Cheers! 🥰🌻💝✨️🌈

Do not tolerate what you wouldn't tolerate without love

Guys that don't let you put God first arnt worth your time

Regulate yourself. Don't smother you are not their mother. Don't act like a slave they are not your master.

Actions speak louder than words

Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself and cut someone out once they are being abusive to you.

Don't trust so easily. Take your time.

N

Don't be fully dependent

Make sure you know what to prioritize and what to ignore

You are not an extention of anyone but yourself.

That I have terrible taste in relationships? Seriously though I learned that sometimes people are just not meant to be together and that it's no one's fault, some personalities are just not right for each other and you end up learning that the hard way a lot of the time

Har kisi par bharosa nahi karna chahiye Bina vajah barbad ho jaate he

Someone is who they are at the beginning. - Don't expect, they will match your illusion - You will not be enough for someone who aren't what you need and that you are not what they need - and it's okay.(besut)

I learned to choose peace over drama, and myself over anyone who confuses me. I learned that the right person won’t make me question my worth I learned that if someone shows you who they are… believe them the first time. 😉😜

i need to start being more weird from day 1, guys date me for superfical reasons and then once they realise im a weirdo they loose intrest and leave

That not everyone has the same heart and good intentions like you

Identifying red flags

Love yourself...you are your first priority don't be so dependent on the people....nd one more thing don't fall in love🥱

Stop continually giving when there’s been no reciprocation

I realized that it’s important to be yourself. Pretending to be someone else never leads to anything good.

That even people closest to you can lie 😅

Communicate and take it easy

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