Validation Community

A man who wants to be chased wants validation, not partnership. A man who wants you moves with intention. The rest? Princesses waiting in towers, hoping a woman climbs up instead. *Mic drop*

What my personal redflags are and how I react to them (share yours if you would like)

Flag 1) they are sexually attracted to me Solution 1) ask them why to determine what their insecurity is that lead them to be attracted to me and try to promote helathy self growth from a platonic distance. Flag 2) they belive they need others Solution 2) maintain a strong distance emotionally,... read more

You've heard it said before.

You've heard it said before that everyone is a little narcissistic. It doesn't have to be that way, while true it is more so a social and cultural problem as social and cultural norms can normalize aspects of it. External validation functions like a market place, people aren't reaching deep within... read more

Performance.

A thing about highly attractive people is that they are afraid to let it go. It restricts them at certain points. Not all but many, at a certain point for a certain time being or longer. I have observed online that highly attractive influencers, when undertaking a Halloween costume “challenges”... read more

People Love More When You Ignore Them

Psychology shows uncertainty increases attraction. When someone is emotionally unavailable, the brain chases validation harder—confusing anxiety with love.

the feeling of not being enough creeps in randomly and leaves me empty and craving for validation 🙃