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Just testing the waters, any older ladies around?

New here

Just d'Wässer testen, sinn et e puer aler Fraen ronderëm?

Nei hei

Hi everyone, new to this community, hardly new to loving age gap relationships. As a Dutchman who lived several years in Poland and currently lives in France, I constantly challenge myself to learn new things and explore new places and people. And somehow I find that same energy with younger people. What is it you are looking for in an age gap relationship?

Perspectives

Moien all, nei an dëser Gemeinschaft, bal net nei fir d'Liiblingsbeziehungen mat Altersdifferenz. Als Hollänner, deen e puer Joer an Polen gelieft huet an elo an Frankräich wunnt, challengéieren ech mech konstant fir nei Saachen ze léieren an nei Plazen an Leit ze entdecken. An irgéintwéi fannen ech déi selwecht Energie mat méi jonk Leit. Wat sicht Dir an enger Altersdifferenzbeziehung?

Perspektiven

Donna 30-55 anni. Nessuna cerca un ragazzo più giovane?

Cerco

Fraen 30-55 Joer. Keng sicht e méi jonk Jong?

Sich

Young boy can date older women no problem 
But when older men date younger girl then i have problem in the society  why so why is unfair 🤔
I am not religious person so religious stay away from this post.
This is for humanity people.

Jongen kann ouni Problemer mat méi al Fraen daten 
Awer wann méi al Männer mat méi jonk Meedercher daten, hunn ech e Problem an der Gesellschaft, firwat esou, firwat ass et onfair 🤔
Ech sinn net reliéis, also reliéis, bleift wäit ewech vun dësem Post.
Dëst ass fir d'Mënschheet.

I like my dudes…. A little tired 💀10+years older

Entschëllegt, dat ass just meng Preferenz 😉

Ech hunn meng Dudes gär…. E bësse midd 💀10+Joren aler

Admit you’re old if you remember what this is

Gëff zu, dass de alt bass wanns de weess wat dat ass

If your profile says you're a certain age and you tell me something different chances are I may block you. If I meet you on here I'm going with specifically the info that's on your profile. For example if your profile says your 22 and u message me saying your 28, I'll become suspicious about who you are and I'll assume your a liar and posing as someone you're not to get attention.

Be authentic

Wann däin Profil seet, datt de  e gewëssen Alter hues a wanns de mir eppes anescht se has, ass et méiglech, datt ech dech blockéieren. Wann ech dech hei begéinen, geet et mir speziell ëm d'Informatiounen, déi op däin Profil sinn. Zum Beispill, wann däin Profil seet, datt de 22 bass an de mir eng Noriicht schécks, déi seet, datt de 28 bass, wäert ech skeptesch ginn iwwer wien de bass an ech wäert unehmen, datt de lügt an als een aneren poséiert, fir Opmierksamkeet ze kréien.

Sei authentesch

You guys are so young.

Dir sidd esou jonk.

Can a 30 year old date a 48 year old if it's possible. Let me know in the comments.

Question

Kann eng 30 Joer al Persoun eng 48 Joer al Persoun daten, wann et méiglech ass. Loosst mech wësse an de Kommentaren.

What age is to old/young for you to date according to how oldyou are right now?

Wat ass d'Alter ze al/jong fir dech fir ze daten, jee no wéi als de grad elo bass?

My father in heaven is 43 and my mother is 23 when they get married ☺️😅 
End up we are 9 siblings😅🤪

For me it's matter somehow it depends if your matured enough .😅

Mengem Papp am Himmel ass 43 an menger Mamm ass 23 wann si bestuet sinn ☺️😅 
Am End sinn mir 9 Geschwëster😅🤪

Fir mech ass et eng Fro, et hänkt e bësse vun der Reife of.😅

I feel to young to start being a cougar and I feel like people that young (18-27) should live their lives and I'm too old for just fun.(27-45) seems cool but not really interested. (45+) still approaching off young or old enough to be my father seeing if I want to grow older with them. I still review pages to see if compatible or they actually had something to say but most times I feel the same after interacting with them

What is your age gap do or don't and why

Ech fillen mech ze jonk fir eng Cougar ze sinn an ech hunn d'Gefill, datt Leit déi jonk sinn (18-27) hir Liewen sollten liewen an ech sinn ze alt fir just Spaass. (27-45) schéngt cool, awer ech sinn net wierklech interesséiert. (45+) sinn nach ëmmer op jonk oder alt genuch fir mäin Papp ze sinn, ze gesin, ob ech wëll méi al mat hinnen ginn. Ech kucken nach ëmmer Säiten fir ze gesin, ob se kompatibel sinn oder si wierklech eppes ze soen haten, awer déi meescht Zäiten fillen ech d'selwecht no der Interaktioun mat hinnen.

Wat ass deng Alterslücke, maachen oder net an firwat

What is the youngest and oldest age you will consider dating? Why?

Youngest/Oldest

Wat ass d'jüngste an d'älteste Alter, dats de berücksichtege géifs fir ze daten? Firwat?

Jüngsten/Ältesten

Question for the ladies:

I found that how I get attracted to a woman is by the connection and the bond that is built.

With that, I found with time that age is ≠ compatibility. 
For myself, I found that the personality, mind, and heart, is what truly has the affect and what I feel attraction for.

Society in general seems to label and categorize people, by factors like: 
race, age, financial situation.

I find that I am not like the typical.

So, this is a question for the ladies.
Would age gap be a decision factor?

Would you not have a feeling to invest, or feeling of no interest to invest time and interest to get to know a man because he is older?

Could you be comfortable, feel comfortable with, being with a man with age gap of 5 or more years?

Would you dismiss to talk to a man, because of the age gap?
Or would you dismiss the society typical expectations, to find the man with the heart that your heart needs?



With that. I will ask a different question:

Financially and financial situation and capability:

To make this simple, I will be direct with my question:

Would you NOT be interested to get to know a specific man, because of his financial situation? A financial situation that is very difficult in his life?

Would you ONLY consider men  based on a higher financial capability?

I never expected to live to this age.
My age, is a number. Pure and simple. 

My age isn't a factor of personality, how I feel and how I "view" myself.
I, AM NOT my age, but the age IS one factor of who I am. 
What I mean is, that I am not a number.

AGE Gap And what you think

Fro fir d'Dammen:

Ech hunn erausfonnt, datt meng Attraktioun fir eng Fra duerch d'Verbindung an d'Bannung entsteet.

Mat der Zäit hunn ech erausfonnt, datt d'Alter ≠ Kompatibilitéit ass. 
Fir mech selwer hunn ech erausfonnt, datt d'Perséinlechkeet, de Geescht, an d'Häerz, dat ass wat wierklech d'Wirkung huet an wat ech fir Attraktioun fillen.

D'Sellschaft am Allgemengen schéngt Leit ze labelen an ze kategoriséieren, duerch Faktoren wéi: 
Rass, Alter, finanziell Situatioun.

Ech fannen, datt ech net wéi den Typeschen sinn.

Sou, dat ass eng Fro fir d'Dammen.
Wäre Altersgap e Faktor fir d'Entscheedung?

Hues de net d'Gefill, ze investéieren, oder d'Gefill vun keen Interessi fir Zäit an Interessi ze investéieren fir e Mann kennenzeléieren, well hien méi al ass?

Kënns de bequem sinn, an engem Mann mat engem Altersgap vun 5 oder méi Joer ze sinn?

Wäerts de et ofweisen, mat engem Mann ze schwätzen, wéinst dem Altersgap?
Oder wäerts de d'gesellschaftlech typesch Erwaardungen ofweisen, fir de Mann mat dem Häerz ze fannen, dat d'Häerz brauch?

Mat deem. Ech wäert eng aner Fro stellen:

Finanziell an finanziell Situatioun an Fäegkeet:

Fir dat einfach ze maachen, wäert ech direkt mat menger Fro sinn:

Wäerts de NET interesséiert sinn, e bestëmmte Mann kennenzeléieren, wéinst senger finanzieller Situatioun? Eng finanziell Situatioun, déi ganz schwéier an sengem Liewen ass?

Wäerts de NUR Männer berücksichtegen, baséiert op enger méi héijer finanzieller Fäegkeet?

Ech hunn ni erwaart, dëst Alter ze liewen.
Meng Alter ass eng Zuel. Einfach a kloer. 

Meng Alter ass keen Faktor vun der Perséinlechkeet, wéi ech mech fillen an wéi ech mech "gesin" hunn.
Ech, sinn NET mengem Alter, mee d'Alter ASS een Faktor vun deem, wéi ech sinn. 
Wat ech meng, ass, datt ech net eng Zuel sinn.

Alter Gap An wat dir denkt

I know age is just a number to a degree, and I’m totally flattered by all the compliments from these 18-24 year olds, but when I politely said 

‘Thank you for the compliments, but I’m looking for someone a bit closer to my own age sorry sweetheart. Best of luck to you though’ 

I had a message pop up to say ‘this sounds disrespectful are you sure you want to send that?’

Umm… how is that disrespectful? And how else should I put it? 🤷‍♀️😅 thoughts?

Is this disrespectful?

Ech weess, datt d'Alter just eng Zuel ass bis zu engem gewësse Grad, an ech sinn total geflattert vun all de Komplimenter vun dësen 18-24 Joer aleit, mee wann ech höflech gesot hunn 

‘Merci fir d'Komplimenter, mee ech sichen eppes méi no bei mengem eegene Alter, entschëllegt Léif. Ech wënschen Iech awer vill Gléck’ 

hat ech eng Noriicht déi opgaang ass, déi gesot huet ‘dat kléngt respektlos, sidd Dir sécher datt Dir dat wëllt schécken?’

Umm… wéi ass dat respektlos? An wéi soss soll ech et soen? 🤷‍♀️😅 Gedanken?

Ass dat respektlos?

Any immortals here because I'm sure as hell not

Immortal

Gëtt et hei onsterblech, well ech sinn sécher net.

I'm 30 looking 35-40. 😂😂

Ech sinn 30 a gesin 35-40. 😂😂

I personally think a girl should be over the age of 25 before she even bothers thinking about older guys. I have three younger sisters. The chances of changing my view on this are very slim do your best.

How big of an gap is acceptable?

Ech perséinlech mengen, eng Meedchen soll iwwer 25 Joer al sinn, ier si iwwer méi al Männer nach denkt. Ech hunn dräi jonk Schwësteren. D'Chance fir meng Meenung doriwwer ze änneren ass ganz kleng, maacht eist Bescht.

Wéi grouss ass eng Lücke, déi akzeptabel ass?

Is age gap relationships still a taboo where you live?

Taboo

Ass d'Alterdifferenzbeziehungen nach e Tabu wou Dir wunnt?

Tabu

Elderly

I wanna make a movie where a guy ages when he time travels in the past but gets younger when he travels in the future.

Time travel movie idea

Ech wëll e Film maachen, wou e Typ al gëtt wann hien an der Vergaangenheet Zäit reest, awer méi jonk gëtt wann hien an der Zukunft reest.

Agegap Community

Nei hei

Perspektiven

Sich

Jongen kann ouni Problemer mat méi al Fraen daten Awer wann méi al Männer mat méi jonk Meedercher daten, hunn ech e Problem an der Gesellschaft, firwat esou, firwat ass et onfair 🤔 Ech sinn net reliéis, also reliéis, bleift wäit ewech vun dësem Post. Dëst ass fir d'Mënschheet.

Ech hunn meng Dudes gär…. E bësse midd 💀10+Joren aler

Gëff zu, dass de alt bass wanns de weess wat dat ass

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