INFJ’s: Are we born? …Or made? Don’t get me wrong - I so love that we get to know who we are, but have we discovered yet, why we are? Is it the trauma, the musical/media influences, the lack of stability early life - or is it in our DNA? What are your thoughts?

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Nghiep · Accepted Answer

Can't speak for everyone. As soon as I figured out my infj typing and resonated with it's description, flashes of my memory came back as connections were being made. Everything made sense, even things that happened when I was only a few years old. I even complained to my wife that my memory doesn't work like other people, I just remember random fragments. 
The other side of the coin, they say INFJ is the rarest type, and I see so many these days it can't be a coincidence. It is possible they are also created, and sometimes even idealized.

Sayan Mazumder · Answer

I was introverted since a kid, thats all I can surely say.

About other traits of NFJ ->
I guess thats what I've chosen to become. Personality can be changed.

INFJ’s: Are we born? …Or made? Don’t get me wrong - I so love that we get to know who we are, but have we discovered yet, why we are? Is it the trauma, the musical/media influences, the lack of stability early life - or is it in our DNA? What are your thoughts?

Infj Fellesskap

I was introverted since a kid, thats all I can surely say. About other traits of NFJ -> I guess thats what I've chosen to become. Personality can be changed.