Ulimwengu

Psychology

Afraidofcommitment

afraidofcommitment

That's why I pick online dating.
Finding someone to comfort and love and meet in a real life.
But now I think it's not possible for me maybe I need to try to ask someone in real life.
I afraid to ask or approach a woman in real life because in my country situation are wierd about dating .
Dating is not easy.
People mostly do dating in institute or college.
But my bad i don't have  any woman in institute or college so I won't find either 😂.
So apart of hard to find.
I afraid what she will say, what if she yell and people gathered around me like you harassing her
Like that many things came in mind so I change to stop and walk away from her.

I afraid to tell woman public that I like her wanna talk or exchange number like that I cant say.
I don't have friends who help me to to a woman that I like her.
So if I like someone so I hide it I won't say, because I afraid what reaction could be she make .
I don't wish to embarassrd to be honest.

Ndio maana ninachagua kukutana mtandaoni.
Kumpata mtu wa kunifariji na kunipenda na kukutana katika maisha halisi.
Lakini sasa nadhani siwezekani kwangu, labda nahitaji kujaribu kumuuliza mtu katika maisha halisi.
Ninaogopa kumuuliza au kumkaribia mwanamke katika maisha halisi kwa sababu katika nchi yangu hali ni ya ajabu kuhusu kuchumbiana.
Kuchumbiana si rahisi.
Watu wengi hufanya kuchumbiana katika taasisi au chuo.
Lakini mimi sina mwanamke yeyote katika taasisi au chuo hivyo siwezi kumpata pia 😂.
Hivyo mbali na ugumu wa kupata.
Ninaogopa atasema nini, je, akipiga kelele na watu wakikusanyika karibu yangu kama unamtesa.
Kama hiyo, mambo mengi yanakuja akilini hivyo ninabadilisha kuacha na kuondoka mbali naye.

Ninaogopa kumwambia mwanamke hadharani kwamba nampenda, nataka kuzungumza au kubadilishana nambari lakini siwezi kusema.
Sina marafiki wanaonisaidia kumwambia mwanamke kwamba nampenda.
Hivyo basi, ikiwa nampenda mtu, naificha, sitasema, kwa sababu ninaogopa ni nini itakuwa majibu yake.
Sitaki kujitokeza kuwa aibu kuwa mkweli.

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