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time to let go 🌱

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You are strength. You can do everything and even more

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Being in a relationship means whatever you do,consider your partner’s feelings

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Poll time: in mathematics, it is said that Two of the same signs (+ and + or − and −) become a positive sign (+) , Two different signs (+ and − in either order) become a negative sign (−). Translating this into real life non-mathematical situations, are there times when no actually means yes to you?

Pyscology

Have you ever experience such thing? What changed for you?

Sometimes

Being a Scorpio & Infj hit Different to all my scorps Babies ✨🦂♏u are wonderful 😊

they would've kept lying if u didn't find out. remember that.

You should deal with those emotions before installing this app & potentially trauma-dumping on your next partner. 👍

Is this where single men come to complain about the ex that just dumped them?

Be mindful of your circle ~

Everyone talks about loyalty, but 99.9% people never understand its existence as psychological, but treat it as behavioral. 

Loyalty is not a permanent state. It’s a dynamic relationship between expectations, emotional fulfillment, needs, and external influences. Disloyalty arises when these factors shift or when they’re no longer in harmony with a person’s internal world.

At its core, people turn disloyal because they are driven by psychological needs, emotional connections, and the constant pursuit of growth, novelty, and fulfillment. 

- People are driven by changing needs and desires. When a relationship, job, or product no longer fulfills these, disloyalty becomes more likely.
  
- Comparison with others can trigger dissatisfaction. If someone sees better alternatives, they may feel discontent and look elsewhere.

- Cognitive dissonance occurs when there's a gap between expectations and reality. People may become disloyal to reduce this internal conflict.

- Trust and emotional bonds are fragile. Betrayal or neglect can push someone to disengage emotionally and seek new connections.

- Autonomy and identity are critical. When someone feels restricted or that their identity is no longer aligned with a relationship or brand, they may turn disloyal.

- The human brain craves novelty. Boredom and routine can drive people to seek new experiences, leading to disloyalty.

- Social and cultural influences also play a role. Peer pressure, societal norms, or changing values can encourage disloyal behavior.

- Emotional overload and stress can cloud judgment, causing impulsive actions and pushing people toward disloyalty.

Loyalty is fluid, not fixed. It's shaped by constantly shifting needs, emotional fulfillment, and external influences. Life never talks for permanence, because nothing is. Life lives within moments. 

Choices are binary, either we accept and feel fulfilled, or stay in a delusional mindset that life is certain. 


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Why Loyalty in People Fades With Time? (A Psychological Truth)

Did you know that simply imagining yourself doing something kind can actually boost your happiness? There’s a fascinating concept in psychology called 'pro-social imagination,' where just thinking about helping others activates the same brain regions as actually doing it. It’s wild how our minds are wired for empathy and kindness. I love how this shows that even our thoughts can shape our emotional well-being. Have you ever noticed how thinking about or doing small acts of kindness changes your mood?

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1. Stay true to your truth. You and only you know what you've been through. You don't need their interpretation of events or their validation.

2. Don't say "it's okay" when it's not okay. Don't say "let's move on," "okay, forget about it," or other devaluing phrases. Allow yourself to feel the pain they caused. Their unwillingness or inability to apologize doesn't mean it was okay. It's up to you to decide, not them.

3. Don't hold the door open for those who constantly hurt you. They are responsible for their words and actions. And you are responsible for your personal boundaries.

4. Don't let them convince you that it's all in your head, that you're too sensitive, that there's something wrong with you. If it hurt, it hurt. You weren't imagining it. Those who truly care about us will never shame us for our emotions and experiences.

5. Understand that your forgiveness does not depend on their apology. Forgiveness means that their actions no longer have power over you. It means that you and those people are at different levels of maturity and awareness.
Being able to see and understand this sets us free.

5 Steps to Forgiving Those Who Never Apologized to Us

If a beautiful woman disagrees with me, I'll immediately change my views. I have no principles.

The pivot

ever since I was a kid I knew I wanted to argue with everybody

Anyone here actually familiar with cognitive functions?

Lies, brain, lies! 😆

The reality more hurt than fantasy

surviving without making the situation worse.
how do you cope with emotional stress?
i either make music or watch anything or meditate.

distress tolerance

Maybe but i like this peace😊

After so many bad day & failures !
while you go to your bed whats your fav affirmation you 
give to yourself to heal your wounds.?

Comment your thought!

If I could define a friend in simple terms I would say it's that person who would take a timeout from their own battles to fight yours

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Is it possible to live your life without fear?

with debilitating anxiety, learning about Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness and other skills does reduce it bit by bit

People don’t react in war unless war is brought to their door. 

Yes even the previously traumatized…as they are mearly more aware of the terms of warfare. 

Calling another’s observation a ‘projection’ is a warcry in dismissal. 

We all have pains. All human and likely to pass them. Only those that consider themselves perfect perpetuate the abusive standards.

Skipping accountability with someone? Do you value them or just your capacity to manipulate them into silence with blaming them for the pin you cause?

In other words:

Albert camus

What are you holding onto that's holding you back?

What's the biggest regret you had?

Can't help😇😇

a reminder 🍀💜

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a reminder 🍀

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memes

Oh look, butterfly! 😆#funny #psychology

It’s Meeeeeeeeeee!

So, growing up in a place that filled with a lot of fights and unhealthy way to express disagreement, I tend to be someone that people call "people pleaser" just to avoid conflict and bring peace. Somehow my personality always feel attracted to people with avoidant attachment type A LOT. That's why I always feel like I'm the only one who fight for the relationship and give more than I should have. 😔

So many youngsters and people here want to get a real life partner. But to perform and be ready for relationship, you have to be a secure person first! Or at least more secure, healing your own wound so you won't hurt the other.. ✨ or yourself in my case 😂

Knowing your attachment type and embracing your childhood trauma, will help you to be more secure person and more ready for relationship or your independent life. ❤️

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Attachment Type

Forgiveness is an act of kindness, but what happens if someone—a friend, family member, or stranger—offends you? Do you try to talk it out, or do you hold grudges?

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What's your opinion on holding grudges?

Posting on B00 about giving up on dating is not an effective strategy to get the type of engagement you're seeking. Such posts often come across as attempts to elicit sympathy, hoping to attract romantic attention. Unfortunately, this approach can make you seem desperate, which is not appealing. If you portray yourself as unwanted, it’s unlikely to inspire others to change that perception. While some women might be able to share such posts due to gender dynamics, men generally do not have the same leeway.

Instead, focus on sharing interesting or humorous aspects of your day. Funny memes or engaging videos can attract positive interactions. Additionally, work on enhancing your communication skills beyond just small talk. Remember, B00 is a multifaceted platform where you can make valuable friendships. Broaden your horizons and enjoy the various aspects of B00, rather than concentrating solely on its dating features. This approach will likely lead to more meaningful and positive engagement.

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“I’m Giving Up On Dating” I’ve been seeing a lot of this lately...

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