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On your second day and not getting matches? Don’t worry, this is completely normal. For men, matches won’t just appear out of nowhere. It's important to put in some effort if you want to attract matches. Begin by engaging with others in the online community positively, with a sense of humor, and a helpful attitude.

People generally shy away from negativity, so maintaining a positive and non-critical tone is key to making connections. Craft posts that showcase your humor and uniqueness. I recommend avoiding the use of the word "bored." Using this term can imply that you expect others to alleviate your boredom, which may inadvertently suggest that you lack interest or excitement in your own life.

Many users prefer to observe how you interact within the community before they commit to private conversations. While some women may experience an influx of match requests due to the gender dynamics at play, this is not typically the case for most men.

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Here's what you can do to help with getting matches 💯

#relationship #self #love #philosophy #psychology #quotes #random #lonely

Who else? 🙏🏻🖤

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Be kind to yourself

Sick, missing my boy, had to see satans first born today, nightmare demons are kicking my ass just as much, and won't let me stop thinking about all the ick. Brain go burr, body go icky stabby painy water bed sloshy face stuff. 

Mmmmmeeeehhhhhh.

Can't sleep, where's my frying pan

Along the way of love We will learn to move on. The brain's mechanisms do not function in love. And sometimes love is beyond the control of the brain.

Brain or heart

Relationship

#mentalhealth #wellness #motivation #lifeadvice #relationship #life

Maybe, in this lifetime, it is your soul's journey to find happiness in yourself. In your true, unapologetic, authentic self. ✨💜

when ADHD kicks hard😂

The brain looks like spaghetti, is God trying to tell us something?

Brain science

#relationship #psychology #motivation #love #friendship

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What happened if psychopath meets the psychiatrist?

Is there a relationship between IQ and how long you queue in a supermarket,  and is there a relationship between IQ and where you shop?

IQ tests

If the answer is yes then which direction and why?

Would you want to be able to travel in time?

My grandma just passed away. She was a psychiatrist for the University of Chicago Social Services Administration in the 50s through the 80s. Her Husband, my grandpa, was the Dean of the College, while his wife was a social worker for the school. My dad, her eventually adopted son, was part of a on-going 45 year old study of children that went through foster care in the 70's. 

We found her published dissertation on the subject and notes from my dad's childhood about his new families, the emotions tied to them and the short lived experiences he had with his other adopted 3 brothers and 5 sisters who had all been separated and abandoned by different foster programs through the foster programs available at the time in inner-city Chicago. 

One of the things that touched my soul the most was a quote from my 10 year old dads therapy journal - "I don't know why parents decide to have children if they aren't going to commit to raising their kids in a real home" 

I just wanted to share because I don't know who else to tell. Thanks for reading.

"My Mother - the Social Worker"

There are 2 types of communication style 
1. Question askers navigate conversations by asking questions, getting responses, asking more questions, and hoping that they will get a question in return so that they can talk about themselves a little too. They will listen to openly shared stories, but they won't openly share their own stories.
2. Open sharers will choose topics about their own lives to share, and hope that the other person will do the same. They will answer questions, but won't ask them.

So the misunderstanding will be if questions asker will wait for other people to ask questions to be able to share, and que open sharers will not understand why a person doesn’t share back when he is sharing 

What type are you?

I remember here a post about that men don’t ask questions, and now I found a video with same name, this is actually just a different communication style (because I’m not a man and I don’t ask questions )

I’m an introvert and an outsider, if the group dominates me I’m oppressed. What is the best move?

Currently reading this book, hit me up if you wanna talk about fydor or his works😌

Crime and Punishment

Which one is the most accurate based to your personality?

Polling of the day 🔥

Was it really worth dressing good?

“The only thing to fear is fear”
this tends to make sense, especially if a lobotomy wouldn’t make much difference

"If you could only live by one guiding principle for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?"

Just because we use dating apps doesnt mean we are all scared to be alone or lonely. 😏

...I've been seeing this question posted a lot lately, so here's what you can do!

If you're looking to get more matches and make genuine connections on B00, I suggest immersing yourself in the Boouniverse. Engage with others in a positive, helpful, or humorous manner. Craft posts that provide value and spark meaningful conversations rather than simply stating "I'm bored, let's chat." It's crucial to maintain a respectful and supportive demeanor, as negativity or criticism can deter potential interactions.

Remember, B00 is a versatile platform that caters to friendship and casual chat, with dating being just one aspect. By broadening your horizons and being open to forming friendships, you'll discover a richer experience on B00. Given the gender dynamics, women often receive numerous match requests, while some men may wonder why they aren't getting matches. To improve your chances, shift your focus from just dating to exploring all that B00 has to offer. Embrace the platform's diversity and you may find it far more rewarding.

#relationshipadvice #single #philosophy #psychology #friends #friendship #boofriend #conversation #dating

Why am I not getting matches or the ones I get don't talk...

Food for thought 🧠💭

Keeping it 💯 🙌♥️

Posting openly on B00 about wanting to date is generally not an effective strategy, especially for men. Such posts often come across as desperate, potentially sending a message that no one is currently interested in dating you. This approach rarely generates engagement and is unlikely to attract the attention desired. Although some women might successfully post about seeking dates, it is uncommon because the gender dynamics often lead to an overwhelming influx of awkward or inappropriate messages.

Instead, it is more beneficial to create content that fosters connection and conversation. Engaging posts could include sharing funny memes, posting pictures of cute animals, or recounting interesting stories about your day. These types of posts are more likely to draw attention and spark interaction. Additionally, there is a designated area on your profile where you can indicate your openness to dating, which can subtly convey your intentions without appearing overly eager.

#single #relationshipadvice #date #relationship #philosophy #psychology #boo #love #romance

I've noticed a lot of posts recently saying, "Looking for Dating"

Posting about people not replying to your messages or not engaging with you as you'd like can come across as whiny and undesirable to others. Such behavior only embarrasses yourself and may give off a negative impression. Many users prefer to see active and positive engagement in the Boouniverse before investing time in direct messages. If someone appears disinterested in engaging in conversation, gracefully let it go and continue on your way. If they wish to engage with you later, they will. If not, simply move along.

Remember, just because someone accepts your friend request or matches with you does not mean they owe you immediate, in-depth private conversations. Instead of complaining through posts, focus on interacting more in the Boouniverse by showcasing positivity, humor, helpfulness, and kindness. These qualities are far more attractive than negativity or complaining, and most individuals will gravitate towards those who add value to their space, rather than detract from it.

Guys, don’t be a DM diva!

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Why Positive Engagement Outshines Complaints in the Boouniverse

On the B00 platform, where individuals connect with friends or seek to find a partner, it's important to remember the age-old advice: if you don't have something nice, positive, or humorous to say, just keep scrolling. Holding onto and expressing negative thoughts can not only harm others but also reflect poorly on your character. Commenting negativity on others' posts often indicates difficult and manipulative tendencies, which can lead to people avoiding interactions with you.

Personally, I never engage with negative remarks; I simply delete them and bl0ck the person. I encourage everyone to adopt the same approach. By collectively refusing to entertain and engage with negativity, we can contribute to a more positive and respectful online community. Let's make our B00 space better by creating kindness and understanding.

Inspired by the post by @Amy "Personal Attacks"

#psychology #philosophy #dating #boofriend #friends #relationship #relationshipadvice #people #kindness #positivity #friendship

Promote Positivity on B00: Embrace Kindness, Dismiss Negativity for a Better Online Community

Real Love

I'm bad with words, I hope u r good in reading eyes ..

How and where to find love? Real love? ❤️

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philosophy

#psychology #random #life #funny #thoughts #dreams #boo

What’s your number one goal in life? 🧡

I've heard it said: "The best time is when you..."
No, I don't have "the best time".  Or more precisely - every time is my best.🌼

The best time

How to get out of this mood?

A Boo community for meeting other Psychology enthusiasts.

Psychology Community

Here's what you can do to help with getting matches 💯

Who else? 🙏🏻🖤

Be kind to yourself

Can't sleep, where's my frying pan

Brain or heart

Relationship

Proud Sag! ♐️

Friendly Reminder : They chose to lose you.

Why Imposing Consequences for DMs is a Recipe for Disconnection

It's okay 👍✨🫂

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