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Emotional Damage 🥲

Do girls actually want men to initiate everything? Like conversations, messages, etc.

read the room brain

What does one have to do if someone is deadly jealous of them?

Are you the curious kind that enjoy experimentations ?
And do you want to learn more about yourself?
And can you sustain easily frustration?
And are you ready to incarnate a PNJ and take the role seriously?
And do you enjoy letting your imagination build up story along time ?
And are you ready to test your ability to feel virtual exploration of your own sensibility?
And do you want to practice your ability to separate reality from imagination?
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, and yes ?

Then here's the deal :
We each of us choose what kind of character the other one is going to incarnate : you choose for me, and I choose for you.
Then, we decide together of the main plot, the starting point of the story.
And then, the game start.
We build up the story together, adding narrative plots or events, and saying what our NPC would say or think or answer the other one.
Are you ready for this ? 🤓

Little roleplay game proposal ?

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Reality

👉 What affects your mood the most?

Im a very good looking man as you can tell buf I am schitzoid personality wich means I struggle with relationships I prefer solitude and to live in my own world I try to share the knowledge and beauty from my world with yours in my poetry and posts but thats all I can do I will never have a happy healthy relationship with any one its sad and hard I do sometimes miss physical intimacy but the price I would have to pay for it is too high

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What's your idea on this:

"If I started the day in a bad mood and I refuse to conceal that I am in a bad mood during work,

Then I am more trustworthy than someone who's in a bad mood but chooses to conceal it because they don't want to upset anyone"

BRUTAL HONESTY VS CONSTRUCTS

​There are relationships that don’t break your bones or leave scars on your face, but they leave your soul like a damaged phone battery: showing 100% charged, yet shutting down the moment you try to make a real call.

​We often talk about "toxic relationships" as battlefields - screaming, betrayal, and overt manipulation. But there is another type of poison that operates with a "silencer." It is a toxin that doesn't kill; it simply empties. 

Imagine living in a very comfortable room with a perfect temperature, but the oxygen is being withdrawn ever so slowly. You don't feel a sudden suffocation, but years later, you discover you’ve lost the ability to run, or even the desire for a heartfelt laugh.

​Relational Atrophy:

​In psychology, this pattern is called "Relational Atrophy" (Silent Attrition). It contains no "drama" to attract the neighbors' attention; instead, it contains a "void" that gradually absorbs a person's vitality until they become a mere external shell, performing social duties with astonishing mechanical precision while their heart is in a state of permanent "hibernation."

 The other party might be a "good person" by societal standards: they don't raise their voice, they don't prevent you from going out, and they might remember your birthday regularly.However, they completely lack "Emotional Resonance.


​Emotional Resonance: 

Simply means that when you rejoice, you find no echo of your laughter in them, and when you grieve, you find a "cold" consolation that resembles the automated responses of customer service. You are living with a polite "ghost" who shares your bed and food but does not share your "spark."

​Cinema has portrayed this state brilliantly in films like Past Lives or the quiet scenes in Revolutionary Road, where the protagonists realize the problem isn't the "presence of flaws," but the "absence of life" itself within the relationship.

​The Roommate Syndrome:

​Take, for example, a couple who has lived together for ten years. They never fight, and their lives are organized like a clock, but their conversations never go beyond grocery lists and the children's practice schedules. Here, we fall into the trap of "Roommate Syndrome"; the partner turns into a "respectable" housemate, but desire, passion, and curiosity for the other have long since died.

​The danger here lies in "habituation." Because the human mind craves safety, it convinces you that "cold stability" is better than "risking the search for warmth." This is what psychologists call the "Sunk Cost Fallacy"; you feel you’ve invested years of your life in this stillness, so it feels foolish to leave now-even if that stillness is the "stillness of the grave"

​Unintentional Emotional Neglect

​The term we must understand here is "Unintentional Emotional Neglect." The other party does not intend to hurt you; they are simply "empty" or incapable of giving, which creates a state of "sensory hunger" in you. You begin to compromise on your ambitions, lose interest in your hobbies, and feel chronic lethargy because you are living in an "emotionally impoverished" environment.

​The German philosopher Erich Fromm said that love is a "productive power." If your relationship does not produce growth in you or a desire to discover the world, it is merely a "mutual consumption contract."

​Awareness of this pattern is the first step toward survival. A healthy relationship is one that "revives." Look for the person who makes your soul "fill up," not "drain," because living in a comfortable void is the harshest form of slow death.

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What happened to men? I think this young man sounds amazing compared to most of the men I meet today! Was I just born 130+/- years too late?

A Vintage Newspaper Ad

👉 How do you recharge yourself?

Opposites attract… haan, shuruat mein 🔥
Different opinions, different worlds — sab exciting lagta hai.

Par waqt ke saath ek cheez samajh aati hai…

Long-lasting bonds sirf attraction se nahi bante,
woh bante hain same vibe se.

Jahan silence awkward nahi hota,
jahan values explain nahi karni padti,
jahan aapka pace, unka pace ban jaata hai.

Same vibe log aapko change nahi karte,
woh aapko aur zyada aap bana dete hain.
Kam drama, zyada understanding.
Kam proving, zyada belonging.

Opposites spark create karte hain,
par same vibe log ghar jaisa feel dete hain.

✨ Jo connect tikta hai… woh trend se nahi, truth se banta hai.

Aapke life mein zyada tikne wale log kaise hain — opposite ya same vibe? 💭

WHAT'S YOUR TAKE?

Do you know we meet all of these 3 in lifetime - our soulmate, karmic bond & twin flame

Have you met all?

I like small talk. Small talk, to me, is a very important litmus test. If you can't navigate simplicity, how are are you to navigate complexity?

I think it shows a healthy, important level, in structure of thoughtfulness. It may not always be satiating to the mind, but it shows patience. Also if you're good at conversation, not just socializing, and have attention to detail you can learn a lot about someone or learn about what to talk about with someone. 

I feel like the details are lost in online dating or distant interactions in general, everyone wants what they're looking for upfront, while I feel like most of us don't know what to do with that because our walls make it hard to see face value.

Small talk is important

Do you want to be embalmed, buried, cremated, large celebration, etc.

What do you want your funeral to be like, if you even want one?

Reverse psychology is basically a form of provocation 🙃

FYI…

Is it okay to terminate a friendship and eradicate that person from your life completely?

Soulmates are what we call real love. Experienced ever?

How it left you shattered or helped you in growth?

Soulmate!

❤️ love or money ?

hello there!

For once, I am not going to share my conclusion, and only share with you the question.

Here's the context:
I noticed that some "public personalities" are more or less speaking as if they were about to have a match on a Wrestlemania event.

This way to speak is not new, and  is more about "to shout" than to speak. 
But, you can also do it more calmly. 
The important part is to start any phrase on a higher register, and end on a lower one.
This is mostly for the show.
If this is a "show", that's ok.
But it become more questionnable when some public personalities (like a president) are doing it on purpose, all of the time. Often like a "lesson giver".
And... may be some of you are, sometimes, speaking exactly the same way ?
At least I noticed it for Americans from the US.
There is a psychological impact when you hear someone speaking like this, and when you're then doing the same.
As there are also some relationships balancing when doing it.
Is it serious?
Does we rely on fact, or on how someone speak ?
Is truth more important than the way it is said ?
What do you think about this ?

Questions about the way you speak ?

To make it a little harder: it can’t have anything to do with money or assets

If you could change one thing about your life instantly, what would it be and why?

What's something quite hard in your life?

I just had my first session with a client. It was my colleague who was having trouble sleeping due to anxiety. It went really well. This experience showed me that becoming a psychologist was the right decision😁

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Is it ok to spend all ur money on the person you love? Like make your bank account go from billionaire to zero?

Enjoying solitude teaches us to listen to silence, to thoughts, and to ourselves

Love yourself is importance to your life, when you love yourself you will know how to treat yourself and others.

Love yourself

What are you doing to take care of your health? Mental or physical?

Would you date somebody like yourself?

Intrusive thoughts

Phool dene vala nahi , phoolon ki tarah rakhne vale ko choose karna chye

AM I right?

Share me about how it’s possible to get serious relationship in dating app like this ? Do you believe the possibility ?

Psychology Community

Emotional Damage 🥲

Do girls actually want men to initiate everything? Like conversations, messages, etc.

read the room brain

What does one have to do if someone is deadly jealous of them?

Little roleplay game proposal ?

✨️

Three Questions That Tell You More Than a Dozen Dates

👉 What kind of books do you enjoy the most?

Fantasy is like therapy.

Human beings fascinate me!

Dating apps

Time for some reading