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Sweet soul

Pretty and petty 🥰🎀

What do you do when you're feeling down?

I'm already somewhat tired of relying on overeating, piercings, and engaging in a lot of meaningless socializing online as ways to try to alleviate anxiety Perhaps I should pick up a book and study now, but the truth is, I'm lying in bed, feeling as heavy as iron

Extremely unpopular opinion about ghosting

Why do we jump from ghosting to doom judgments about someone's empathy or character? Losing interest doesn't necessarily mean someone lacks empathy, but knowing your actions might hurt someone doesn't mean you'll act with consideration either. Maybe we should pay more attention to how much empathic… read more

Illusion

I'm struggling this morning

Been having issues with my mental health depression etc. can you give me words of encouragement to get me through the day. I am lonely all the time and don't have anyone to talk too or any friends.

Why are men so lazy to shaving their beards? If a man cannot take good enough care of himself to look presentable, how could he possibly take good care of his partner? Please don't take offense; I'm just curious... 😌😊

What does failure mean to you?

Failure is a stepping stone, failure is the best teacher, and failure is proof that you're only human 💕

Life is weird huh

The intensity of an experience doesn't guarantee its permanence. And its impermanence doesn't necessarily make it meaningless. Like we want things to matter, but we also know nothing stays the same forever. We're not even the same person who experienced those moments in the first place... And… read more

💔🩶💯*One day, the things that nearly broke you will become part of the story you tell about why you never gave up. Until then, keep building through the pain.*💙🤍

Life

The hardest part about moving through a season, is getting closer to the end. There is no winning or losing, but only moving on, and it always seems to be the hardest the last stretch.

Sometimes we try to control everything around us that we forget to enjoy the ride. (edited)

Motivation

Which type of motivation works better for you: intrinsic motivation or extrinsic motivation??

hummm🤔

unfortunately you can't buy someone who's always excited to talk with you from any store. 😌

Farewell

An emotional roller coaster 🎢 — 100% excitement over little things or disappearing into my own little world for a while. There's rarely an in-between. 😂🖤

Those who know this will understand what it means.

How psychology is fu_#:$ up

Question of the Week

I read a post about "the hardest color to describe without an object for reference" and it got me thinking.. "Normal" is often simply defined by a baseline majority consensus So in your opinions: how far is that ethical, to treat a minority of a population as though they are the broken ones in… read more

How do we know we have a good day?

Should be because we have a roof and food? Or because we have our health or enough of it to depend on ourselves? Is being grateful really erase the sadness and hardship? Or is it just a trick to nump our minds from realising we should have better but we're scared of changing?

My current phycology 😂

Reminder

If your partner doesn't make your life easier, then stay single. Don't look for a partner who drains your energy. LOVE IS A TO LEAN ON NOT PRESSURE. (edited)

What Is Your Greatest Fear?

We are all afraid of something. Loneliness, death, rejection, or losing someone we love. People often say, “I’m not afraid of anything.” Yet most of us experience fear when something matters to us. Sometimes, fear wakes us up in the middle of the night. Other times, simply imagining a difficult… read more

Literally 🤌🏻

Well actually.... hmm....🤐

This is what it cost

This is what life test us for (edited)

Thoughts kept in the dark...

You are not the same person with everyone

Psychologists call it the relational self. The version of you that shows up with your parent is genuinely different from the one with your partner, your oldest friend, a stranger. Not performance. Not fakeness. Each relationship activates a different part of what's already there. Most people assume… read more

The center of the universe

I always read no one is the center of the universe People have other lives, and not everything is about you And I agree with that But sometimes I wonder What being priority mean then? Is it just like I have a life and your just part of it Or I have a life and I can make time for you? Doesn't that… read more

Miss my era

Miss when i am not worry about anything here

ME

when someone ask me ‘How are you’ 😁 (edited)

🍀

Do you know what makes your days so tiring? You admire what others have, yet overlook your own blessings~

Do you believe in true love?

I believe but I'm also don't believe. Humans are very disappointing and it is hard to believe that. This is my point of view not my experience 😌 (edited)

True masculine strength

In relationship psychology, there is a fundamental truth: A psychologically secure and emotionally mature man will never feel threatened by a woman’s financial independence, hard work, or personal success. When a man possesses high self-actualization and a secure attachment style, his partner’s… read more

we’re not attracted to people, we’re attracted to the positions they occupy in our minds and the fantasies that they activate (edited)

Nope

Why do they expect free access to pretty high maintenance single woman? 😅

When a woman doesn’t take care of herself, they call her unattractive. But when a woman is good-looking because she’s high-maintenance, suddenly the freeloaders come running

Well, it *is* true…

Here we go…

Men fixing things

Do women like guys who are handy and can fix things? Is it a turnon or a turnoff?