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You cannot scare away a man who actually likes you. You can scream, ignore, get angry at him or you can throw a whole rock at his head and he'll still be like :

"She's so adorable just a little feral today. Probably she's just not in the mood. Should give her chocolates"

Someone please find me. I like ENFJs. If you are one, please reach-out to me.

Anyone

If u ever finished terrible book just because u were already halfway through or keep watching boring film… 
That was the {{sunk-cost fallacy}}.
That is driven by {{loss aversion}}: our brain hates admitting a loss more than it hates wasting more time.
The same logic keeps people stuck in bad relationships.


📖Kahneman, D. (2011). Thinking, Fast and Slow.
📑Kahneman, D., & Tversky, A. (1979). Prospect Theory: An Analysis of Decision under Risk.
📑Arkes, H. R., & Blumer, C. (1985). The Psychology of Sunk Cost. Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes.

Investment trap

What if feels to run away?

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A wrong train will never ever take you to the right destination. It will only costs you a lot before you finally realize that you should come back and get another train.

Let them go.

You are not stuck because you still love them. You are stuck, because you are secretly still hoping they'll finally treat you right.

No, they won't.

Because they have shown you who they truly are, also your position in their lives.

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Real strength is not hating those who hate you, knowing their hostility is born from insecurity and inferiority, not intellect.

Aura

Funny how people want honesty… until they actually hear it.

You won't at what cost, we won at what cost. Will the relationship between the same there after.

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Do you fall for someone’s mind first or face first?

Simple Psychology Question 🤔

Hard reality

What do woman really want?

One honest question:
In a relationship, what matters more to you — loyalty or love?
And why?

Love vs Loyalty — Which Matters More?

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What can you say about this ?
Main question is : do you practice autoderision ?
Often ? Alone, with others, never, specific situations ... etc ... ?
And do you know what it means toward your own self love or self appreciation?
Either you practice or not : would you say that you are humble?

Autoderision (and humility)

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Asking those weak minded people about why they are laughing : usual answer is "because it is funny" (or similar senseless explanation).
Then asking about what they personnaly find funny, then it is the empty shell.

A basic human behavior is to be unconscious copycats.
From childhood to a more mature age.
Indeed, when reaching maturity, you usually start to think fully by yourself. 
Then, explaining why something makes you laugh is common sense. You know why, and can explain. 
Furthermore, you can also reckon that some things that made you laugh in the past is not that much laughable anymore. 
This is not necessarily related with maturity, but more often related with mind independance, reached when really starting to think by yourself. 
You realize that you were no laughing because something was funny from your point of view, but because friends or parents were laughing at it, and you were then only like a copycat. 

Some adults are still like that.
They did not matured, and their mind is still the weak mind of a child obeying to its parents.
Mind independance require some practice and training in order to face external influences, and still be able to analyze situations, filtering, and think by yourself.

So, are you laughing by imitation, or do you truly know why something makes you laugh?

A weak mind is laughing by mimicry (imitation)

Have you ever felt remorseful, even when you were not to be accountable in that situation.

Remorse

one more.. cause i am feeling very bonita 😌🙈

Just because you identify with a paragraph, doesn't mean the whole book is about you. You don't have to absorb the whole thing and make it your entire identity. 
"Hmmm, that's interesting" is sufficient sometimes.

Hot Takes

We always hear the same stereotype: "Men only look at photos, and women only read the bio." But is that actually true? 

Ladies: What kind of profile do you think really attracts guys?

Guys: What kind of profile do you think actually works on girls?

Let’s see if we actually understand each other, or if we're all just completely clueless 😂 Drop your thoughts! 👇

Let’s settle a classic debate

Can you forgive your girlfriend if u find she cheated?

Forgive or not

Who is willing to let me pick their brain about this topic? Looking for someone to interview about this topic for my college class

Topics on infidelity

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If your personality, beliefs, and choices are all shaped by your past experiences, upbringing, and biology… then how much of ‘you’ is actually your own free choice?

Just wondering

Need recommendations which I can find online to read

Book recommendations

Why does it feel harder to connect and meet new people? I get it we all have our lives but also it feels you rarely have same vibe with people or deep conversations to talk about 😒 where do all deep, intelligent and curios people usually hang out?

Connection

With no doubt ^^

STOP BLAMING WOMEN FOR YOUR PROBLEMS.

GET THERAPY.

For all the men out there who need to hear it!

Has anyone been working on integrating their shadow self and how has it been working for you?

I've recently also started to think more on anima and animus in Jungian psychology and understand that I used to wish someone could save me and solve all my problems while all I had to do was to embrace my animus to allow it to happen. It was definitely a sense of grief knowing that there's no saviour but my life has changed for the best when I started talking more responsibilities and sorting my life out without waiting on anyone else.

Karl Jung

Walking is the easiest.

Peace often comes from choosing what to ignore.

Selective peace

Woman 🙄

Do you know yourself enough to meet yourself?

feeling bonita 🙈

High sensitive ppl

are u finding good matches on this app and specially emotionaly mature persons ?

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A Boo community for meeting other Psychology enthusiasts.

Psychology Community

You cannot scare away a man who actually likes you. You can scream, ignore, get angry at him or you can throw a whole rock at his head and he'll still be like : "She's so adorable just a little feral today. Probably she's just not in the mood. Should give her chocolates"

Anyone

Investment trap

What if feels to run away?

Let them go. You are not stuck because you still love them. You are stuck, because you are secretly still hoping they'll finally treat you right. No, they won't. Because they have shown you who they truly are, also your position in their lives.

💥🤯

Psychology Says....

Thought of the day 🤔

Henry Vacuum psychology

Planning on a double major!

Sinners 2025

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