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Whats one piece of advice you'd give today's youth based on your teenage years?

Is it possible to live your life without fear?

relationshipadvice

Ain’t no love out here, everybody using u until they don’t need u. Trust me

What are some of the things you project onto strangers?

Mine:
- i think they’re honest and know what they’re talking about 
- i think they have kind intentions 
- i think they’re intelligent 
- i think their level of empathy is sufficient 

There’s often talk about how we shouldn’t assume negative things about others. While that is true, and can create a lot of problems, assuming positive things is just as problematic. 

Do you have any systems of how to determine if your projections are accurate or not?

Egocentricity (concept in psychology, not a street definition)

they would've kept lying if u didn't find out. remember that.

Today, do yourself a favor. When you go to sleep, remember something nice that happened to you today, remember the people you love, the ones who love you. Today, it would be good to sleep thinking about nice things, because those nice things are the ones that really matter.

Being a Scorpio & Infj hit Different to all my scorps Babies ✨🦂♏u are wonderful 😊

What's the biggest regret you had?

What are you holding onto that's holding you back?

Everyone talks about loyalty, but 99.9% people never understand its existence as psychological, but treat it as behavioral. 

Loyalty is not a permanent state. It’s a dynamic relationship between expectations, emotional fulfillment, needs, and external influences. Disloyalty arises when these factors shift or when they’re no longer in harmony with a person’s internal world.

At its core, people turn disloyal because they are driven by psychological needs, emotional connections, and the constant pursuit of growth, novelty, and fulfillment. 

- People are driven by changing needs and desires. When a relationship, job, or product no longer fulfills these, disloyalty becomes more likely.
  
- Comparison with others can trigger dissatisfaction. If someone sees better alternatives, they may feel discontent and look elsewhere.

- Cognitive dissonance occurs when there's a gap between expectations and reality. People may become disloyal to reduce this internal conflict.

- Trust and emotional bonds are fragile. Betrayal or neglect can push someone to disengage emotionally and seek new connections.

- Autonomy and identity are critical. When someone feels restricted or that their identity is no longer aligned with a relationship or brand, they may turn disloyal.

- The human brain craves novelty. Boredom and routine can drive people to seek new experiences, leading to disloyalty.

- Social and cultural influences also play a role. Peer pressure, societal norms, or changing values can encourage disloyal behavior.

- Emotional overload and stress can cloud judgment, causing impulsive actions and pushing people toward disloyalty.

Loyalty is fluid, not fixed. It's shaped by constantly shifting needs, emotional fulfillment, and external influences. Life never talks for permanence, because nothing is. Life lives within moments. 

Choices are binary, either we accept and feel fulfilled, or stay in a delusional mindset that life is certain. 


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Why Loyalty in People Fades With Time? (A Psychological Truth)

surviving without making the situation worse.
how do you cope with emotional stress?
i either make music or watch anything or meditate.

distress tolerance

People don’t react in war unless war is brought to their door. 

Yes even the previously traumatized…as they are mearly more aware of the terms of warfare. 

Calling another’s observation a ‘projection’ is a warcry in dismissal. 

We all have pains. All human and likely to pass them. Only those that consider themselves perfect perpetuate the abusive standards.

Skipping accountability with someone? Do you value them or just your capacity to manipulate them into silence with blaming them for the pin you cause?

In other words:

Its about transforming your inner child wounds

Esto esta buenisimo / this rocks

I need all the guys on here to rate my profile on a scale of 1-10. Love y’all. That’s it.

LOoks LikE i'm thinG
🥺🥺🥺🤔🤔

Be alone until you’re valued.

music

एहसासों का तमाशा बना पाना भी कमाल है,
वरना तो नज्मों पर तालियां बजना ही हवाओं में दर्द का फरमान है।

जो मैं शायर होता,
तो तुझे भी शायरी लिखता।
कुछ कह पाता अगर, 
तो तुझे कहानी लिखता।
अगर रोक ही पता, 
तो तुझे मुस्कान लिखता।
जो तुझे जी पाता,
तो जिंदगी लिखता।

तेरा न होना दर्द है।
ये मुस्कान दर्द है, मेरा यहां होना दर्द है।
खुले आसमान के नीचे जीना दर्द है।
ये ठंडी हवाएं दर्द है।
सबसे बातें दर्द है, तेरी यादें दर्द है।

जो मैं शायर होता,
इन्ही महफिलों में, इसी दर्द से, तेरी तस्वीर बना पाता।
हमदर्दों की शोर मे, आसूदगी जी पाता।

पर नहीं हूं ना, "शायर",
तो अपने बिखरे हुए टुकड़ों पर तुझे बिठाऊं क्यों?
जो फूलों की डोली में भेजा है,
अब काटों को गिनाऊं क्यों?
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-- klemensky.
(a pen name, I gave to my feelings!) 🍁

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"अजी! शायर थोड़ी हूं!" 📌🌙

Don't know who needed this here but it was something that certainly helped me grow as a person when it was crucial.  Should you know someone who is always threatening to off themselves and it's clearly not that bad, kindly get that song to them. That is, IF, you are confident it's another fake cry for help. Truly suffering people? I'll leave that one alone but it's usually just something temporary causing the issue and they just need the fact that doing that isn't the answer.

PUSCIFER-THE OUTSIDER

What is the difference between perception and awareness?

Have you ever wondered why most of the traumas that people have come from the experiences that they faced in their childhood? 🤔 #TraumaAwareness #ChildhoodExperiencesMatter

Traumas

Albert camus

If I could define a friend in simple terms I would say it's that person who would take a timeout from their own battles to fight yours

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After so many bad day & failures !
while you go to your bed whats your fav affirmation you 
give to yourself to heal your wounds.?

Comment your thought!

Maybe but i like this peace😊

with debilitating anxiety, learning about Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness and other skills does reduce it bit by bit

Do not seek happiness in others or in relationships.... Search within

Does anyone in your life exhibit these traits??

Narcissistic personality disorder

Consciousness is a rare trait in humans

❓️Have you ever done good deeds and then bitterly regret it?🙈🫣

Twin flame relationships

Anyone feeling to talk/chat/🦜 can do so, lest not disturb when we're not able to, without misunderstandings. No bars - age, sex,... Many are looking for chats and the most common misconception is if a man then it should be women and vice versa. Actually it may not be case, as it seems...

It is hard for a guy like me to endure loneliness not when there is nobody , but when there is someone but they don't treat uou like you exist .

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Whats one piece of advice you'd give today's youth based on your teenage years?

Is it possible to live your life without fear?

Ain’t no love out here, everybody using u until they don’t need u. Trust me

Egocentricity (concept in psychology, not a street definition)

Love as a Bridge Between Cultures

Psychology

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It’s Meeeeeeeeeee!

Attachment Type

“I’m Giving Up On Dating” I’ve been seeing a lot of this lately...