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Which feels more real to you: what you show, or what you feel?

Partners in Chaos

Kidlin’s Law – The Power of Writing It.

Why do 99% of the people here disappear without a trace? Why do they stop responding? If you don't want to talk, why do you start? If something bothers you, say it, express it, why just disappear? And some take days to respond... I don't understand what's wrong with these people.

avoid, disappear

Deep conversation fullfill excitements

Today I walk through the ruins of my mind and I've found something I recognize. These endless halls were once filled with living shadows that would claw and tear at me as I passed them but now only the decaying walls are all that remain of it. It seems that I was correct once again and I was in fact responsible for at least one of the recurring nightmares that used to plague me so frequently. I suppose I should prepare myself for more discoveries in the future, this is just one testament to the self hatred that I learned so early in life. I should also take this moment and appreciate the fact that I am no longer my own enemy, this is not something I ever dared to dream would happen.

Familiar Ground

For me, it’s giving people chances based on their potential. Even when I’ve done my best to support them, they don’t show the respect back. Still, I can’t help but hold on to the hope that I can make a difference and help them grow.

What is one habit in your life that you want to change, but find hard to let go of?

Murphy’s Law – When Fear Becomes Fate

BPD.

It seems there truly is no turning back from this point. I have been told to take a seat by the rest of the Council within my mind. It would appear that the next stage of my reform is not mine to enact. I guess this is one of those moment's that faith comes into play, most likely the scariest trust fall I've ever done in my life.

Out of my Hands

Beware: not everyone is ready to understand my discernment mindset.

Many people think they’re walking on a true healing journey,
but in reality, they’re trapped inside a matrix of healing.

What is this matrix of healing?
It’s when someone believes they’re healing,
but unconsciously stays attached to the identity of being a wounded person.

The signs are subtle:
– When receiving compassionate advice, they immediately respond,
“That’s toxic positivity. Show your empathy — I’m dealing with this.”
– They say, “This is my healing journey; I don’t care what people say.
They can’t control me,”
while actually holding a stereotype that advice equals control.
– They keep trying, but never truly apply the changes.
– They seek validation and comfort,
but are not yet ready to receive discernment advice —
the kind of truth that challenges their pain identity.

True healing begins
when you stop defending your wounds
and start allowing wisdom to reshape who you are.

Matrix of healing journey

The Illusion of Normality

The feeling before falling.

Relaxing Session

Today I have mastered the Human psychology completely. I have now mastered women psychology completely.

It’s like I live in my head. 🙂

We all make the mistake of letting someone else's "bad mood" rub off and impact our day, at times.

It's especially easy with the holidays approaching and financial squeeze setting in for even the thriftiest of us.

I recently let a misunderstanding over text spiral into a blocking because of such a mood and my need to exhaust the feeling.

Breathing exercises and writing have helped.
What's one way -you- deal with down times?

Anger transference

Please. To the end. 
I don't own the video. Found it on internet.

If you have 3 free minutes of your time 😂
And don't be so serious 😜

need a friend

When you look at someone’s MBTI type, do you think it really tells you who they are, or is it just a fun label?

Is understanding others a skill, or a mirror of yourself?

Have a Nice Weekend!

One of the defense mechanism of intellectuals

Defence mechanism

Yeah Hi there. How do I interact with people who don't even wanna engage?? Like they act all invested in the requests and then drop the ball once the conversation starts. Like HELLO?

 It's like they all secretly expect me to carry the whole conversation. And I'm already going out of my comfort zone to even talk to them ,I don't have the spoons and I am sick and tired of having to keep connections alive! It's like all my life Ive just been begging for scraps of attention and they drop me immediately once I expect them to care and come back on their own for once. 

ITS THE BARE MINIMUM TO HAVE A CONVERSATION DAMNIT!!!!

Anyone Home???

I went through a very specific, horribly traumatic event that has resulted in me suffering with what they're diagnosing as CPTSD. I still have symptoms of pyschosis, flashbacks, and nightmares. 
I am searching for anyone who might relate with me. ANYONE who can say they have stood in my shoes. 
Do you hear voices in the water? 
Do you see the bodies?
Are you still halfway trapped in a horrifying nightmare fantasy, fighting to maintain your reality?
Do you miss the fear?
Do you miss the terror?
What is wrong with me?

Searching

A Nightmare Dressed Like a Daydream

Is OK to say NO

Do you like your coping mechanisms or are you brave?

Sometimes I feel like I’m performing even when no one is watching. I switch masks depending on the person, the moment, the room. And yet the “real me” feels so silent inside.


Who are you when no one is expecting anything from you?

Too many versions of self

Does a strong and unique personality attract egoistic/ dominant people ?

Question:

Thoughts?

I wanted to be honest with y'all for a moment, there is a massive rise of labelling a normal human trait as autism. One example that comes to mind is the use of one's own imagination which the world is sorely in need of but unfortunately calls it an illness when it's not. The misrepresentation of this specific health related category discourages people from being creative, which is why we also are seeing a lot of tasteless dead stuff in society overall. I even see it in interior design, all those greys, blacks, and whites like there is no life in its creation, or even the entertainment business pumping out remakes like they can't think of anything fresh anymore...

I try my best to be careful on how much medical science influences me because at the end of the day, I am aware it is a business corporation and it will continue to be that until they shift their focus to being of service to their own fellow man rather than exploiting us for everything we are and own. 

Sometimes, it feels like their goal is to hoodwink us when all we're doing is connecting with our own happy self. I am aware that there is a tactic in society at this time that loves to discourage that healthy part of humanity and I'm also a bit irritated for people who allow themselves to be told by a dead-inside corporation that there is something wrong with us for simply wanting to look at life in a child like wonder fashion that doesn't "belong" in a blank filled world and blindly believing it like white lab coats are godly, no they are human and they are prone to being wrong from time to time too...

I think my main gear grinding comes from the fact that we are disrespected and lied to on the daily and we are expected to eat sht and then call it a wonderful forward thinking revelation. Give me a damn break.

You know what? I'm kinda irritated with the tactics used against us...

People can’t stand ambiguity. They have to label it, fast. So instead of taking time to really know each other, they rush to categorize it, friend, lover, etc.

But connection’s meant to be fluid. Forcing it into shape too soon only breaks it. That’s why we lose good things because we can’t let them stay undefined.

Maybe that’s why most are haunted more by almosts than by breakups, because we knew it could’ve been good, a potential, if only we didn’t rush it to evolve. 

Oh well, we are flawed.

Human Connection

Evening quote (song 🎧)

I know that these memes are trending but ffs it’s so true WHY does our stomach hurt when we are super sad or anxious, THIS TRULY IS SUPPOSED TO BE A MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEM WHY ARE YOU TORMENTING MY BODY TOO? 😭 

PS: I already know the answer but it pisses me off 😂😭

Stay in your lane

A Boo community for meeting other Psychology enthusiasts.

Psychology Community

Which feels more real to you: what you show, or what you feel?

Partners in Chaos

Kidlin’s Law – The Power of Writing It.

avoid, disappear

Deep conversation fullfill excitements

Familiar Ground

Making some deltarune-esque characters!

Self-portrait

Almost finished with this book!

Psychology of Faith

Out of these three What is the best way to explore human nature? Psychology, Philosophy or Biology

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