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Kidlin’s Law – The Power of Writing It.

For me, it’s giving people chances based on their potential. Even when I’ve done my best to support them, they don’t show the respect back. Still, I can’t help but hold on to the hope that I can make a difference and help them grow.

What is one habit in your life that you want to change, but find hard to let go of?

Murphy’s Law – When Fear Becomes Fate

The Gift of a Kind Heart

Which feels more real to you: what you show, or what you feel?

It seems there truly is no turning back from this point. I have been told to take a seat by the rest of the Council within my mind. It would appear that the next stage of my reform is not mine to enact. I guess this is one of those moment's that faith comes into play, most likely the scariest trust fall I've ever done in my life.

Out of my Hands

Beware: not everyone is ready to understand my discernment mindset.

Many people think they’re walking on a true healing journey,
but in reality, they’re trapped inside a matrix of healing.

What is this matrix of healing?
It’s when someone believes they’re healing,
but unconsciously stays attached to the identity of being a wounded person.

The signs are subtle:
– When receiving compassionate advice, they immediately respond,
“That’s toxic positivity. Show your empathy — I’m dealing with this.”
– They say, “This is my healing journey; I don’t care what people say.
They can’t control me,”
while actually holding a stereotype that advice equals control.
– They keep trying, but never truly apply the changes.
– They seek validation and comfort,
but are not yet ready to receive discernment advice —
the kind of truth that challenges their pain identity.

True healing begins
when you stop defending your wounds
and start allowing wisdom to reshape who you are.

Matrix of healing journey

你们有备用机场吗？
Есть ли у тебя запасной аэродром?

Write in comments your opinion please.

Do you have a backup airport?

In the middle of darkness, remember who you are.

Reality

The feeling before falling.

Relaxing Session

Resenting the lessons from our past, letting the trauma of past experiences bleed into our present and future, won’t stop you from being hurt again in your life… it just stops you from enjoying the beautiful parts of the present that can lead to amazing adventures in your future.

Keep your shiny new spine and build healthy boundaries, and then let go of the hurt from your past. It was meant to be a lesson, not a f*cking life sentence.

The past can ruin our present

The Illusion of Normality

Partners in Chaos

It’s like I live in my head. 🙂

Please. To the end. 
I don't own the video. Found it on internet.

If you have 3 free minutes of your time 😂
And don't be so serious 😜

need a friend

When you look at someone’s MBTI type, do you think it really tells you who they are, or is it just a fun label?

Is understanding others a skill, or a mirror of yourself?

Have a Nice Weekend!

One of the defense mechanism of intellectuals

Defence mechanism

Yeah Hi there. How do I interact with people who don't even wanna engage?? Like they act all invested in the requests and then drop the ball once the conversation starts. Like HELLO?

 It's like they all secretly expect me to carry the whole conversation. And I'm already going out of my comfort zone to even talk to them ,I don't have the spoons and I am sick and tired of having to keep connections alive! It's like all my life Ive just been begging for scraps of attention and they drop me immediately once I expect them to care and come back on their own for once. 

ITS THE BARE MINIMUM TO HAVE A CONVERSATION DAMNIT!!!!

Anyone Home???

I went through a very specific, horribly traumatic event that has resulted in me suffering with what they're diagnosing as CPTSD. I still have symptoms of pyschosis, flashbacks, and nightmares. 
I am searching for anyone who might relate with me. ANYONE who can say they have stood in my shoes. 
Do you hear voices in the water? 
Do you see the bodies?
Are you still halfway trapped in a horrifying nightmare fantasy, fighting to maintain your reality?
Do you miss the fear?
Do you miss the terror?
What is wrong with me?

Searching

A Nightmare Dressed Like a Daydream

Are there specific apps, exercises, routines, or ways of thinking that help people feel better and stay functional despite the trauma? 
I don't need personal stories, just looking for practical implementation ideas. . 
 Thanks

What are the practical tools and techniques people use to manage the symptoms of PTSD day-to-day?

Is OK to say NO

Do you like your coping mechanisms or are you brave?

Sometimes I feel like I’m performing even when no one is watching. I switch masks depending on the person, the moment, the room. And yet the “real me” feels so silent inside.


Who are you when no one is expecting anything from you?

Too many versions of self

Does a strong and unique personality attract egoistic/ dominant people ?

Question:

Thoughts?

People can’t stand ambiguity. They have to label it, fast. So instead of taking time to really know each other, they rush to categorize it, friend, lover, etc.

But connection’s meant to be fluid. Forcing it into shape too soon only breaks it. That’s why we lose good things because we can’t let them stay undefined.

Maybe that’s why most are haunted more by almosts than by breakups, because we knew it could’ve been good, a potential, if only we didn’t rush it to evolve. 

Oh well, we are flawed.

Human Connection

I know that these memes are trending but ffs it’s so true WHY does our stomach hurt when we are super sad or anxious, THIS TRULY IS SUPPOSED TO BE A MENTAL HEALTH PROBLEM WHY ARE YOU TORMENTING MY BODY TOO? 😭 

PS: I already know the answer but it pisses me off 😂😭

Stay in your lane

At the end of the day I think we all become one of the two. The one who opens the jars, or the one who hands them over.

I'm the one who hands them over 🥺

I think I've figured it out

I can't stop crying over daydreams of the impossible

Longing for something that doesn't exist, it's painful

Not many people have practice at being vulnerable with boundaries. Know when to give trust that is earned. Vulnerability is often never reached when people don't believe in giving effort anymore, so then trauma dumps become more common. While a good portion of people holding back from each other is due to the obvious lack of self care or social consciousness people have when approaching each other these days, if we are to heal our weaknesses, it takes practice that many don't have right now.

Hence why they say go to therapy a lot, especially when we don't have friends to listen or guide us now. However, it does no good if you just want a soundboard to sit and agree with you. A good therapist is trained to trigger you but rewire your thought process. It may come in the form of asking you, "Are you sure?" and only you will know the answer sometimes. But where indecision previously was or an avoidance, over time, your mind will calm down.

Trauma bonds seem like the only ones where people are connected on a higher level, familial or relationship, because they're intense. It is an addiction to another person's validation or support mixed with huge fights or arguments. I feel like I've come a long way to even be able to see things properly with all this "dark romance" this and "baddie energy" that going through the feeds. Just know, there are people out here that see the ridiculousness of such things. Knowing that some people, despite how empowered they feel, would crave unhealthy things less if they actually healed themselves a bit. Some things are just a preference by all means, but some people need to heal.

In this day and age...

Staring into the void and the void stares back like "wassup girl?!" 👁👄👁

What’s your favorite way to emotionally dissociate? (music, naps, staring at wall?)

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Kidlin’s Law – The Power of Writing It.

What is one habit in your life that you want to change, but find hard to let go of?

Murphy’s Law – When Fear Becomes Fate

The Gift of a Kind Heart (edited)

Which feels more real to you: what you show, or what you feel?

Out of my Hands

Making some deltarune-esque characters!

Self-portrait

Almost finished with this book!

Psychology of Faith

Out of these three What is the best way to explore human nature? Psychology, Philosophy or Biology

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