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If spirituality begins within, why do most people invest more energy in appearing spiritual than in confronting their own inner reality?

This quote I've heard a long ago as a child and it's deeply ingrained in my head. 

As a thinking person I started to analyze this axiom further. If you hate, you can also love --> does it mean if you don't hate, you can't love?

There were none person I hated in my entire life. Sometimes I even think I could be dispassionate towards Hitler : Support? Hell no! But understand and see a human in him - yes. 

By an amazing coincidence, I have never experienced that burning feeling of love that they write about in books and make films about. 

What is it - am I just a low-emotional person, a psychopath, or maybe I just haven't met those special people?

Let's turn a dating app into Reddit :D

If you hate, you can also love

Ini fakta yg tak terbantahkan !!
Bagi cowo, dekatin dan sembuhin cewe yg punya trauma, niscaya kamu yg akan jadi sakit

Npd effecf

genuine, real, different. 

Real connections and true clear conversation is super important for me, what about you?

Just a bit of me

I consider myself very lucky, I've have a few best friends, lots of friends at work, a pretty good family that I see often and my pets, but sometimes, especially after a long day, I just feel so alone and unloved which isn't true but I feel it so often. I've been single for a year and a half, I'm trying to progress in life and some days it feels like I'm making progress but still I have this weight which makes my eyes feel so heavy. I dont know what to do so I got this app but it's still hard to make many friends, but all the friends I have made I am thankful for. I just feel as if my feelings are unjustified but it doesn't make them go away.

If you read all this thank you, I just needed to vent.

Sometimes I feel so lonely

"Two souls are attracted to eachother because they've already met in another dimension"

My favourite theory

If you were walking in the woods in a hike alone (you are on a trail) would you rather run into a random man or a random bear? 

Please tell me your answers, keep in mind a bear can be over 2,000 pounds and run at 35- 40 mph 🧍‍♀️personally I would not take that chance.

Man vs bear hypothetical

Can a person truly change their fundamental nature(temperament, sociability) or one just simply learns to manage them better? 🤔

I like small talk. Small talk, to me, is a very important litmus test. If you can't navigate simplicity, how are are you to navigate complexity?

I think it shows a healthy, important level, in structure of thoughtfulness. It may not always be satiating to the mind, but it shows patience. Also if you're good at conversation, not just socializing, and have attention to detail you can learn a lot about someone or learn about what to talk about with someone. 

I feel like the details are lost in online dating or distant interactions in general, everyone wants what they're looking for upfront, while I feel like most of us don't know what to do with that because our walls make it hard to see face value.

Small talk is important

What is a life lesson you learned the hard way?

Deep thoughts

I have this feeling that I will not exist one day

Soulmates are what we call real love. Experienced ever?

How it left you shattered or helped you in growth?

Soulmate!

I have no clue what I'm doing. 
Someone else take over.

I want out

What's the most beautiful thing about you?

The pain I'm feeling is making my physically ill and as someone who is studying to be a mental health aide, how we treat people in need is absolutely disgusting and unacceptable.

People wonder why others take their lives.

Do you want to be embalmed, buried, cremated, large celebration, etc.

What do you want your funeral to be like, if you even want one?

When a person you are not dating acts like an angry ex, it is typically a sign of unprocessed emotions, intense personal insecurity, or a distorted perception of the connection you shared. Even without a formal relationship, this behavior often stems from a feeling of being "jilted" or having expectations that were not met. 
Here is a breakdown of why this happens and how to handle it based on psychological, relationship, and expert perspectives:
Why They Are Acting This Way
Lingering Feelings & Hurt: Anger is a common, though unhealthy, way to process rejection. If they had strong feelings, they may be converting that pain into anger, which is often easier than accepting they are not in a relationship with you.
A "Relationship" in Their Head: They may have imagined a future or misinterpreted the closeness of your connection, treating the end of that potential as a "breakup".
Ego and Control: If they feel you have moved on or "rejected" them, they may act out to maintain a sense of control, aiming to win a "breakup" they fabricated.
Avoidant Attachment or Trauma: The person may have a fear of intimacy, causing them to sabotage, run away, and then become hostile when they realize you are actually gone.
Using Conflict to Stay Connected: Negative attention is still attention. Anger allows them to keep you involved in their lives and keeps them in yours.

What?

I'm annoyed that the "16 Type" category actually fits me to a T💀, but it's super helpful if you're interested. Btw, currently, I move around LA, TX, and GA in North America.

16 Type

Do not talk. Do not trust. Do not feel.
A dysfunctional family's unspoken rules...

Do not be an embarassment.

one day or day one

Opposites attract… haan, shuruat mein 🔥
Different opinions, different worlds — sab exciting lagta hai.

Par waqt ke saath ek cheez samajh aati hai…

Long-lasting bonds sirf attraction se nahi bante,
woh bante hain same vibe se.

Jahan silence awkward nahi hota,
jahan values explain nahi karni padti,
jahan aapka pace, unka pace ban jaata hai.

Same vibe log aapko change nahi karte,
woh aapko aur zyada aap bana dete hain.
Kam drama, zyada understanding.
Kam proving, zyada belonging.

Opposites spark create karte hain,
par same vibe log ghar jaisa feel dete hain.

✨ Jo connect tikta hai… woh trend se nahi, truth se banta hai.

Aapke life mein zyada tikne wale log kaise hain — opposite ya same vibe? 💭

WHAT'S YOUR TAKE?

The rain falls like a love song written just for my soul, soft, patient, and endlessly tender. Each drop feels like a gentle whisper against my heart, washing away the noise of the world until only peace remains. In this quiet melody, I feel weightless… free… as if the sky itself is holding me, and for a moment, everything breathes in harmony with my heart. ♥️💙❤️

Rain 🥰

To make it a little harder: it can’t have anything to do with money or assets

If you could change one thing about your life instantly, what would it be and why?

In today's world of casual connections do you think love is something you feel or something you choose everyday?l'm curious what people really believe

Intentional love

🤷‍♂️😄

All we need is perspective, what feels like the end may simply be a new beginning.

Perspective

Is it superstition  or can someone curses 🤬  really make you fall?

Lonely

What are you doing to take care of your health? Mental or physical?

Do u believe that humans should become monk or a person who controls his sensory organs?. ?
I think if that's true then why did we have such organs if we should control or limit their powers as well as emotions.
We were better be animals because they don't have such intense emotions and don't need to express them.
 Did u ever had this question!!! 
Welcome to share your thoughts and this is my rough idea so just express yourself rather than dismissing others. Hoping for rational thoughts.

Is this interesting topic ???

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True grandeur isn’t in dominance. It’s in restraint.The mountain does not shout yet everything bows to its height.

"The discipline of Mountains"

Tell me the scariest fact
You wish you didn't know
(from biology, psychologyo
history, whatever field
you're into)

What is something that is definitely getting out of hand?

The state where you are aware that you are a capable human being and you feel like you can't do anything is the worst spiral ever.

Down to the spiral again

Why do some people prefer to stay in shallow water eventhough they have the opportunity or ability to go deeper? Is it only because it is safer and more comfortable? Fear? 🤔

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If spirituality begins within, why do most people invest more energy in appearing spiritual than in confronting their own inner reality?

If you hate, you can also love

Hyy

Npd effecf

Just a bit of me

Sometimes I feel so lonely

Why are men taught how to treat women… but women rarely get taught how to treat men? 🤔

Fantasy is like therapy.

Three Questions That Tell You More Than a Dozen Dates

Nature is awesome!

Psychology Q&A 🧠

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