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1w2

What can I do to be Hsppy? Own your happiness. You are responsible for your own happiness.

Very good advice from him.

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Paul

ESTP

Capricorn

Discipline

A disciplined mind creates happiness

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1w2

What would you say to your younger self at 20?

Say more YES to explore more possibilities; say NO when boundaries need to be in place We have a lot of very young people here in this app.

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Chikalicious

INFJ

8w7

🌈

Just thought i’d make a phone wallpaper for y’all 🫧🙏🏼

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Kay

11d

8w7

You can reinvent yourself. Do not hold yourself hostage to a version that no longer exists. 🤎

It's funny...im finding the second half of life is mostly unlearning everything you feverishly collected the first half.

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カトリナ Katrina

23d

ISFJ

Aquarius

2w3

I need to be more patient with myself

I’m a worrisome person who’s overwhelmed easily and i never remember to tell myself that i dont have to do everything perfect on the 1st try and be okay with the fact everything is a process and takes time.

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Christine

18d

ISFJ

Pisces

8w7

😬💪

Working 2 job is not for the weak.

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Angel

19d

Virgo

7w6

🤷🏽‍♀️

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23d

1w2

{"heart":1}

1 Award

You haven’t met all the people that are going to love you yet 🌹❤️🩵💕💓🧡💛💙🩵💜

I am straight. In case you have been wondering why I have the rainbow hearts line up 🤣🤣🤣

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19d

8w9

Poll

I matched with someone, and I friend-zoned them once I realized she didn't want kids. I explained to her that having kids was very important to me, and that while it's okay that she doesn't want them, she wasn't right for me in a relationship. She grew very mad at me, and said that I never even gave her a chance. Then she blocked me.

{"options":[{"text":"I Was In The Wrong","numVotes":3},{"text":"She Was In The Wrong","numVotes":21},{"text":"We Were Both In The Wrong","numVotes":4}]}

I Was In The Wrong

11%

She Was In The Wrong

75%

We Were Both In The Wrong

14%

28 votes

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Bradley

14d

Aquarius

8w9

How does one change a mindset of not being enough, being a picky eater and being more of a hermit. Asking for a friend.🤔

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Kaizer

16d

8w9

Affirmation:

I'm healthy, protected, safe, secure, wealthy, successful in the area of love and romance and happy because I claim these things from the Spiritual Domain (in which they are already a Spiritual Truth) through utilizing my Spiritual and Mental Resources within. The External never governs me. I Govern and Shape my Internal and External Success through the Consistent Utilization of my Internal Spiritual and Mental Resources.

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23d

How do you like to express your creativity?

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28d

8w9

4 Relationship Horsemen

Criticism, Contempt, Stonewalling and Defensiveness. These are the four horsemen, or the four major risk behaviors that lead to 91% of failed relationships. It's easy to get upset with your partner, and when you do, it's instinctual to fall into one of these traps. Luckily, there are brief descriptions of the solutions below:

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1mo

Things to remember

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1mo

1w2

It feels like such a long way to go … to find a home.

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29d

1w2

Unlocked the key to make everyone feel appreciated.

Have you told anyone TODAY that how much you appreciate someone? I do it all the time! 😊🙏 Eventhough you and I are not matched. I still appreciate the connection we made. Thank you for taking a short journey with me. I appreciate 🫠🙏Let’s continue to thrive! Stay positive! 💪💪💪😎

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1mo

1w2

Is the end of last week and a new beginning of this week. Happy Monday!

If you got “beat up” or “put off” like I did last week. This is for you too. Let’s gain new strength for this week. Imagine you only have to take care of yourself a little bit better than yesterday. It is already a tremendous courage and effort of a new you. The weather will not be cloudy all the time. We got this! WE GOT THIS! I love you Sooo much 🩵❤️🩵❤️.

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Peter

1mo

So. For the first time since over a year. I will try again.

I was really beaten down for a long time. Struggling with mental health issues for 5 years now. Girlfriend broke up with me (while I was in the hospital for my mental health) and I needed to go back to my mother's place. I haven't talked with my mother for 3 years at that point. It was tough. To be in this room again. Alone. Like the last 3 years never happened. I not only lost my girlfriend. I lost 2 best friends. One being my girlfriend Lisa the other being someone I once considered a brother (Philip) It was tough. I got very heavy. I gained another 20kg on top of my already 20kg overweight. I lost hope. Hope for myself. There was no reason to try anymore. Those two Lisa and Philip meant everything to me. They were my reason to live. To keep fighting. Well a lot happened since then and I stand there. Alone. But I will try again. I want change. I will change. I will lose my 50kg. I will better myself. I will not give up. I still have doubts. But I will push thru

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1mo

1w2

I am feeling beautiful today. How about you? Are you catching up?

If you have not seen anything beautiful lately, try catch a sunset or a sunrise! I can assure you, you would love it! Let’s love ourselves a little more today! Give ourselves a hug or a pat on our shoulder and say “ I am Amazing!” … Breath it all in, and woah lah! Have a great weekends.

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Colt

28d

ESFJ

Gemini

8w7

To start off the day!!!

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1mo

Reminder

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1mo

1w2

I suspect some of my post are sensored or blocked. Are you able to see this post?

Just curious why it doesn’t look like anyone has read it.

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1mo

1w2

Do you have a hard time to build trust? I think most of us do. How do we learn to trust?

After watching this video. I learned that it is not us that not able to trust people. It is the environment factor that we feel people that we meet there may or may not be trustworthy. A good person can change bad if you put him in a stressful environment. A bad person will not have bad deeds if we put them under a circumstances that they are not deprived. What an enlightenment! To learn to trust, we have to remove ourselves from an environment that give us reasonably doubts on the people that we meet there. Different type of people are fond to be attracted to different environment. If you want to learn to trust, pick an environment that you think you can better trust people. Then, trusting will not be too hard, right? 🥴🙏 Example, if you think alcoholism can ruin a relationship, don’t go to the bar to try your luck. If you want a God-fearing woman or man, best go to the church to meet new people. If you surrounded by friends that use drugs, how can you trust your friends with money? It is not you can’t trust your friends, it is because the environment that your friends are could potentially turn them bad. How could we possible learn to trust in that same environment? Choose your environment and the people that you want to meet wisely. You can comfortable learning to trust. Here is another self reflection. Can we trust ourselves? If the answer is “No”, we can never trust others at the same time. You will be suspecting your friend might have the same thought like you, and not as trustworthy as you. Next question. How can we trust our own value and our ability? Did we complete what we promise ourselves to do? Am I willing to take accountability of my action? Am I repeating the same bad habit everyday? Do I know the difference between right and wrong from the moral point of view perhaps? I have a lot of flaws too when come to self promising. Let’s learn to trust starting by making ourselves trustworthy! Love you my “friends” on Boo! Hope yesterday you had a wonderful Halloween Boooo… time! Get to work! 💪😎

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1mo

1w2

Self improvement time!

When you realized people really don’t care about the matter you have been worrying? How would you feel differently when you look back at your anxiety?

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1mo

8w9

{"heart":1}

1 Award

Visualization

Thanks to AI, I was finally able to capture visually and metaphorically how I see my brother and myself. He was taken too soon. The first step to improving yourself is forgiving yourself.

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1mo

8w9

How's your day (Scale 1-5)?

I have asked myself this same question for 1,398 days straight. Today it's probably a 3½, so good.

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1/5 (Awful)

2/5 (Bad)

3/5 (Okay)

53%

4/5 (Good)

18%

5/5 (Excellent)

18%

17 votes

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1mo

1w2

Don’t ever give up on yourself!

Hope it could help if you need some strength to move on. 💪💪💪🫡🫡🫡

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Dominic Renzo

20d

After my long awaited glow up I’m gonna be flexing on my haters like:

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Eugene

1mo

ENTJ

Gemini

7w8

Every great journey starts with a first step

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Jamie

1mo

ISTJ

Don't be a SIMP

Guys, stop obsessing other girls to the point that you are now almost a creep lurking in shadows watching what she is doing everyday. Don't be a slave to her looks or charisma. Don't beg for their attention as they will definitely be disgusted in you. You guys are MORE than that. Pls don't make your value go down low. Don't stuck yourself into the very low level of male hierarchy. Start to improve yourself physically and emotionally. For those guys who are simp, there is still hope for you to BETTER ❤️

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Ronnyn

1mo

INTP

Sagittarius

1w2

Meditations of Marcus Aurelius:Book V

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1mo

1w2

Uncreative thinking and behavior is Learned.

Our education system kills potential geniuses 🤪 kids are very creative because their brains are still developing. So, what do we do? Let kids create their own learning pathway? Hi little one, what would you like to learn today? 🤗 How many of you can relate when your kids come back from school and said school is so .. boring!? I think this is how their creativity slowly die off, because you are expect to follow what everyone else is doing, be part of the herd. These are rules! You must follow 🧐 Our kids grew up “learning” uncreativity thinking and behavior. How sad 💀 I love the animation by the way. 😎❤️

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1mo

1w2

Your quality of life is built by your quality of your decisions.

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Rachielyssa✨

1mo

ENFJ

7w8

Vulnerability is a Super Power!

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Remy

1mo

INFJ

Pisces

8w7

Here's to you! Cheers! 🍻😁

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Angel

1mo

Virgo

7w6

Opening myself up for feedback and accountability

This is obviously one portion of the conversation (and one also reaped in ego) and I could not capture the rest as I was blocked, though know it’s only sharing a point that I’m called out on. If this is in anyways relevant to any of our conversations I’ve had with any of you friends, please let me know. I am honestly, confused, and would like to better myself more if this comes off as so. One thing I will note with said person, is that I did say it’s very hard to communicate with them and understand them, because I feel like the way we are communicating (the amount of generalization and methaphorical abstractensss without directness (imo) comes off as speaking different languages) and I just think it would be very difficult for us to understand one another. I appreciate all feedback 🥰 thank you.

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Colt

1mo

ESFJ

Gemini

8w7

Self love, and worth is all that matters...

Those who throw negative energy in your direction use that and make it a positive. Self care is the first step to overcoming these hard times!!!

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Ashley

Look good, feel good

So excited that I have 2 months left on my invisalign treatment. I can't wait to show off my pearly whites! When you look good, you feel good. #selfimprovement

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1w2

Day 3 Week 8

#selfimprovement #treadmill #nightshift #clarkglobalcity #asurionclark #asurionclarkraptors #asurionraptors #worklifebalance #fitnessmotivation #fitness #curingdepression #healingprocess #healing #dailyroutine #clearyourmindandsoul #fullbodyworkout #fullbodyexercises Day 3 Week 8

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1w2

Day 2 Week 8

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1w2

Day 1 Week 8

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11d

1w2

Day 4 Week 7

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1w2

Day 6 Week 7

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17d

1w2

Day 7 Week 6

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15d

1w2

Day 2 Week 7

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10d

1w2

Day 5 Week 7

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1w2

Day 7 Week 7

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14d

1w2

Day 3 Week 7

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18d

1w2

Self-improvement

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16d

1w2

Day 1 Week 7

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23d

1w2

Gym after shift

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25d

Sagittarius

Another Sketch

Continuing my Sisyphean journey to getting better… #art #artwork #fanart #jenniferconnelly #selfimprovement #drawingpencil #sketch

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1mo

1w2

Difficult situation is an opportunity to improve.

I love this. Push us to thinking out of the ordinary, think outside the box, think of answer that no one has ever come up with #motivation #standup #learn #selfimprovement

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Lynden

3mo

Aquarius

2w1

Reading together

I really struggle to read by myself, but have loads of books I want to read. I've found that finding a friend a reading to each other in person or on the phone really helps. Would anyone be interested in doing this with me? Whether or not it be just a friends or potential dating - just let me...

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Chrome

7mo

When you feel LAZY, but you still do your duty, it's called Discipline. There is no completion without...

#selfimprovement #phylosophy

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Tim

INTP

{"100":1,"you_dropped_this":1}

2 Awards

Hypocrisy

I've been here less than a month and have already concluded that this app is a majority of fakers, pretenders, wannabes and psychological deviants. If this isn't you, great; have a fulfilling day, enrich those who are accepting, learn from those who are willing and don't forget to stop and just...

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Miles

ENTJ