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Im feeling love

I cried so much last night for a man that really wasnt worth my tears, I lost my self completely. Now I feel reborn. I dont give him the same affection and attention no more, coz I realized people dont deserve that kind of access of me when they dont invest back. Do not think he is a bad person.… (edited) read more

Glow Up Ideas?

What are some ideas for how to improve myself so I can glow up? Like, what did you start with?

Resilience

Plants live in harsh conditions. They live through neglect and hostile forces. Their leaves get shredded, discolor, wither away. Branches which can no longer be sustained dry up and are dropped. Stems grow sideways if there's no other way to go. In dire circumstances, plants turn downwards under… (edited) read more

Feeling grateful for the people in my life

My family. My parish fellows. Close friends. And the kaleidoscope of people who cross my way at social meet ups. For a few hours, I get a brief window at their lives. People are easy to understand at their core, and delightfully complex and endlessly entertaining in how they express themselves. My… read more

The Mindset Will Always Remain

There'se is something I’ve observed throughout my own development. At some point in the process, when you keep doing the work and give it everything you have, you start building your foundations: discipline, principles, experience, and your own philosophy. And eventually, you reach a point where… read more

Lol, Yes, I Am A Silly One, Lmao

Wow, look what 10 years will do for you! Hahaha 😆 😂 Such a transformation.

What's Next ->>>

Latest Update: So, I only have 15 hours left of my practicum and I am on schedule to complete all practicum hours by Sept 25th. I will then receive my Peer Support Worker Certification. I just had a meeting with my Occupational Therapist, who told me she is very proud of me and we have come up… read more

Steve jobs -The legend whose legacy will always remains

Jobs’ story is often told through the outcome: Apple, Pixar, the iPhone. But the more interesting part happened before that. After leaving Apple, he did not immediately become a better version of himself. He made mistakes. He lost people. He built things that failed. He made decisions that, at… read more

So as motivation...

I might put a second pic of myself after I lose more weight. 😅 Deal?

Me In A Nutshell

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It's already october and close to new year, many wishlist still wait for tick..

You On Purpose 😍

Today's little reset. 🚗📖🤍 A car wash, a good book, and a few quiet moments to reflect and recharge. ESSENTIAL ✅

Gaining weight

What’s the remedy to help gain weight?? Please share

Better Me

Doing it for me ❤️

I'll be better one step at a time. Sometimes I'll be terrible but it's okay. Life goes on. You just gotta keep going even when you're at your lowest. (edited)

As noted in the picture 💚

For anyone else who plays

Feel free to add me✨️ (edited)

Let's talk about how "mental health" has been weaponized by people in society to avoid accountability for their actions and actually hinders them from growing as individuals.

Mental health is real. But it's also become a convenient excuse for bad behavior. Psychologist Nicholas Balaisis points out that citing mental health can sometimes be an avoidant strategy or a way of bypassing the issue at hand rather than confronting it. Using mental health as a scapegoat for poor… (edited) read more

A change👏🏾

If you had to change two things about yourself or your life what would it be? an why (optional)

Broken but trying

My life has been so complicated and the total opposite of peaceful. I need a break. I need a chance. I need a change. I have worked so hard on myself that I feel I deserve better than what I have.

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You deserve better than a table that serves you poison or invites you but makes you feel like a ghost

Success is meaningless if you don't fail

Turn that defeat into a stepping stone towards victory

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Love this combo

Shadow Work

Are you ready to integrate the aspects of your shadow that relationships will inevitably shine light upon?

Money or looks??!!!

A lot of people ask, “What’s more important for a man—money or looks?” My answer is both matter. A man should have a little money stacked, a cushion in the bank, because life will test you when you least expect it. But don’t stop there. Have some good cologne. Keep decent clothes. Own some… read more

Breaks my heart

It's so sad to see people publicly berate themselves. I know it's sometimes just fishing compliments or trying to be mean first so others don't say it, or despreately hoping for someone to prove their thoughts wrong, but yall really gotta start loving yourselves. Imagine yourself as a stranger, are… read more

Never give up ❤️✨

Don’t listen to the words that demotivate or bring you down. Don’t get demotivated or stressed by others either. Plan things properly and just do it. Believe in yourself. Everything takes time and one day you will achieve it. ❤️ (edited)

Unconditional love

Idk how to describe my thinking, so bare with me. So, it seems to me that a lot of self problems come from conditional love, and receiving unconditional love is best for development. I have lots of thoughts on that, but I'm gonna do this weird thing of treating myself like my own child to take… read more

You deserve love that makes you grow

Love shouldn't consume you

Starting to realise this is why I come across controversial

1. When you are alone, be careful with your thoughts. 2. When you are with friends, be careful with your tongue. 3. When you are angry, be careful with your actions. 4. When you are in trouble, be careful with your emotions. 5. When God is blessing you, be careful with your ego

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I STAND WITH HUMANITY IN TODAYS WORLD, MAKE SURE YOUR MORAL COMPASS FACES THE TRUTH.... I STAND WITH HUMANITY ABOVE ALL.

Be mentally attractive

I need to add more to this… Make your mind stronger💪. Try to see losses as challenges, opportunities for improvement🤩and even blessings🔮. Be kind to others and offer help whenever you can😁. Avoid unhealthy routines and take care of your physical and mental health. Because even if you have… read more

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Your triggers are your own fault