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Im feeling love

I cried so much last night for a man that really wasnt worth my tears, I lost my self completely. Now I feel reborn. I dont give him the same affection and attention no more, coz I realized people dont deserve that kind of access of me when they dont invest back. Do not think he is a bad person.… (edited) read more

Can't believe it's October

Haven't journaled in a couple of weeks. So I wrote 8 pages in one go, my hand cramped and my pen gave up on me. Time is going fast. And I'm not where I want to be yet. My attention is split in different directions. Need patience with the process.

Resilience

Plants live in harsh conditions. They live through neglect and hostile forces. Their leaves get shredded, discolor, wither away. Branches which can no longer be sustained dry up and are dropped. Stems grow sideways if there's no other way to go. In dire circumstances, plants turn downwards under… (edited) read more

Feeling grateful for the people in my life

My family. My parish fellows. Close friends. And the kaleidoscope of people who cross my way at social meet ups. For a few hours, I get a brief window at their lives. People are easy to understand at their core, and delightfully complex and endlessly entertaining in how they express themselves. My… read more

The Mindset Will Always Remain

There'se is something I’ve observed throughout my own development. At some point in the process, when you keep doing the work and give it everything you have, you start building your foundations: discipline, principles, experience, and your own philosophy. And eventually, you reach a point where… read more

Glow Up Ideas?

What are some ideas for how to improve myself so I can glow up? Like, what did you start with?

Steve jobs -The legend whose legacy will always remains

Jobs’ story is often told through the outcome: Apple, Pixar, the iPhone. But the more interesting part happened before that. After leaving Apple, he did not immediately become a better version of himself. He made mistakes. He lost people. He built things that failed. He made decisions that, at… read more

So as motivation...

I might put a second pic of myself after I lose more weight. 😅 Deal?

Lol, Yes, I Am A Silly One, Lmao

Wow, look what 10 years will do for you! Hahaha 😆 😂 Such a transformation.

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You On Purpose 😍

Today's little reset. 🚗📖🤍 A car wash, a good book, and a few quiet moments to reflect and recharge. ESSENTIAL ✅

Gaining weight

What’s the remedy to help gain weight?? Please share

Better Me

Doing it for me ❤️

I'll be better one step at a time. Sometimes I'll be terrible but it's okay. Life goes on. You just gotta keep going even when you're at your lowest. (edited)

As noted in the picture 💚

For anyone else who plays

Feel free to add me✨️ (edited)

A change👏🏾

If you had to change two things about yourself or your life what would it be? an why (optional)

Broken but trying

My life has been so complicated and the total opposite of peaceful. I need a break. I need a chance. I need a change. I have worked so hard on myself that I feel I deserve better than what I have.

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🥲hey

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You deserve better than a table that serves you poison or invites you but makes you feel like a ghost

Success is meaningless if you don't fail

Turn that defeat into a stepping stone towards victory

Shadow Work

Are you ready to integrate the aspects of your shadow that relationships will inevitably shine light upon?

Money or looks??!!!

A lot of people ask, “What’s more important for a man—money or looks?” My answer is both matter. A man should have a little money stacked, a cushion in the bank, because life will test you when you least expect it. But don’t stop there. Have some good cologne. Keep decent clothes. Own some… read more

Breaks my heart

It's so sad to see people publicly berate themselves. I know it's sometimes just fishing compliments or trying to be mean first so others don't say it, or despreately hoping for someone to prove their thoughts wrong, but yall really gotta start loving yourselves. Imagine yourself as a stranger, are… read more

Never give up ❤️✨

Don’t listen to the words that demotivate or bring you down. Don’t get demotivated or stressed by others either. Plan things properly and just do it. Believe in yourself. Everything takes time and one day you will achieve it. ❤️ (edited)

Unconditional love

Idk how to describe my thinking, so bare with me. So, it seems to me that a lot of self problems come from conditional love, and receiving unconditional love is best for development. I have lots of thoughts on that, but I'm gonna do this weird thing of treating myself like my own child to take… read more

You deserve love that makes you grow

Love shouldn't consume you

Starting to realise this is why I come across controversial

1. When you are alone, be careful with your thoughts. 2. When you are with friends, be careful with your tongue. 3. When you are angry, be careful with your actions. 4. When you are in trouble, be careful with your emotions. 5. When God is blessing you, be careful with your ego

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I STAND WITH HUMANITY IN TODAYS WORLD, MAKE SURE YOUR MORAL COMPASS FACES THE TRUTH.... I STAND WITH HUMANITY ABOVE ALL.

Be mentally attractive

I need to add more to this… Make your mind stronger💪. Try to see losses as challenges, opportunities for improvement🤩and even blessings🔮. Be kind to others and offer help whenever you can😁. Avoid unhealthy routines and take care of your physical and mental health. Because even if you have… read more

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Your triggers are your own fault

Conscience/Conscious

Both has different meaning. But for the one who dealt with human greed almost every second, both actually means “wake up”.

New look

Consistency