Priorities Community

Are we even bothered?

I remember in my mid 20s and even my early 30s relationships made up a great deal of my priorities. Now in my mid 40s with kids in tow, those same priorities seem optional. Recently I cancelled a date because I preferred to watch TV with my dog instead. Of course I’d like to find someone I love… read more

I’ve changed a lot

Hey guys. So during the years I’ve learned a lot about others, but the most was about myself. Many years ago I had a severe depression. Didn’t care about me, nor others except for my family. I ate bad, I never did exercise at all, had the same clothing on, just didn’t think about self care at all.… read more

The Blanket Negotiation

That precise moment when things are heating up and one of you is fully committed… while the other is still carefully rearranging the duvet so nobody’s left with a cold shoulder or a foot hanging off the bed. Priorities somehow stay split between passion and temperature control. Anyone else’s… read more

Daily Routine: 7 Principles of Time Management

This my schedule at the current time. Over time, I have identified seven key observations regarding time management, productivity, and the way we manage our own minds and bodies. 1. Breathing Practice Our bodies store up energy, and breathing serves as a tool to control it. Conscious breathing… read more

Two Cats, Two Very Different Priorities

My back is killing me. Mack has apparently appointed himself my personal physical therapist, while Nova remains completely oblivious. One is providing emotional support. The other is demonstrating the importance of a healthy work-life balance.

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When we put theology before love we have lost sight of what it means to follow Jesus' teachings.

Priorities people, priorities

Friendship

We're adults now with various personalities and priorities. They may be gone for a mean time or even a long time, but to mind you, not because you're friends doesn't mean they owe you their time. Its your privilege not your right to have them on your life and vise versa. They have … (edited) read more

Time & Priorities

Read the quotes on the picture. Which one is your favorite quote? Mine is the first one, "People make time for what they want. No excuses, just priorities."

Are you??

Are you giving God your leftovers instead of your best? Open this thread to discover how this might be reflected in your everyday life. Worship is more than singing songs on a Sunday. It's how we honor God through our choices, attitudes, priorities, and the way we live each day. We give God our… read more

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Are you??

Are you giving God your leftovers instead of your best? Open this thread to discover how this might be reflected in your everyday life. Worship is more than singing songs on a Sunday. It's how we honor God through our choices, attitudes, priorities, and the way we live each day. We give God our… read more

Solo poly

🤔 Are solo poly men being overlooked in the polyamorous community? Everybody seems to be looking for a unicorn, another woman, or a couple to join… but what about the solo poly men looking for genuine connections? 🐉😂 Are solo poly men getting overlooked, or are we just looking for love in a… read more

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busy is a lie, the real thing is what our priorities are

Right steps

Why do people try to go straight into dating, when my personal opinion is that if you make friends with them and connection is real you won't be able not to date anyway 🤷🏽‍♀️ and you get to know who you dating as well as noticing vital stuff such as forms of respect they have, priorities, limits,… read more

I don't see the initiatives anymore

Losing interest in texting? Fine. People change, priorities shift, and conversations fade. But if you decide to leave, be honest about it. Silence speaks too, but clarity shows respect. Not everyone expects constant attention—sometimes all they ask for is sincerity. If the connection matters,… read more

🤍 breathe, think, and reset. it's going to be okay.

current priorities: - make money - get in shape - Stay close to God,all my sis all my bro in law 🤍

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Matter of priorities.

I believe no one is ever busy for who they love or like && who they want to keep in their lives.We always make time for the things we love or like.😌 (edited)

Question time!!! Haven't done this in months 😅 If you're being totally honest with yourself, how do you believe you would survive in war conditions?

(This is in a real life scenario, none of your made up persona online, in some game or what not..) What would your priorities be and how would you go about them? NB: you're not part of the militaries fighting, you're a civilian, trying to survive.

I hope and pray, the next time you fall in love it will be with someone who's good for your mental health A person who will give you clarity and peace, someone who will see your needs as their priorities, not burdens (that you'll do the same) A person who will open to discuss about anything w/ you

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The Price of a “Great” Society

The final chord: prosperity. Here is the pragmatic clarity: the system serves the individual, not the other way around. If a state requires mass burnout among the youth—or the disappearance of dissenters and rational thinkers—to achieve greatness, then that is not prosperity; it is highly… read more

Here’s something I’ve learned...

There’s nothing wrong with wishing people well. And if you’re confused about a connection, sometimes it’s okay to ask: “Are we good?” Not because you’re demanding reassurance. Not because you’re trying to force anything. Just for clarity. Labels don’t always matter to society, but they can… read more

Value to each other💖🌻🙏🤗✨💞

From my experience: If you don't feel sad about stopping talking to someone, it may be because you've already realized they are not the right person for you, or you've realized that they have other priorities and things they focus on more than you. When that's the case, don't waste your time… (edited) read more

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What do you look for in a spouse? Is it looks? Personality? Interests? Or something else? Let me know below.

Feeling "bothersome" to friends

I have a small handful of friends from work, but I always feel like a bother whenever I text them or ask to hang out. Most of them are grad students or employees just starting new jobs, so I expect that they sometimes will have a tight schedule. However, I often get ghosted and they always… read more

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Happy Women's Day! God is within her, she will not fail.

Happy International Women's Day 2026! Celebrate the strength, resilience, and brilliance of women everywhere with wishes that honor their impact on family, work, and society. We wish for empowerment, breaking barriers, and appreciating their, love, compassion, and dedication be the top most… (edited) read more

I often feel that many people don’t fully grasp how uncertain life and relationships can be.

It’s not just that people change over time it’s also that some people may already be quietly preparing to leave our lives, waiting for the right moment, while we fail to notice or choose to ignore the warning signs. Those beside you today are not guaranteed to stay tomorrow, no matter how certain… read more

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It's just a matter of priorities

Love at first sight

I really haven’t been on this world long enough for me to say it’s true. I do know I don’t fall in love overnight. No I fall in love with the moment we share together. I fall in love with the smile that came from long patience. I fall in love with your actions. Your goal and priorities. It wasn’t… read more

List of priorities in 2026: 1. Me

What If Every Part of You Isn’t Looking for the Same Thing?

A few minutes ago⏰, I photographed this rainbow lorikeet🦜 feeding in my garden. I was admiring the colours, the flowers 💐 , the sunlight and the remarkable contrast between them. The lorikeet seemed considerably more interested in breakfast. Same environment; different priorities. It made me… read more

I’ve spoken with many single men online, and I’ve noticed that everyone has different expectations about marriage and family life.

Some hope for a wife who prefers to stay at home, caring for the family while they focus on work. Others believe both partners should contribute financially and build their future together. There are also men who would be perfectly happy taking care of the home while their wives pursue their… read more

For me, love doesn’t silence the other variables.

It coexists with them. It has to compete with distance, with differences in priorities, with personal struggles, with the simple fact that two people can care deeply for each other and still not fit in the way they hoped. Loving someone doesn’t erase doubt. It doesn’t solve incompatibility. It… read more