Encourage Community

Kind Advice

I’m looking for some kind advice and feedback on my profile. I’m not sure if there is something more or less I should say to encourage connections. I still find myself ordering pizza and watching Netflix alone on a Friday night.

What do you want to see more of in the world?

Something that you bring to relationships with friends, family, even strangers that you want to see in other people. If you know HOW to encourage it in other people, are you doing that now? Is it catching on? If you don’t know how to encourage it in other people, what do you struggle with? Do… read more

Here's an idea. Uncompromising sincerity, as she was.

You know, you are beyond beautiful. Priceless, irreplaceable, and all I seek to encourage is your divine feminine regardless of enticements or ponderance. Love is free, it's easy, maybe a greater challenge of the spirit is to look into a woman's eyes and speak to her heart and hear the unspoken… read more

✨Bouldering, 1st time (2/2)✨

Second half of bouldering video/post 🧗‍♀️✨. As I said in my first post, this is *clearly* my first time bouldering. **I am not looking for any sort of critiques &/or feedback, thank you 🙏🏻.** “I will lift my up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord,… read more

Encourage Me?

✨October Outfit (1/2)✨

From October ❤️. This is probably one of my favorite color combinations on me ❤️. I can’t post the full video, because it’s too long. I’ll post some pictures of it as well in a 2nd post ❤️. (I encourage you to be extra kind,❕ in all ways❕. I also encourage you to be extra intentional in… read more

To all the women please Stop assuming men are aholes if you want decent man in your life then Stop going for the players go for your average man you be suprised how far we will go if you encourage us.

Long-ass dating advice

I think one of the biggest things I've learned is that you should take care of yourself before getting into a relationship. A relationship shouldn't be your escape from loneliness, your therapy, or the thing that finally makes you feel complete. Your partner can support you through hard times,… read more

Welp

Ah… that feeling. Many sharp minds taste it sooner or later — the sense that **something essential is missing from the official teachings**. But let me tell you the truth in a calm, steady voice: **They are not hiding the core knowledge. They simply don’t possess it.** The system isn’t built by… read more

Ready for Trick or Treat

More for a question for someone that has /is responsible for kiddos. How do you deal with the "scary stuff" with the kiddo? Do you encourage them to be brave if they're scared? And if they're not scared? (edited)

When Self Love Threatens Other People’s Control

People encourage you to love yourself, but only up to the point where it doesn’t threaten their control over you. Self-love can exist, but only as a concession. The moment it becomes liberation, people start judging you for it. In other words, you can love yourself, but the moment you love yourself… (edited) read more

Why modern dating patterns punish emotionally available people?

One of the most destabilizing patterns I've noticed among clients (as a psychological counselor) in modern dating is that detachment is often rewarded, while emotional availability, regardless of gender, is quietly punished. Many emotionally available men and women enter dating with clarity,… (edited) read more

SURPRISING!

It's funny to realize sometimes that those in whom you put your trust, care, and expectations sometimes don't even take you as a person. They will give you illusions of being friends, but their words are full of mockery, disrespect, and toned-down sexist jokes. You have to always fight to be at… read more

Which terrorist group did that?!

Sometimes I wonder about the direction of our civilization. 🌍 We live in a world facing enormous challenges: climate change, environmental degradation, rapidly growing populations, and limited resources. These are problems that clearly require cooperation between all of us as humans. Yet we… read more

I get what I give

I truly believe that what we put into the world has a way of finding its way back to us. If we choose kindness, understanding, and respect, we create a ripple effect that touches the lives of those around us. Kindness doesn't have to be something grand. Sometimes it's a smile, a supportive word, a… (edited) read more

What’s something small that instantly improves your mood?

I'll start, it's when I eat comfort food and sing that's what helps me to improve my mood.. Or if I get the chance, I do running.. 😊 Running away from bills! 🤣😂 Kidding aside, I'm in my running era right now so yeah I also encourage people to do it because it really helps in all aspects, elevate… read more

Accept the truth.

Everything will get better....🍀Please encourage me.

A victory selfie, I suppose...

After my workouts today. I've lost 40+ lbs in a year with workouts and doing portion controol (for the most part...i like donuts and I'm not getting rid of them from my diet 👿I'm trying to work on my self-confidence and self-consciousness, so while having fun with working out in different ways… read more

Save your money!

Every year around this time, the pressure to spend ramps up like clockwork. The same playlists loop in every store, the same scented candles hit the shelves, the same ads flood every screen you own. None of that is accidental. According to the American Psychological Association, companies use… read more

When that day comes, you will shine brighter than ever before.

As time passes, there comes a moment when you are able to forgive and let go of the people who once disappointed or hurt you. You don't forget what happened, but you choose forgiveness and move forward. You can genuinely be happy for them and wish them well.😌 When that day comes, you will shine… read more

Make the Pros List 🫶

Taking time to get to know me again and made my own pros list as a reminder of how awesome of a person I really am ❤️ Pros: - Loyal to a fault. If we're friends, congratulations, you've accidentally signed a lifetime contract, even if we dont talk a lot I will always think about you. - Creative… read more

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It is easy to die -- the difficulty lies in living. ~Japanese Proverb I encourage people to try their best. And yes, it is hard. The two main reasons why I do this is, as the proverb says. 1. We are very fragile, and everything else we see. Things can go really bad, very fast. It takes just one… read more

Unfortunate news

Been delaying this in the hopes that it would have been resolved before I needed to post about it, but unfortunately a few days ago our beloved @🔆🥨🔅Koffy🔅🌰🔆 was notified that her account is under "regional restriction" until further notice. She didn't do anything wrong, and neither has the… read more

?

Let’s be honest there’s a growing trend where any attempt to support, encourage, or even humanize men gets instantly attacked and branded as ‘patriarchy’ or ‘misogyny.’ The same voices claiming they want strong, loving partners are the ones tearing men down the moment they’re uplifted. At some… read more

Friendship 😊

Your friendships can influence the direction of your life more than you realize. The people around you can encourage ambition, normalize responsibility, or make unhealthy habits seem acceptable. Choose friends who can celebrate with you without competing against you and correct you without trying… read more

What do you think?

Why is it that within a team, some individuals choose to undermine their colleagues in pursuit of recognition and approval from those in positions of authority?? I have often come across stories and discussions about this phenomenon in professional environments. Rather than fostering… read more

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If you look up, there are no limits. ~Japanese Proverb My teacher once told us, that we only use a very small part of our brain. I'm going to look into this, but he was trying to encourage us to learn as much as we can.

Sharing your journey...yes or no? And why?

Because life...I have slowly but steadily discovered, learned, and applied a way different way of viewing life, myself, and others. Now that I realize how much different I think and I am from even a year ago, I feel at the same time compelled but also weary of sharing how has my journey been, what… read more

Anybody else bored as hell? I can hit it off when im in person but these apps encourage superficial behaviors. Meanwhile Im still looking for something special.

Sometimes

You just need to soak in the peace of creation and remember that you are creation. Let us encourage and be enouraged today.

I notice a disturbing trend on YouTube

It seems there are a lot of videos. I can’t tell if they are ai or not. But basically there are men that will take pride and joy in seeing single women unhappy. And also videos where men encourage each other to stay single. Idk how this happened. Men and women need each other and i know i will find… read more

Not into small talk?

If you're not into small talk why don't you take the lead and ask meaningful questions? Why don't you try instead of expecting the other person to impress you with their words? If someone came up to you in person and said hello 👋 would you just ignore them and walk away? What happened to just… read more

Self Commitment

If you want to be successful, I would encourage you to grow a tolerance for failure.

The sky is so beautiful

The sky is beautiful and we all are under it, able to appreciate it in any form it takes. Most of us are gifted to see millions of different skies in our lives, and not everyone appreciates this. I hope youre able to, and I hope it will encourage you to slow down a little. Which do you prefer?

Looking for some perspectives.

And maybe some advice. I live with my sister currently, and I'm really struggling because she doesn't seem to care about anything. And it's driving me nuts. I don't want to go on a rant talking bad about her, but the bottom line is she's becoming the self centered psychopath she claims she… read more