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The colour of understanding

One of the clearest signs of intellectual humility is the willingness to change your mind when new evidence genuinely warrants it. We are not here to defend our beliefs as though they are castles, but to refine them as though they are lenses. The wisest minds don’t fear changing colours - they know… read more

What isn’t yours to carry ❤️

“Life becomes much lighter when you understand that your job isn’t to control how others think, act or feel. Your job is to stay rooted in who you are, act with integrity, stay devoted to your evolution, and let go of everything that isn’t yours to carry.” ~ unknown author

Tell me 🙂

What is one thing that you used to do that you grew out of and learned is better in the long run for yourself? What things have you added to your life that make it better now?

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🕯🕯🕯 THIS EVENING 🌟🌟🌟

Hosted as an honorary member to play the role of the "Wise Old Man". And this evening we delve even deeper... 🙃

Well, I needed this

Oh well ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Dope

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Amazing how much I can blame myself for outcomes I didn't want and worked hard to mitigate.

But hey, I'm realising that I was taught to do that by the people who didn't want to take accountability for constantly sabotaging the things they told me I needed to do, in order to keep me feeling like a failure when actually my unhindered efforts would have completed the tasks a thousand times… read more

Win of the Day 🏆✨

Morning motivation! One thing you’re proud of from yesterday? Share your wins, big or small.

🙃 TOMORROW NIGHT...

... we are going to observe something beautiful, a ceremony written and perfected by the good Aleister Crowley (I was invited, could I say no?). Because, in the end... the only True Law is Love... that True... total... comprehensive... holistic... without any limits... Every Man and every Woman has… read more

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... insights on Values and Virtues. Starting the discussion with Nietzsche and his "Zarathustra" and ... ... everything it entails regarding free will, Christianity, etc... 🤫🤫🤫

Single people (everyone I guess) How is “dating yourself”?

So as a part of self care during this stretch of being single I’ve been “dating myself” i.e. Make a plan to show myself a good time, like going on a walk or someplace interesting or just staying home and treating myself to a good snack, dinner and a fun game/book/movie and just having fun being… read more

🕯💐 THIS EVENING...

... the last meeting before summer takes place. The Temple is ready. The libations are ready. The soundtrack is ready.

Feelings

It's such a mindfuck to realise that something you treated as a problem that you're meant to continuously squash using willpower your whole life is just a natural part of you. First I had that with neurodivergence and now... just the fact that I have more emotions than my mind was conditioned to… read more

"You can be responsible without having to be *so* responsible, you know."

A notion that came to me suddenly as I was pondering things. Definitely advice I could benefit from implementing. The healthier friendships I have now don't need or want me to always throw myself in the way of culpability in the ways I'm used to performing while I was living in an abusive… read more

#Goalfor2026

What is that goal that you need/want to really achieve this year? How life-changing is it?

Sometimes instead of saying "who's next?" you should say "thank you ex"

Once you truly realize what each of you deserves, separation isn't as painful as it might seem Nor is the distance The real challenge is staying, even when you know you have to leave The best way forward is to be grateful for the past

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Tonight I am also a guest in an IOOF Lodge. The role I am called to perform is that of the Guardian. An evening with deep and nourishing discussions. My speech will be based on ancient texts compared to modern times. The Human Being is always the same! And yet...

Would You Follow Your Own Path or Your Friends’ Wishes?

If you wanted to take a new and uncertain path in your life, but your friends really didn't want you to, would you go ahead against their wishes if you thought it was right for you?

“Walk through every storm. Some journeys are meant to test you, not break you.”

Sometimes you have to take some hits to find your weaknesses

ChatGPT

I’ve have full blown conversations with ChatGPT. ChatGPT determined I am a Renaissance Polymath and came up with a score card for me based on those conversations. I thought it was pretty cool, so I’m sharing it here.

Proud of myself

Not even a subtle flex. I'm chuffed. I've lost over 10kg in a few months and am well on my way to making fitness part of my life. I've still got a way to go to really make these good habits stick, and I've still got some bad ones to shake, but I'm getting there. Consistency really is key, and I… read more

Trying to make time for what I love 🙇🏼‍♀️

I used to go gym 6d/w now I barely can handle 3-4 🤧 My work takes 12 hours of my day, tho I’m still trying to manage to finish my degree and three lil after degrees at the same time 😵‍💫 So right now, even tho I’m stressed af 🤣 I’m trying to be kind to myself reminding me that it’s ok if I’m… (edited) read more

Actually tho

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Become better, attract better 🙌

#people #love #personalgrowth #spirituality (edited)

Things to say when someone gives you (difficult) constructive criticism!

It's hard. But it's sometimes good for you as long as it is said in truth, with respect and or with love! A. Thank you for your honest opinion, I will consider that. B. I hear you. C. I appreciate your honest opinion, I'll try harder. D. I see why you may feel that way, and I'll do better. E.… read more

What's your everyday motto?

For me: that each day I am a better version of myself.

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Woah 🥺

I felt that. #art #creativity #personalgrowth

Think what you will, but take a second to consider...

Accountability

Toxicity is part of human nature

Be you

How do you like to recharge every weekend?

On Saturdays, I spend time with my son, get some chores done, maybe play a video game or catch up with friends and family on a call. Then I might go through some books and documentaries. Sunday is my favorite day of the week though.✨ I meditate, reflect, and write about any important new insights… read more