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The Balance of Two Forces: Why Being "Only Kind" is Dangerous for the Soul

Two dimensions are hidden within each of us: the light and the dark. We are often taught to value only the light—gentleness, compliance, and altruism. Yet, for true harmony of the spirit, the shadow side is just as necessary. The Light grants us empathy, the capacity to love deeply, and the power... read more

...Who are we!? What are we doing!?

It is a profound and sobering truth: love, heartbreak, longing, and all the intense feelings that consume our days are ultimately temporary . In the end, we all must leave this world behind...., carrying nothing but the legacy of how we treated others. Here is an impactful idea to capture that... (edited) read more

Foundation changes everything!

Having a person to call a significant other/other half bears weight. Love isn't just nursed for the beginning of the relationship but flows throughout an individual's life. A human being develops from childhood to adulthood and then elderly age. As people we are not born knowing stuff — we learn,... read more

Over the horizon

The older I get I am starting to see the difference between what a man or woman has to do (obligations/requirements) to be qualified for a "partner" and who a man or woman is according to their wiring — including uniqueness tailored to their individuality. That differentiates fantasy from reality,... read more

Feeling selfish in love is .......

Feeling selfish in love is.... more natural than people admit. When we truly care about someone, we begin to value their presence, attention, and affection deeply. That emotional investment creates a quiet desire to “hold on” to them—to be important in their world, to be chosen, to not be... read more

Matrix

when you can see across the matrix, how can you still live the lie? when you see the selfishness woven into others' mind how do you remain kind ? When the horrors are no longer distant, how do you still taste joy? When you have looked the evil in the eye with cruelty not in stories, but in the very... read more