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True Partnership.

In a relationship, you can't just do whatever you want. You have to always think about the other person. And that's what a lot of people don't understand. Too many people want the benefits of partnership without the responsibility. They want someone to come home to but freedom to do whatever. They… read more

Relationships

Most relationships do not end suddenly. They often become weak slowly because of small choices that are repeated over time. Selfishness can make one person think only about their own needs. Neglect can make the other person feel unwanted or forgotten. A lack of consideration can create hurt… read more

Before looking for the one, be the one.

We keep wanting for love that never fails, never cheats, loyal, faithful, emotionally available, consistent, fights for you, patient, kind, never gives up.... And we keep wishing and asking where is it? Maybe it's not for me? Maybe love never exists? Maybe I'm not to love and be loved? Maybe others… read more

Communication

There are two ways of communicating, this is something I tell my son frequently, to express yourself the way YOU WANT to express yourself, OR to express yourself the way you want to be understood. The former takes only your own thoughts and feelings into consideration, it's about self-expression,… read more

Love from the Perspective of Selfishness

Perhaps our understanding of emotions has completely changed. The focus is always on my own feelings, even though love is defined by caring for the feelings of the person I love more than my own. Yet, with the abundance of needs, I often fail to notice how they feel. We all want to be loved and… read more

Matrix

when you can see across the matrix, how can you still live the lie? when you see the selfishness woven into others' mind how do you remain kind ? When the horrors are no longer distant, how do you still taste joy? When you have looked the evil in the eye with cruelty not in stories, but in the very… read more

The cultural shift: from selflessness to selfishness...

The me first attitude and the erosion of empathy. 🤔 I would like your opinions on this matter. Thank you. 😊

The Balance of Two Forces: Why Being "Only Kind" is Dangerous for the Soul

Two dimensions are hidden within each of us: the light and the dark. We are often taught to value only the light—gentleness, compliance, and altruism. Yet, for true harmony of the spirit, the shadow side is just as necessary. The Light grants us empathy, the capacity to love deeply, and the power… read more

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I wish more women understood that supporting another woman, cheering for her, praying for her, or sharing opportunities, doesn’t reduce their own blessings. It doesn’t take anything away from them. If anything, giving and uplifting others often brings even more in return. True empowerment among… read more

Most relationship do not die from natural causes. They're killed by selfishness, neglect, lack of consideration, lies and secrets.

Continuation

I figured why the "mass exodus" came to mind in the past. I went down the rabbit hole for a bit and surprisingly found a link to a painting that reminds me of the past impression and the message was there. It's called The Course of Empire Destruction by Thomas Cole. The rise and fall of… read more

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Can We Love Fully After Being Hurt?

"I wonder how much time passes while we stumble upon the wrong people, just to finally reach someone genuine—someone who carries a heart like ours. And if you actually reach them, how will you react? Will you give them all your love, or will the lingering pain and fear hold you back because of… read more

The older I get the more misanthropic I become

It’s not a conscious choice, and it’s not something I’m particularly proud of. It’s more of a slow, steady accumulation. A sedimentary layering of disappointments, observations, and a fading tolerance for the noise. When I was younger, I believed in the fundamental goodness of people. I believed… read more

“When Beauty Was Meant to Fade”

Time walks on without waiting, like a river that refuses to turn back. The saddest moment is not the passing— but the quiet realization that every beautiful thing slowly fades. A child grows, laughter grows softer, a fragile plant rises into a tall tree, and even the sweetest fruit must… read more

The future of relationship

If the internet by itself has already messed up human relationships big time, just imagine what's coming now with AI showing up. Stuff like 'I'd rather chat with AI than with real people' or 'I feel way better talking to AI' honestly freaks me out. That's just our selfishness showing: we're… read more

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I miss playing fun games that are free and don't use all of your data..

I wish House of The Dead, Doom, Metal Gear.. those days were back. Not the updated "keep people in homes and drain their money" versions. I want to open my phone and be able to play a game for 30 to 45 minutes, without wasting my life away on gaming or socials and just do it like it was meant to… read more

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People...

Ppl online who are praising the killer of Kirk disgust me. Idc what your personal beliefs are, but to cheer for cold blooded murder is wrong on so many levels. That one act of cruel and callous selfishness has ruined a family. It has robbed a human life that wasn't anyone's to take. Humanity is… read more

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Lil things

Nowadays we all using this term "in search of gold she/he lost diamond". We often search for friends,love,money, property we are losing ourselves. Humble request don't always put yourself behind. This is not selfishness this is selflove.

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the highest level of selfishness

He didn't realize he loved her, he realized he didn't want anyone else to have her

...Who are we!? What are we doing!?

It is a profound and sobering truth: love, heartbreak, longing, and all the intense feelings that consume our days are ultimately temporary . In the end, we all must leave this world behind...., carrying nothing but the legacy of how we treated others. Here is an impactful idea to capture that… (edited) read more

There's something I honestly have a hard time understanding with individuals who blame the Heavenly Father for the evil doings of others.

Blaming the Creator for the evil actions of free moral agents is like blaming car manufacturers for a drunk driver causing a fatal crash, or a reckless speeder running a red light. The manufacturer designs the vehicle with capability and freedom(it can go fast, turn sharply, carry passengers… read more

Modern dating

I put time and effort in, but people act like partners are only a tiny step above friends. No one fully opens up, no one fully commits, and nobody below their 30s seem to date with the future in mind. When one single conflict happens, it often ends quickly as it starts. Out of fifty or so couples… read more

Mars and Neptune

I've been quite outspoken for my desires lately, and that's new for me. Still getting the hang of it, going against life long people pleasing and prioritizing others above myself. I used to hate hurting anyone's feelings, but then i realized if it hurts others when I'm being true to myself,… (edited) read more

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A cheating man will protect the woman he’s cheating with before he protects his OWN woman

It’s shocking, but it’s the brutal reality. While he claims loyalty to you, his actions show his priorities clearly. He will go out of his way to shield her from consequences, lies, and exposure, yet expect you to remain blind, patient, and forgiving. This isn’t love—it’s selfishness disguised as… read more

📌 Share your opinion with us... Why do relationships fail? 🤔

Let's learn from each other because 90% of people here have the same problem. (edited)

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I enjoy watching videos about social experiments that focus on helping people with disabilities such as those who are blind, individuals who are afraid to use escalators, or people with Parkinson’s disease who struggle with simple actions like eating.

These situations can be difficult to fully understand because they are shaped by social realities and, sometimes, unfortunate experiences. For example, if a blind person suddenly approached me and grabbed my arm, my instinctive reaction would probably be to pull away. It’s not because I don’t… (edited) read more

Might I ask you: what is your victory?🌸My friend asked me and this is my opinion: I want to share and keep it to remember.🥰

Ah, I probably can't live like a philosopher. My ideals may not be grand, and my interpretation of life's values might be simple and ordinary. But certainly, it starts with simple things close to me, right here with myself. I don't need to wait for everything to be perfect, because if I do, I… (edited) read more

Luffy remindes me to enjoy

I started one piece before covid because it was soo long and still highly appreciated. i dropped the shoe 3-4 times but when water 7 i heard that scream from niko robin that time i realised it's not just a fun good anime it's a great story of freedom, happiness, acceptance, FRIENDSHIP and taught me… read more

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Foundation changes everything!

Having a person to call a significant other/other half bears weight. Love isn't just nursed for the beginning of the relationship but flows throughout an individual's life. A human being develops from childhood to adulthood and then elderly age. As people we are not born knowing stuff — we learn,… read more

Realistic

“Realistically” They tell me its unrealistic, People are selfish, They don't care. How unrealistic is a dream? How unrealistic is hope, Freedom, Love? You tell me its not possible, You tell me it's not realistic. “Be real” they say, “Be selfish.” is what they mean. I want freedom, I don't want… read more

📌 Share your opinion... Why do relationships fail? 🤔 Let's learn from each other because 90% of the people here are experiencing the same problem. 👇 Choose the strongest reason from your point of view.

Let's benefit from each other because 90% of us here have the same reason. (edited)

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A Awful Life Changing Depression That's Has effected me tremendously and has affected my perspective on normal life possibly for many years to come

My Story: Surviving a Covert Narcissistic Relationship I was with a covert narcissist for 10 years — a decade of my life that I’ll never forget, and one that has left lasting scars I’m still trying to heal from. When the relationship started, I wasn’t ready to settle down. I was pressured and… read more

I also think that stuff that seems so logical to me always falls short just hitting the wall of selfishness and entitlement of people.

I mostly agree with what Aurora talks about here.

Feeling selfish in love is .......

Feeling selfish in love is.... more natural than people admit. When we truly care about someone, we begin to value their presence, attention, and affection deeply. That emotional investment creates a quiet desire to “hold on” to them—to be important in their world, to be chosen, to not be… read more

Why do people often mistake self-love for selfishness? Is it just coincidence, or is it a lack of understanding?

Over the horizon

The older I get I am starting to see the difference between what a man or woman has to do (obligations/requirements) to be qualified for a "partner" and who a man or woman is according to their wiring — including uniqueness tailored to their individuality. That differentiates fantasy from reality,… read more

Random.

In a world where greed, ignorance, foolishness, rudeness, cynicism, selfishness, pride, corruption, and agendas are rewarded and glorified the light of hope, goodness, justice, love, honesty, and kindness is a flickering flame. We all live in that world on either direction of the spectrum, and we… read more