Attention Community

Hear me out 🍺

I’ve been trying to post something on here all afternoon, and I keep typing out a post, adding pictures, feeling awkward and deleting the whole thing. Now I’ve had a beer, I’m content enough to air my frustration on anyone who’ll listen. Surely I’m not the only one? Attached my COD win for… read more

As a young man who wants to marry young, I think that dating for younger men is a struggle

Dating for younger men is always a struggle, some women keep telling men to date their own age but that's not how it's working, younger women want older men, older women want men in their age, older men want younger women, I don't know why but I think that they think that a man's financial… read more

Love

"When it comes to choosing a partner, don’t be blinded by charm, good looks, or sweet words, pay attention to their heart. Choose someone whose kindness isn’t a show for others, but a reflection of who they truly are, someone whose love extends not only to you but to the people you care about. Find… read more

🖤 THE OFFERING — BEAUTY THAT WHISPERS BEFORE IT DEVOURS. 🔥

“And you are a garden, entwined with all…” There is something hauntingly beautiful about the way The Offering draws you in. A voice that feels almost like a confession, an atmosphere thick with devotion, and then Vessel's “TAKE A BITE!” — before the music erupts into something absolutely… read more

Is being a lover boy too much to ask?

Are there men who genuinely love spoiling their girls? The kind who don't mind spending money on their woman, are loyal, kind, generous with their time and affection, and love being showered with attention too. Someone who enjoys having a clingy, affectionate, slightly possessive girlfriend who… read more

I only want to speak to people who are nice.

Not attention seekers or desperate folk.. I could tell my version of a certain story on the #dating tag but I won't. Could have jus played a game but it makes sense why people are alone. In the meantime, for those who did wonder, I started rewatching Heroes. It's so sad knowing about… read more

If i gave u attention , feel special. Ignoring people is my favorite hobby.

🖤🎸 ONE OK ROCK — some bands you listen to. Others, you NEED to experience live. 🔥✨

You know that feeling when a song doesn't just reach your ears, but somehow finds its way straight into your heart? 🥹🖤 That's what ONE OK ROCK do to me. And Renegades is such a beautiful example of why I'm so drawn to their music. ✨ That opening atmosphere… the tension slowly building beneath… read more

Mature

Attracting someone’s attention is a choice, but being mindful of their feelings and respecting the time they have invested is a matter of responsibility. If you change your mind, at least have the maturity to explain why, rather than simply disappearing without a word.

Loading… Muscle Definition 🔋

On a serious note… May to October. Six months of consistent baby steps. 💪🏻 From focusing on building muscle to slowly refining and defining what I’ve built. Still learning, still adjusting, and enjoying the process along the way. And just because I enjoy taking mirror selfies and sharing gym… (edited) read more

Attraction gets your attention. Character keeps mine. ✨

Being attracted to me is easy. Getting to know me is where genuine interest shows. 😉 Ask me questions, be consistent, and show me you’re interested in the woman behind the looks. I’m not into unexpected sexual conversations or crossed boundaries. I prefer genuine connections, mutual effort, and… (edited) read more

There will always be someone healthier, richer, prettier, bigger or stronger than you. There will also always be someone poorer, uglier, smaller and weaker than you. Where you bring your attention defines your life." — Dr. Daniel Amen

if u like sci-fi WATCH THIS show

and pay attention

Don’t just catch my attention. Give me a reason to keep it. 😉

At this point, sweet words are becoming boring. Tell me something I haven’t heard, or better yet, show me something I haven’t experienced. Consistency is sexy. Emotional maturity is attractive. Knowing your intentions? Even better. 😉

I love my assistant

Whenever I do something that needs more focus and attention, she's there

Plot twist: I'm back. 👀

Well, hello again, Boo! After a little over a year away, I've decided to make a comeback. And what better day than the last day of October? A lot has happened, a few chapters have closed, some lessons have been learnt, and I'm still figuring out this beautifully chaotic thing called life. Here… read more

“Open to connections, selective with intentions. 😉✨”

I’m friendly, approachable, and open to genuine connections. But don’t confuse my openness with desperation. I pay attention to actions, not just words. If you say you want something serious, let your intentions show. If not, no hard feelings. I’m perfectly fine waiting for something real. ✨

I'm extremely tired of my these two colleagues with whom I have to sit with 😔

Maybe I'm just being overly sensitive, but lately I’ve been really tired of their behavior. It stings. Whenever they need a favor, they come running to me. If they're taking time off, they ask me to submit their leave request to the relevant authority. If they need tech support or want to know… (edited) read more

How to Actually Get My Attention

Quick PSA 😂 If you’re going to message me, please have a fully filled-out profile, actual goals, and preferably enough shared interests that I can tell we’d genuinely have something to talk about. Bonus points if we have like 30 interests in common because apparently I’m picky now. 😂 The generic… read more

Tired of seeing people post selfies for attention? I got you fam

Your regularly scheduled break from selfies. Enjoy some mountains instead. 🤙🏔️

🖤 WHO SAID METALCORE CAN'T DANCE? BAD OMENS JUST CALLED YOUR BLUFF. 🔥💃

What do you want from me? — Bad Omens There are songs you listen to. There are songs you feel. And then there are songs that make it physically impossible to remain still. For me, Bad Omens have become something much bigger than a band in my daily playlist. They're part of my everyday life, my… read more

People who really care for you make time for you and that's I really need to pay attention

Oct 27th

Today the spirit of our 4 🐾 return to visit us. Dex has been looking at the walls for 3 days and tonight he didn't touch the extra bowl, he behaved like he was walking alongside another cat and he payed no attention to his sisters that have been super quiet all day. The candle is lit, the pictures… read more

THE ARCHITECTURE OF THE BOX — PART IV The Attention Trap

There is an uncomfortable paradox in modern technology. The same device that can give you access to almost the entire accumulated knowledge of humanity can also consume the attention you need to use that knowledge. The problem is not the phone. It is not social media. It is not technology… read more

Bird killer

This little murderer was whining all evening until I came to bed, I don't have kids however if I did he would be the annoying one who just whines for no reason constantly talking constantly needing attention.

Pay Attention

I believe when someone is okay with having a short term relationship or casual that its important to at least pay closer attention to who you are wanting to chat with. If the person you're wanting to connect with has different views on relationships or seeking, just move on. You'll create a poor… read more

AFFIRMATION

I AM SOMEONE’S FAVORITE PERSON. I am loved clearly, sought after sincerely, and prioritized through real actions. My partner loves spending time with me, is generous in giving, loyal in our relationship, and always takes the initiative to make me happy. I enjoy a relationship filled with affection,… read more

When love finds me ♥️

If love finds me someday, I hope i won't beg for attention or question my place in someone life. (edited)

Don’t just catch my attention. Give me a reason to keep it. 😉

At this point, sweet words are becoming boring. Tell me something I haven’t heard, or better yet, show me something I haven’t experienced. Consistency is sexy. Emotional maturity is attractive. Knowing your intentions? Even better. 😉

2 am thoughts

LOVE is composed by consistency, effort, sincerity, forgiveness, reassurance, loyalty, acceptance, commitment & respect. If you think maintaining a relationship is a tiring burden, it's because you don't want nor deserve one, you merely want attention and affection, without giving anything in… read more

Psychology of Love 🍃

A woman doesn't love you because of your status as a man but because of the feelings you make her experience. She falls in love with the peace you bring, the way you protect her, your attention, the way you lead, provide for her and treat her like someone truly important. For some women, simply… read more

Be honest, did I catch your attention?

😉

One last goodbye

"First of all... I want to apologize to everyone who follows me here and to everyone who saw my statements. In fact, I lost a friend after 15 years... a four-legged friend, a Belgian Malinois. I had four of them and they are all gone now; he was the last one... a reminder of better days. Now I can… read more

Do people genuinely want meaningful connections, or do they just enjoy feeling wanted? Attention is easy to collect. Genuine interest takes effort. How do you tell the difference between someone interested in you and someone who simply enjoys your attention?

Cool pen 🖊️

The kinda thing that caught my attention! Hehe.

Just got home

Sat down and someone wants attention