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If you expect nothing from somebody, you are never disappointed..

I’m curious about how people get into relationships so easily. Lately, I’ve realized that I might be the problem. I can’t seem to get a boyfriend, even though I don’t think my standards are that high, and I don’t think I’m bad-looking either.

The biggest issue is that I’m not very good at communicating. I enjoy my alone time and don’t like talking or texting all the time. How can I handle that?

I’ve been feeling lonely lately, and I think I’m finally ready to have a boyfriend. But I’m worried that my communication style might make it difficult to build a relationship.

How Do People Get Into Relationships So Easily?

F*ZKN BORRRRRRING!!!

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Where is my mosquito 😂😂😂

the british accent isn't a choice anymore 😭🇬🇧

Hello

Hi there ❤️

My favourite place is home ❤️

Agree or Disagree? 🤷🏻‍♂️

How do you feel about your girlfriend/boyfriend smoking? Is it a red flag for you? I’m just curious about how big a role smoking plays in today’s world 👐

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does anyone have any good advice to move on from an ex partner.

for reference. i have no other friends. we did everything together. we spoke everyday and met up several times a week. im left alone and all i want to do is lay in bed all day. i feel sick and can barely eat or do anything. he abandoned me just under a month ago. he was the reason for everything. he gave me purpose and life a meaning. we wore wedding bands because he promised he’d marry me when i got better. but my eupd took advantage and ultimately was the cause of him leaving me. i was trying to get better and get the help i needed by visiting the gp and applying myself for talking therapies.

In love with that view ❤️

Can I find the right relationship here?

A man will never love the same after his heart is broken… not because he lost the ability to love, but because he lost the version of himself that loved without fear. 
Before the pain, he gave his time freely, trusted deeply, and believed in forever without hesitation. But heartbreak teaches lessons no one asks for—it shows him how real emotions can be taken for granted, how loyalty can be overlooked, and how love can be one-sided.
After that, he moves differently. He thinks more. He guards his heart. He doesn’t open up as fast, not because he’s cold, but because he understands the weight of what he’s giving. Now, if he loves you, it’s intentional. It’s careful. It’s real—but it’s never as innocent as it once was.

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why does it feel like everyone here is just looking to have fun? it seems like no one wants anything serious? hmmm i really hope i’m wrong about that😌

just wondering

pov: you ended a relationship and your friend is trying to convince you to move to Spain HAHAH

it sounds very much like a story of a book

pov: you ended a relationship

I often wonder how people cope after someone who has been a significant part of their life for so long is suddenly no longer in it. Regardless of the kind of relationship they shared, how do they come to terms with never talking to or seeing that person again?

Good morning ❤️

For real 🥲

Don’t lie to yourself about preferring to be single. Of course there are exceptions, but we are all mostly trying to seek meaningful connections and human beings are gregarious by nature. It’s just exhausting when we keep trying and conversations with potential friends or mates seem to get nowhere, right? 😮‍💨 

Remember this cliché saying! First impressions DO matter! And don’t forget that the initial “interview” with someone goes both ways. 😉 

If a conversation with someone seems to be stalled, remember that you can always “string” the conversation by applying your 5 W’s to different statements. For example:

Her: “Oh, last year I went on a skiing trip in Europe!”

You: Really, amazing! Did you go with family? (Who). Where did you go? Europe has great places to go skiing (Where). 

Don’t forget that people have time zone differences, work schedules, and hobbies/goals to fulfill outside of the app. Others have different communication preferences and communication styles. Not all stalled conversations are “lack of interest” or “rejection”. And yet other times you just need to be patient and engage enough to find that point that just “clicks”. 

What’s most important is for you to continue to present yourself in the best light, be respectful and honest. Nobody has time for these games where “if you don’t ask me, well then, I just won’t ask you!”.  At the end of the day, follow your heart and you will have done your best and nobody can discredit you for that. 

Bye 😘

Don’t lie to yourself

Do you think it's possible for a man to have a platonic friends-only relationship with a woman? Why or why not?

Question for the guys

Best place is home ❤️

What's a non-negotiable for you in a relationship? Something that will make you automatically shut the relationship down, even if you find the person physically attractive or they check all your other boxes.

Non-negotiable

Loyalty is so rare these days.

Life is great when you stay away from negative, jealous and unhappy people..

Cut them off silently..

What do Australians and Americans think about Brazilian women and dating one?

They shared that their children are grown now, life has settled into a routine, and traveling together is one of the ways they keep things from feeling too repetitive.

I joked, “Then maybe you should travel every day.” We all laughed, and then they asked me framed with genuine curiosity as a younger person, whether long term relationships inevitably become boring over time.

I smiled and said, “That’s a big question.” His wife added that they were both researchers by profession and enjoyed hearing different perspectives, which set a thoughtful tone for the exchange.

I explained that novelty can absolutely make things feel more alive in the short term, largely because it engages the brain’s reward system and creates a sense of stimulation. However, psychology suggests that novelty alone doesn’t resolve deeper relational issues. When boredom becomes persistent, it is often less about routine itself and more about emotional distance, unresolved tension, unmet needs, or two people gradually evolving in different directions without fully noticing it.

From that perspective, the more important question isn’t simply, “What new experience can we try together?” but rather, “What is causing us to feel less connected in the first place?”

At the same time, when emotional and physical attraction have both been absent for a prolonged period, and neither person feels a genuine desire to reconnect, boredom is rarely the core issue. It tends instead to signal that the relationship has significantly weakened or, in some cases, already ended in emotional terms. In such situations, change depends less on adding novelty and more on whether both individuals still feel enough connection, commitment, and willingness to rebuild what has been lost.

I’m only speaking from observation and reflection, not experience I’m still single and haven’t yet found love, so I probably can’t say much beyond that.😅😅

I just happened to meet a foreign couple at a tourist spot and we started talking. The conversation naturally turned toward their relationship.

One  guy approved by brain but not by heart...

Another guy approved by heart but not by brain ....

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What do I do now?

Not everyone who wants a relationship is ready to give up the comfort of solitude.

I was just honest and was curious about that guy attitude and mindset and he just blocked me because I didn’t want to sexting with him. Oh my gosh, is it a real world I am living in? Prove me wrong

About honestly

What is the best dating idea ? ☺️

What if the guy who comes later in 1 day doesn't reply to my message. Should I leave him?

Want to ask

I've lost a potential perfect partner, and it's why I'm even on Boo now, trying to find new friends, maybe even a potential partner just to get over this heartbreak, but so far, I've not been cutting it. How did y'all get over heartbreaks?

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If you expect nothing from somebody, you are never disappointed..

How Do People Get Into Relationships So Easily?

F*ZKN BORRRRRRING!!!

❤️

Where is my mosquito 😂😂😂

the british accent isn't a choice anymore 😭🇬🇧

I just learned women's secret on this app😂 If a woman comments on a guy's post and another woman likes her comment out of nowhere it means the second woman likes that guy romantically or there's something going on between them so she's just making sure to mark her territory by liking comment 😂

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