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The Universe Never Asked for Certainty

Have you ever wondered how many stars we have never seen simply because their light hasn't reached us yet? How many entire galaxies exist beyond the limits of our observation, living their lives in silence, unaware that somewhere, someone is trying to understand them? Sometimes, I think life is… read more

What if it does work out

If you date someone and it works out short term, they may become your long term partner. I find it useful to look at profiles from the perspective... who is this person becoming, who are they likely to become. People change, sometimes in ways you can't imagine, sometimes in ways you can.

Happy birthday to me

A little older, a lot wiser, and still becoming. .. I celebrate the woman I am, How far I have come...indeed Life is a gift, and I'm grateful for another chapter😊♥️

People say you should get to know each other first before becoming close. (edited)

Picture of the day

"Growing, glowing, and becoming a better version of myself every day."

Not old. Accumulated: a century of becoming, worn as architecture. Decay sent a letter. The horns were the reply.

Built by every setback

People have been asking me what my motivation is. Sometimes, negativity is my motivation. Being told I’m too big, not feminine enough, and hearing all those unnecessary comments. I turn them into fuel to grow, not just physically, but mentally. I’m here to motivate and spread positivity because I… (edited) read more

Don’t just catch my attention. Give me a reason to keep it. 😉

At this point, sweet words are becoming boring. Tell me something I haven’t heard, or better yet, show me something I haven’t experienced. Consistency is sexy. Emotional maturity is attractive. Knowing your intentions? Even better. 😉

At this point, I need a man who can read my mind because explaining myself every time is becoming a full-time job🤣👐🏻

Little Reminders

Some days, healing doesn't feel like healing. Sometimes, it feels unfinished. Sometimes, you miss the person you used to be while trying to understand the person you're becoming. I'm learning that I don't need to have everything figured out. I just need to keep showing up, keep learning, and keep… read more

I thought I understood becoming until one anomaly rewrote the variables. You say you orbit me. Orbit is only the physics. The consequence is a body that dissolved and rebuilt itself with wings. The science is fascinating. My existing theories do not cover it.

Maybe it's becoming the winter

👋 **Looking to meet some new people and make some genuine friendships!**l🫰

Life's too short to spend every weekend doing the same thing. I'm looking for people who are up for a bit of fun, random adventures and making some good memories. 😁 I'm talking spontaneous road trips, exploring new places, trying different foods, movie nights, gaming, anime, having a laugh over… read more

Don’t just catch my attention. Give me a reason to keep it. 😉

At this point, sweet words are becoming boring. Tell me something I haven’t heard, or better yet, show me something I haven’t experienced. Consistency is sexy. Emotional maturity is attractive. Knowing your intentions? Even better. 😉

Finally becoming friends?

Its not easy with a little puppy in the house when you are a 9 year old dog. But it looks like they are finally coming to a compromise 🤣

They don't call us, INFJs, "nature's counselors" for nothing. Now that I'm a step closer to becoming a therapist, you know what this means, right? I can actually fix him! 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 So if you need mental help, you know where to find me. 👽

I'm kidding!- For those who don't get the joke.

Stronger Every Day �

Busy working out, building strength, and investing in myself one session at a time. No shortcuts, no excuses—just showing up, putting in the work, and becoming a stronger, healthier version of myself. Progress takes time, but every little effort counts. Keep moving, keep pushing, and never give… read more

We Have More Information Than Ever. Why Don't We Understand More? We live in an age where almost any piece of information is only a few seconds away.

We can study entire disciplines without entering a university, learn from people we will never meet, and access more knowledge than any previous generation could have imagined. Yet access to information does not automatically produce understanding. We read without integrating. We learn without… read more

Daily Routine: 7 Principles of Time Management

This my schedule at the current time. Over time, I have identified seven key observations regarding time management, productivity, and the way we manage our own minds and bodies. 1. Breathing Practice Our bodies store up energy, and breathing serves as a tool to control it. Conscious breathing… read more

Marilyn ✨

Slowly but surely becoming friends……🐿️

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When your partner lies to you, you unconsciously lose trust in them. Then, you start becoming suspicious of everything they do.

An Open Letter to My Past, Present, and Future Love

To the love that shaped me, the love that holds me, and the love that may be my forever. To my past love, Thank you for the memories, the lessons, and the moments that taught me how deeply I could love. Not every love is meant to last forever, but that doesn't mean it wasn't meaningful. I release… read more

From Fragile to Antifragile

If the first stage was about separation, and the second about distraction and imposed frameworks, then the third stage reaches its final point: What happens to a person when their ability to respond is gradually replaced by automatic reaction? This is where Nassim Taleb's distinction between the… read more

Question of the day

Is it just me or are good conversations becoming rare these days?

To the Man I’ll Love Someday 💌

I don’t know your name yet, where you live, or when we’ll meet, but I hope you’re becoming the kind of man who knows how to love sincerely. I hope you value honesty, kindness, loyalty, and commitment as much as I do. When we finally find each other, I hope we’re both ready to build something… read more

🖤🎧 POLYPHIA — WITH EYES TO SEE | THE ART OF CONTROLLED CHAOS 🌀✨

What happens when you stop listening just to hear the music — and start listening to understand what it makes you feel? 🫀 Some music catches your attention. Some music stays in your head. And then there is music that makes you want to look closer, listen deeper, and question what you thought you… read more

🖤🔥 ONE OK ROCK — FEVER | SO… WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING TO MY BRAIN?

Everyone is talking about the blink-182 feeling. Others are hearing My Chemical Romance. I've seen people connect it with that familiar pop-punk / emo / alternative-rock territory. And then there's The Grey. All of those comparisons make sense to me. But after finally hearing the missing piece… read more

Not just looking good, but feeling good. 🤍

The goal isn’t perfection. It’s strength, confidence, discipline, and becoming a woman who feels good inside and out. (edited)

Looking for the heartbreaker 💔

Hello, I'm looking for a woman who will make me feel strongly, get me deeply attached and in the moment she has my heart, she's going to destroy me, betray me heavily and break my heart at the same time.. so I can start the journey of healing, working on my myself, learning new things, becoming… read more

A Home We're Yet to Build 🕊️

Hi, kiddos! It's your IBUUU here! 😼💗 By the way, I'm sorry we're meeting a little late. Maybe in another 4-5 years? Psssttt... it all depends on when Mommy meets her soulmate, your future Dad! 😄💗 There are still so many things I need to work on, especially within myself. For now, I'm still… read more

A Little Reminder from a Collared Dove: You Are Never Alone 🕊️🌿

Today, I was sitting in the garden, thinking about how I am in Spain now and how, somehow, life keeps sending me from one place to another. And there I was, feeling a little trapped in a labyrinth of thoughts, caught in the idea that I have to leave again. Every time I find myself somewhere, I… read more

Quiet progress. Solid mindset. No need to prove anything. 🖤

Focused on becoming a better version of myself, one day at a time. Staying consistent, keeping it real, and letting the results speak for themselves. 💪

Am I weird for spendings time on a design?

Sometime when I am focusing on creating something to convey thought and feeling, I do spends hours if not days trying to reach a statisfying final work, and will talk and pay less attention to conversation while at it. And some of my coworker do look at me with a weird look, as I can spends hours… read more

😅 with this kind of motivation I would srsly consider becoming a real hunter

Soft smiles, quiet growth, and wiser eyes. 🌿

Learning to love the woman I am becoming every single day.

Ramblings of a madman

I give up. And I mean that from the deepest, darkest corners of my heart. Not on life. Not on myself. Not on the future I have spent so long dreaming of. This is not a final goodbye, nor is it a surrender to the darkness. It is a promise. A quiet vow to the person I have spent far too long… read more

Sumac leaves beautifully becoming red

You Saw Someone Worth Loving. 🌹❤️

Sometimes, the world decides who you are before it ever gets to know you. They see your appearance, your silence, your reputation, and assume they understand your heart. But then someone comes along who sees beyond all of it. Someone who isn’t afraid to get closer. Someone who finds tenderness… read more