Constant Community

Negativity Bias

Melancholy crawling up out of my melon Haunt me Logistics of lung mechanics seem daunting Mind gone on aimless wander Constant inner monologue Chatter boxing Swing a swig to stop the talking First thought best thought Beat poet black and blue in a headlock Fed thoughts blossom... read more

Return To Sender

Break the seal of my tomb Open sesame Shoe pounds street Trying to make my dead ends meet No turn left Light red Feeling lifeless at the dead end Plop beneath the stop sign Signal sent from head Pleading for rest Loose change Feeling spent Heart pounds chest until breath is... read more

#longtermrelationship

Most people think attraction starts with beauty. It doesn't. It starts when someone makes you feel something your soul had forgotten it was ever searching for. Carl Jung believed that every man carries in his unconscious an image of the feminine within; not a woman, but a psychological force.... (edited) read more

#believeinlove

Love - the spark: The emotional affection and care that draws you to someone. It is the warmth that makes you want to share your life with another person Trust - the foundation: The quiet assurance that your partner will be there for you, keep their promises, and protect your heart. It gives... read more

Title: The Paradox of Modern Dating We have endless options, unlimited access, and constant connection. So why do people feel more disconnected than ever? Is abundance helping love… or making commitment harder?

The disconnect between Anxious and Avoidant

I occasionally see shade thrown at people who have avoidant tendencies, usually by those who have anxious attachment tendencies. So allow me to put some words to it in hopes of promoting more understanding. Avoidant attachment doesn’t mean someone is bad at relationships or doesn’t want them, it... read more