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Epic love

A whisper in my soul, a deep desire, For hearts entwined, a love that sets afire. Not fleeting sparks, but flames that brightly gleam, A timeless tale, a waking, vibrant dream. To find a hand that fits my own just right, A constant star within the darkest night. To share the dawn, the laughter,... read more

Too Late for First Love

There are certain things people assume will happen on their own. That one day someone will take your hand. That your first kiss will come naturally. That sooner or later you will know what it feels like to be desired. That love will arrive with the same inevitability as your first gray hairs or... read more

I don't see the initiatives anymore

Losing interest in texting? Fine. People change, priorities shift, and conversations fade. But if you decide to leave, be honest about it. Silence speaks too, but clarity shows respect. Not everyone expects constant attention—sometimes all they ask for is sincerity. If the connection matters,... read more

Slow mornings...

To everyone who's always in their "survival mode", life isn't meant to be a constant race from one responsibility to the next. Sometimes healing happens in the pauses. 🥹🌷 Woke up to this view this morning. Isn't it pretty?

The disconnect between Anxious and Avoidant

I occasionally see shade thrown at people who have avoidant tendencies, usually by those who have anxious attachment tendencies. So allow me to put some words to it in hopes of promoting more understanding. Avoidant attachment doesn’t mean someone is bad at relationships or doesn’t want them, it... read more

Falling asleep near someone

It’s the horror movie survivor here again. I have had a very difficult time sleeping for most of my life. You’re totally vulnerable when you’re asleep. Your brain is doing maintenance, your body is chemically paralyzed to prevent injury, you’re not even aware of your own mind for most of that... read more