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*Gently takes your face between my hands* Hey, if you've been getting the recurring thought "I should get a drink, I feel parched" this is your sign to do it right now. Like, immediately. Grab your drink and sip if it's nearby, get up to fetch a tasty beverage otherwise. Eyes swiveled, fingers… read more
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one day you're going to wake up and not want to end it all. you’re going to have that peace you asked for. you’ll have that healing you prayed for. i know you’ve been let down, disappointed, and broken in ways you thought you wouldn't recover from. but you are here. you have survived most things… read more
(this post includes friendships, sexual relationships, and queer platonic relationships!)
there is nothing wrong with having a long distance relationship, especially if you haven't met in person. what matters most in a relationship is that you improve each others lives and can grow and change together. you fulfill each other - and you can do that without being together in person. if… read more
Update me, disturb me, tell me about your day. I love all that.
Something that was crucial to me being able to foster healthy relationships (platonic and romantic) was learning those around me aren’t mind readers. Communicating honestly and effectively can allow people to be there for you. It can also allow you to work out conflicts in order to maintain long… read more
You're still growing, keep going
Please stop telling yourself you are complaining and whining when you are only expressing how you feel on a physical, mental and emotional level.
You're cool enough
You don't need everyone to like you. I understand this can be an overwhelming trauma response to being neglected and otherwise hurt as a kid without the comfort and reassurance of our parents. But please try to remember that your worth is not dependent on how many people can love you. You have… read more
Be safe, be well, be you
you can cry. you can yell. you can feel unwell. there's no need to sell an ideal image of yourself. you are human, and you are fluid in motion and emotion, and that's okay. most days, it's hard for me to believe this for myself. why is it so hard to treat myself with even a fraction of the amount… read more
Aunty loves you🖤
Today’s advice from your Goth Auntie Stop slouching, drink some water, take your meds. Everything is not your responsibility. The Cursed Object and the Lurking Horror are sharing crayons and not squabbling. A miracle.
It's in my bones 🕷
I honestly feel like I was made to be a housewife. I want to wear cute aprons and bake cookies for someone I love. I want someone to dress up and do my makeup for. I want someone I can genuinely rely on to always be there for me. I want someone I can trust who loves me and knows I love them too. I… read more
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You don't have to force yourself to bounce back so quickly. I read something recently that said "when you come in from a rainstorm, you don't expect yourself to be dry and warm right away", and it really resonated with me. It's okay to take time to dry off and warm up. Take the time you need to… read more
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I live my life in a constant state of grief of what I did, what I didn’t do, and what I can never do.
Goth Auntie
Remember how you overcame your past challenges + achieved things. We tend to mistrust ourselves, due to not believing in our capabilities. So, make a list of everything you went through (and overcame) and accomplishments and then use that list to reflect on it when these feelings of doubt arise. It… read more
We all grow
Its okay if you're not who you thought you would be, take all the time to grieve the person you tried so hard to become when you wanted to better yourself and learn from your past mistakes. But its also okay to just love the person you are now and learn to get to know that person better. There is… read more
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