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Afraidofcommitment

afraidofcommitment

That's why I pick online dating.
Finding someone to comfort and love and meet in a real life.
But now I think it's not possible for me maybe I need to try to ask someone in real life.
I afraid to ask or approach a woman in real life because in my country situation are wierd about dating .
Dating is not easy.
People mostly do dating in institute or college.
But my bad i don't have  any woman in institute or college so I won't find either 😂.
So apart of hard to find.
I afraid what she will say, what if she yell and people gathered around me like you harassing her
Like that many things came in mind so I change to stop and walk away from her.

I afraid to tell woman public that I like her wanna talk or exchange number like that I cant say.
I don't have friends who help me to to a woman that I like her.
So if I like someone so I hide it I won't say, because I afraid what reaction could be she make .
I don't wish to embarassrd to be honest.

Yiyo le nto ndikhetha ukuncokola kwi-intanethi.
Ukufumana omnye ukuze andincede kwaye andithande, ndihlangane naye ebomini bokwenyani.
Kodwa ngoku ndicinga ukuba akukhange kube lula kum, mhlawumbi kufuneka ndizame ukubuza omnye ebomini bokwenyani.
Ndiyoyika ukubuza okanye ukufikelela kumfazi ebomini bokwenyani, kuba kumazwe am, imeko ibonakala ingalunganga malunga nothando.
Uthando alulula.
Abantu baphosa uthando kwi-institutions okanye kwiikholeji.
Kodwa andinabo abafazi kwi-institutions okanye kwiikholeji, ngoko andizukufumana na 😂.
Ngoko ke, ngaphandle kokuba kube nzima ukufumana.
Ndiyoyika ukuba uyakuthi, yintoni ukuba uyakukhala, kwaye abantu baqokelela kum njengoko uthanda ukumxhalabisa.
Kukhona izinto ezininzi ezandikhumbuza, ngoko ndiyaguqula ndiyeke kwaye ndihambe kude naye.

Ndiyoyika ukuvuma kumfazi ophakathi kokuba ndiyamthanda, ndifuna ukuthetha okanye ukutshintshiselana ngenombolo, andinakukwazi ukuveza.
Andinabo abangane abandisiza ukuba ndifike kumfazi endimthandayo.
Ngoko ke, ukuba ndiyamthanda omnye, ndiyifihla, andizukuyivuma, kuba ndiyoyika ukuba yintoni impendulo anokuyenza.
Andifuni ukuba ndibe yinto yokudlwengula, ukuba ndiyinyani.

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