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Afraidofcommitment

afraidofcommitment

That's why I pick online dating.
Finding someone to comfort and love and meet in a real life.
But now I think it's not possible for me maybe I need to try to ask someone in real life.
I afraid to ask or approach a woman in real life because in my country situation are wierd about dating .
Dating is not easy.
People mostly do dating in institute or college.
But my bad i don't have  any woman in institute or college so I won't find either 😂.
So apart of hard to find.
I afraid what she will say, what if she yell and people gathered around me like you harassing her
Like that many things came in mind so I change to stop and walk away from her.

I afraid to tell woman public that I like her wanna talk or exchange number like that I cant say.
I don't have friends who help me to to a woman that I like her.
So if I like someone so I hide it I won't say, because I afraid what reaction could be she make .
I don't wish to embarassrd to be honest.

Ngakho-ke ngikhetha ukuhamba ngezokuxhumana ku-inthanethi.
Ukuthola othile ukuze angithokozise futhi angithande futhi ngihlangane naye empilweni yangempela.
Kodwa manje ngicabanga ukuthi akukhona okungenzeka kimi, mhlawumbe kufanele ngizame ukubuza othile empilweni yangempela.
Ngiyesaba ukubuza noma ukufinyelela kwabesifazane empilweni yangempela ngoba ezweni lami isimo sikhona esiyinqaba mayelana nezokuthandana.
Ukuthandana akulula.
Abantu ngokuvamile benza ukuthandana ezikhungweni noma ezikoleni.
Kodwa ngiyaphoxa, anginabantu besifazane ezikhungweni noma ezikoleni, ngakho angizukuthola nhlobo 😂.
Ngakho-ke ngaphandle kokuba kube nzima ukuthola.
Ngiyesaba ukuthi uzokhuluma ukuthini, kwenzekani uma eqhuba futhi abantu behlangana eduze kwami njengokuthi uyamkhathaza.
Kukhona izinto eziningi ezangena engqondweni, ngakho ngishintsha ngiyeke futhi ngihambe kude naye.

Ngiyesaba ukusho emphakathini ukuthi ngiyamthanda le ntokazi, ngifuna ukukhuluma noma ukushintshisana ngenombolo, kodwa angikwazi ukusho.
Anginabangane abangasiza ukuba ngithole le ntokazi engiyithandayo.
Ngakho uma ngithanda othile ngiyafihla, angizukusho, ngoba ngiyesaba ukuthi ingabe izophendula kanjani.
Angifuni ukuzithokozisa, ukuze ngibe neqiniso.

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