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Klausi
Klausi

5 Monate

ISTJ

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Does someone understand?

How many or you are actually looking for a relationship? I'm at the point where I don't know anymore. I have the feeling that I have to find someone but in the end there isn't any person I have feelings for. When I'm writing someone I'm always overwhelmed and even if we get along very well I just think about, that she would be a perfect fit in terms of "value" (I'm not referring to anything sexual here). From time to time I think about it would be nice to find someone or I have to but... do I really or is this something I just think because of aligning with the standard? I also get very upset (maybe depression idk) if I hear my friends talking about some relationships. So if I want a relationship or not, I have no idea.

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Nikita

Nikita

1 Monate

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Hey Klausi, bin auch asperger, 28 Jahre alt und Schütze (falls du auch gerne Kategorisierst). Ich würde dir eine Gegenfrage stellen, willst du Kinder bzw siehst du es als deine Pflicht und Möglichkeit eine Familie mit Kindern aufzuziehen? Weil wenn nein, dann suche nicht. Sei offen für alles was kommt und versuch dein Leben so zu genießen wie du es willst! Am Ende hat jeder Mensch seine ganz eigene Bestimmung! Wir alle scheitern mal daran, die zu sein die wir sein sollten, viele werden dabei so wie alle andern! N.Savchuk

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Jessica

Jessica

5 Monate

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Why do you think you "have to" find someone? Having a relationship is not a requirement for leading a happy, fulfilled life. If you've never had feelings for anyone so far, you might be aromantic. Or maybe you just haven't found the right person yet. There are various possibilities 🤷‍♀️ Ultimately, only YOU can decide if you want to keep looking for a partner or not. You need to figure out if it's something you actually wish for or if you really only think you "have to" because it's something people do.

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