Karlisson🇧🇷

Veröffentlicht am Mittwoch, 13. Dezember 2023

4 Monate

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The story of a perfect couple!

We agreed to go out for a snack, she peppered me with questions about what I would want to eat, she seemed more excited than usual. When we arrived at the mall I wanted to go to the bathroom and when I left I couldn't find her. Soon a message arrived: 'I'm already at the food court'. There she was buying my lunch. I'm the type of guy who doesn't mind paying the bill for his girlfriend, I think that whoever is in a better situation can help the other save a little money and, if we share our lives together, the money we save will end being the other's as well. Anyway, even though I'm the guy who pays the bill, I have to admit: That day she beat me. Not for value, but for attitude. People with attitude are what is most lacking in the world, people who do things without you asking, people who do things simply by recognizing everything you do for them. People keep discussing what should be done by the man or the woman and forget what should be done by both: Reciprocity, partnership and recognition of effort. In this 'everyone does only what is necessary' no one truly enters the other's life. What should be two people getting to know each other to share their lives becomes two people fighting over who is more right, who was more disappointed, who is more ready for a relationship. Boring thing, people without attitude. In a world full of conquest tips, the girl goes there and buys the guy a snack. Okay, she's already done more than 99% of people and their theories and games. Attitude men, attitude women. Love is conquered and whoever waits ends up being alone with the people who are also left. (bearbeitet)